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Bob Carlisle, "Butterfly Kisses"
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My CAPS are not screaming or angry, they are: Take note, or emphasis on any given subject matter.


Please remember our Veterans, Service Men and Woman.

Not a Word Spoken......None Needed
Link - https://www.youtube.com/embed/uoABty_zE00?rel=0

A Veteran, whether active duty, discharged, retired, reserve or passed away, is someone who at one point in their life, wrote a blank check made payable to The United States of America, for an amount up to, and including their life.


There are many unmarked graves in any given cemetery and we mark them when known, in the "Add Note" section:

Or (depending on which family member is on)


REGARDING my cemetery photos, posted to a memorial:

Please feel free to use them in your family history programs, which ever they may be. Please, respectfully note if you chose to use my photos: "Find A Grave, (with) Memorial #"

My Photos ARE NOT to be published in any format for profit or non profit without my WRITTEN consent. Please be respectful of this.

REGARDING photo requests filled by me:

"You are very welcome, and I am glad I could be of service and help." And as always:
"The Best to You and Yours", Butterfly~Kisses

REGARDING photo request found or even unable to be found, due to, never has been a marked grave to begin with, elements, vandals, etc.:

"I Respectfully Thank You, for your time, effort and endeavors to fill my request."

REGARDING the new photo transcribing system:

"You are welcome and I am glad I could be of service to help with your endeavors."

REGARDING the use of "Our Family Photos", on any memorial I have created:

"NO." There is no reason that you would need our personal family photos.


1. Birth Certificates
2. Marriage Certificates
3. Death Certificates
4. Newspaper Obituaries

B. M. & D. certificates ARE NOT PHOTOS.

Newspaper obituaries ARE NOT EITHER, taking a photograph of the obituary DOES NOT change the classification, neither does a computer manipulation.

1. Obituaries of any type.
2. No family histories.

I add obits, bio's, information and family structure as "My" time permits.

RUDE, MEAN & NASTY will get you no where.

Common sense, is a flower that doesn't grow, in everyone's garden.

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I live here, in western New York, and I have 229 years of direct bloodline family roots here beginning in large, but not exclusive to, Ontario County only. 1st in our blood line arrived in 1788, when we were still Montgomery County, Ontario sectioned off in 1791 and so on for the other counties.

I have 56+ years of family research and 51+ years of archiving cemeteries, locally and where our ancestors came from. "My" cemetery information comes from my own blood, sweat, tears and hard work, not to mention costs to accomplish this feat. So before you go off half cocked, with "MY FAMILY", "MY LINE", etc., remember, a reasonable number of original settlers bloodlines still live here. My bloodline is one of them, thus my extensive knowledge of our area and my willingness to share.

REMEMBER, this is a "FINAL DISPOSITION" site, NOT a genealogical site. While such stated, I have been more than glad to share more than a half a centuries worth of information for FREE!! here at Find A Grave, to help others looking for lineal connections, and any other family information I may be able to supply.

PLEASE, be respectful, to those of us who are still here and have made information available to help your family research endeavors. This also includes many other wonderful volunteers who have worked hard in collecting cemetery information and adding it here at Find A Grave. Their work should also never be taken for granted.

THANK YOU !! To all those who have shared your time and information, at your locations, throughout the world, to help us other volunteers follow our respective lineages, on their travels to their destinations and lineages beyond.

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Spend some time leaving a flower or token for someone who has lost a family member or friend and took time to create a memorial for them. What a simple Kind gesture when someone is hurting and going through the grieving process, whether you know them or not. Sometimes, there are no words spoken in any language that can express as best we can, ones condolences in the loss of someones family member or friend, but a simple symbolic jester may say more than you'll ever know. Their loss could have been recent, a year ago, 5 years, 10 years, or longer, but the kind jester still means the same. It's not just about those who came before us, our humanity toward others speaks "VOLUMES" of who "WE" are, and who we descend from.

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