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Bio. under reconstruction pardon my mess
We had to say goodbye to Our beloved pet of 17 Yrs. today. We are hart broken. 6/4/2020.

Please be aware that if there is a mistake on a memorial it is highly likely from the automated edit system and not the contributor's fault, so please be kind and not go off on them.

I'm all about Genealogy & history and have absolutely 0 tolerance for the drama you can paint any picture of me you want, those who know me personally know the truth and they the ones who count.

Send me drama and my monitor will kick it out and I will never see it and most likely block you.

Just because someone left flowers out respect does not indicate a relationship.

I am flooded with emails about requesting graves to be transferred to them, its going to take a while I just do not have the time right now, I'm in my busy season and my time on this site is very limited.

People just do not want to read anymore the Result is endless questions that are answered right here.

I have designed this Bio. Page to answer some the most asked questions and address my concerns so I do not have to micro manage 60'000 plus memorials witch would be impossible as it would take more then 24 hours a day.

Disclaimer; I am not responsible for misinformation placed by new "editing" system.

All transfer request must be done thru edit tab on memorial any other method will not be processed allow up to 90 days.

I do not respond to any messages that are not respectful or are accusatory, or insulting end of story. I just am not going to tolerate any disrespectful communication.

Fair WARNING 2022 zero tolerance of any form of inappropriate or disrespectful message. Fed up.

Fair WARNING 2022 zero tolerance of any form of inappropriate or disrespectful message. second party Monitoring, Reporting, Email Blocking. strict action. Show respect or go elsewhere.

If you can not be civil and polite you waist your time sending me a message or note it will most defiantly immediately, be reported or deleted my choice. Bulling is in any form is a crime. I will not bend to it.

A more stern policy is defiantly needed on rudeness & bulling I'm like many others are feed up with it .

Please don't be threatening, or passive aggressive. I am a real person, with real feelings, and with a real life.

I only accept messages thru F.A.G. due to many my relatives having a similar name, it particularly upsets a widow of one. And its not needed and out of line anyway.

No. one question: I must have been out Ill the day in genealogical class when they taught that leaving flowers made you related. Come on just being funny.

If you make a mistake sending an edit (or need to add to it), you can cancel it this way:
Go to your profile (way up in the upper right corner; click on your name and choose 'profile'). Just to the right of your Bio, under 'Contributions', click on 'Suggested Edits'. This is the place where you approve all the edits that other people send you. Look at the two tabs: 'Suggestions for Me' and 'Suggestions I've Sent'. Click on that other tab 'Suggestions I've Sent' and you can then cancel it and correct or add to it.

I refuse to let bad actors mess with me so the following will occur. All troll and inappropriate messages not read and deleted or sent to F.A.G. First sign of negativity and it is in the trash. Be respectful and polite. Be polite and non accusatory we all make mistakes and you never know who made the mistake on this site.

Before sending a message please take a moment to read the directive that comes up on the message as to what and what not to use it for. I'm starting to get back please be patient.

No. 2 question: COX: On my fraternal side is brick walled at my G Grandfather
Cox on my maternal side "Cox" appears about 5 gen. back. If you think about it this answers a lot of are you related questions.

Transfer Request must be submitted by the edit tab ,if left on messaging they will be deleted with out consideration. Please read the guidelines before requesting.

Please be considerate and not send me more than 20 edits a week.

I hope you are all safe and staying home if its possible for you and if you are in the medical fount lines we are praying for you daily.

When you use my message board, it puts extra work on me to look it up and I just do not have time to do it. If the edit feature is used it takes me directly to the memorial and there is no confusion. Borrowed from another contributor but its fits.

The message tool was never meant for edits or links other tools are available for such things. After today no response will be given if no memorial number or link is given. Sorry but my time is to valuable to chase after the wind. It is getting really out hand.

I am easy to work with if your NICE.
Sending me overbearing, condescending comments
Will get you nowhere , well maybe it will get you where you don't want to be.
Some people will tear you down to build themselves up.

Cemeteries are more than a place for the dead but are storehouse's of memories.

---Parents must be added to children , a fact I have to remind people at least 30 times a week, or to put another way a contributor can only add Spouse and parents.

In order to make edits you must learn how first by reading HELP I am
spending hours a week educating people that's got to stop life is to short .

Folks I need the memorial number in your message and the correct one I/2 don't have them and 1/2 that do are not correct. It is better to send thru the memorial then links are sent or copy and past the link to your message. Or send the link in the URL bar.

Greetings -I enjoy walking my cemeteries, always have and I love to take photos they both came together here. I have made many friends here I hope you will be one to. If you are reasonable I sure we will.
In order to make edits you first need to read
Please remember my photos are embedded with a copyright. Request permission before using any Head stone photos or cemetery photos or person photos . Expressly my family photos are not to be used with out permission.

If sending me a note to back up a edit you have sent please indicate that in note or it wastes a lot time. I spend way to much time on edits. Please do not send both a suggestion and an edit on same thing ,you are gumming up the works.
Before sending edits please read how to do them first.
If you made a mistake on making an automated edit you can cancel it or change it yourself read HELP about F.A.G.

Please do not send me a message about John Doe with out a memorial number because there are a lot of John Does or any other name.

To send a private message use any one of my memorials via edit tab & option ; any other suggestions. Remember be respectful in all messages.

For information about some one in Linn,County,Kansas please contact Linn County Historical Society Pleasanton, Ks. 913-352-8739 and tell them I sent you.

This the way duplicates are handled now, under the edit tab ( on memorial) at the bottom on the left is a report a duplicate tab click that and fill in the questions and F.A.G. will merge them. Thank you

Why do you look at the speck in your brother's eye, but fail to notice the beam in your own eye? Matthew 7:3

In the event I should Pass away my daughter is recorded with F.A.G. as to take over my account.

Please use the edit tab not messaging for changes, transfer requests or questions so I know who what and where.
Sir name changes require documentation.

I now realize I cant please everyone so I will no longer try.

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