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Please stop trying to contact me by any outer means except F.A.G. there are several people with my name and they are upset and please stop assuming that I am related to you because of flowers left on a memorial it has never been the case in my experience .

If my messages are off it is due to Edit changes ,transfer request and inappropriate messages being left there. Not what messages are for,there is a system for that sort of thing except inappropriate they go in the trash ,wont even read them . You may contact me thru any one my contributions but still no edits will be done there except Bio. additions . Use the edit system that what it is for. Sorry I try and try keep messaging on but it keeps getting misused. (I will make allowances for new ones who have not got the in and outs figured out yet).
When other contributors give me their appreciation & credit, it means a lot to me its the fuel that keeps us going.
New ones Flowers are no indication of relationship 99% of the time.
Hay here is a novel idea lets be nice to one another and not think the worse of one another.

I accept messages only thru F.A.G!

DC# = Death Certificate number.

To send a private message use any one of my memorials via edit tab & option ; any other suggestions. Remember be respectful in all messages.

Why do you look at the speck in your brother's eye, but fail to notice the beam in your own eye? Matthew 7:3

Please please use the edit tab not messaging for changes, transfer requests or questions so I know who what and where.
Sir name changes require documentation.
Transfer Request must be submitted by the edit tab ,if left on messaging they will be deleted with out consideration. Please read the guidelines before requesting.

If you create a non cemetery memorial you have only 30 days to move it into a cemetetry,many are creating duplicates by breaking this guide line.


All photos submitted by me are copyrighted. No use of photos for personal use is given without prior consent. No use of photos for any other website is given W.O.P.C. None of my family photos are to be used in any way. Altering my photos in any way revokes and nulifies your permission rights if they have been granted, as does useing photos with out credit.
Quote from Jim Tipton Founder after Ancestry acquisition."It will still be wrong for someone to 'steal' a photo from Find A Grave and post it other websites as if it were their own ". End of Quote.

Please remember my photos are embedded with a copyright. Request permission before using any Head stone photos or cemetery photos or person photos .

I discovered that you can't please everyone, and I will no longer try.

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