Credit Respectfully given.....
Bob Carlisle, "Butterfly Kisses"
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My years of research are 60+. Many of my direct bloodlines came to western New York beginning in 1788 and there are plenty of us still here. The majority of cemeteries through western New York have at least one or many of our family members buried within them, given the fact that all of these lines have spouses and children which increases the numbers by the thousands. This is not only a place where I can share as much as I can, to the majority at one time verse a contact with only a few at a time. I have been fortunate to have found many of my "where were they buried" family from the work that each of you volunteers have done here as well, and it has been VERY much appreciated.

I add obits, bio. information and family structure as my time permits, as I am not here 24/7/365, and I would not expect anyone else to be either. Reality still exists outside of this virtual venue, an none of us knows what happens on the other side of our monitors. Unseen does not equal nonexistence or an unwillingness to help. Kindness and patience goes a VERY long way every where, and should here as well.

I will not tolerate rude, demanding or uncivil mannerism. Messages OFF for this very reason, it only took one.

I am glad to help, but I will not do all the work for the armchair "so called"genealogist, try reading "Henny Penny", its a fantastic read, if you can learn from it.

"Yep, you quest it, I'm no spring chicken, but spring chickens don't have nearly any where near the amount of information an old hen has." Just ask my grandma, she got me stated : ) By the way, you'll have to go to the cemetery if you wanna ask her, she would be well over 120+ years if still living. Spending my summers every summer with her was fantastic!!!!

Happy Gleanings to you all & stay safe.

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My CAPS are not screaming or angry, they are: Take note, or emphasis on any given subject matter.

REGARDING My cemetery photos, posted to a memorial:

Please feel free to use them in your family history programs, which ever they may be. Please, respectfully note if you chose to use my photos: "Find A Grave, (with) Memorial #"

My Photos ARE NOT to be published in any format for profit or non profit without my WRITTEN consent. Please be respectful of this.

REGARDING Photo requests filled by me:

"You are very welcome, and I am glad I could be of service and help." And as always: "The Best to You and Yours", Butterfly~Kisses

REGARDING Photo request found or even unable to be found, due to, never has been a marked grave to begin with, elements, vandals, etc.:

"I Respectfully Thank You, for your time, effort and endeavors to fill my request."

REGARDING The use of "Our Family Photos", on any memorial I have created:

"NO." There is no reason that you would need our personal family photos.

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DO NOT POST IN THE PHOTO SECTION or FLORAL/TOKEN SECTION OF ANY OF MY MEMORIALS:

1. Copy's of Birth Certificates.
2. No family histories of any type.
3. No form of copied census records.

There is NO need for birth certificates to be place in the photo section. Family history information can be added to the bio section. If I feel the information requested to be entered is socially unacceptable or offensive in any way, I will not add it.

If the 3 above request are to complicated to understand, please find a new hobby.

Common sense, is a flower that doesn't grow, in everyone's garden.

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Credit Respectfully given.....
Bob Carlisle, "Butterfly Kisses"
ڿڰۣಌ ڿڰۣಌ ڿڰۣಌ ڿڰۣಌ ڿڰۣಌ

My years of research are 60+. Many of my direct bloodlines came to western New York beginning in 1788 and there are plenty of us still here. The majority of cemeteries through western New York have at least one or many of our family members buried within them, given the fact that all of these lines have spouses and children which increases the numbers by the thousands. This is not only a place where I can share as much as I can, to the majority at one time verse a contact with only a few at a time. I have been fortunate to have found many of my "where were they buried" family from the work that each of you volunteers have done here as well, and it has been VERY much appreciated.

I add obits, bio. information and family structure as my time permits, as I am not here 24/7/365, and I would not expect anyone else to be either. Reality still exists outside of this virtual venue, an none of us knows what happens on the other side of our monitors. Unseen does not equal nonexistence or an unwillingness to help. Kindness and patience goes a VERY long way every where, and should here as well.

I will not tolerate rude, demanding or uncivil mannerism. Messages OFF for this very reason, it only took one.

I am glad to help, but I will not do all the work for the armchair "so called"genealogist, try reading "Henny Penny", its a fantastic read, if you can learn from it.

"Yep, you quest it, I'm no spring chicken, but spring chickens don't have nearly any where near the amount of information an old hen has." Just ask my grandma, she got me stated : ) By the way, you'll have to go to the cemetery if you wanna ask her, she would be well over 120+ years if still living. Spending my summers every summer with her was fantastic!!!!

Happy Gleanings to you all & stay safe.

★ ☆ ★ ☆ ★ ☆ ★ ☆ ★ ☆ ★ ☆ ★

My CAPS are not screaming or angry, they are: Take note, or emphasis on any given subject matter.

REGARDING My cemetery photos, posted to a memorial:

Please feel free to use them in your family history programs, which ever they may be. Please, respectfully note if you chose to use my photos: "Find A Grave, (with) Memorial #"

My Photos ARE NOT to be published in any format for profit or non profit without my WRITTEN consent. Please be respectful of this.

REGARDING Photo requests filled by me:

"You are very welcome, and I am glad I could be of service and help." And as always: "The Best to You and Yours", Butterfly~Kisses

REGARDING Photo request found or even unable to be found, due to, never has been a marked grave to begin with, elements, vandals, etc.:

"I Respectfully Thank You, for your time, effort and endeavors to fill my request."

REGARDING The use of "Our Family Photos", on any memorial I have created:

"NO." There is no reason that you would need our personal family photos.

********************************

DO NOT POST IN THE PHOTO SECTION or FLORAL/TOKEN SECTION OF ANY OF MY MEMORIALS:

1. Copy's of Birth Certificates.
2. No family histories of any type.
3. No form of copied census records.

There is NO need for birth certificates to be place in the photo section. Family history information can be added to the bio section. If I feel the information requested to be entered is socially unacceptable or offensive in any way, I will not add it.

If the 3 above request are to complicated to understand, please find a new hobby.

Common sense, is a flower that doesn't grow, in everyone's garden.

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