Gary Boughton

Member for
15 years · 3 months · 1 day
Find a Grave ID


Connecticut Based.

Love begins with a smile...grows with a kiss...and ends with a teardrop...

A cemetery is not a place just to bury the dead. It should be a sacred place for quiet reflection, peace, tranquility, honor, and remembrance. It is a history of people and a perpetual record of yesterday.

I have traveled many thousands of miles to many different states just to visit a gravesite, record the GPS location and photograph the gravestone. Not being the best photographer, I take many photos of the same gravestone over the course of, hours, a day, months, or many years, in order to get a photo that I am happy with at the time. In this way, I have a chance to revisit the gravesite; check the condition of the gravestone; see if it's still there, etc. I am now in the process of revisiting gravesites to record their GPS location and that of the gravestones.

I, Gary Boughton, give you permission to use any photo I have taken if you are kind enough to give me credit for the photo. (Everyone likes to be recognized for their time & effort) Thanks so very much. This also adds provenance to the photo, that I actually visited the gravesite on a certain day, photographed the gravestone at the correctly named cemetery, and when I can record the GPS location.

I will not use chalk, shaving cream, brake fluid, or any other potentially harmful methods to enhance the inscriptions. Please do not use these on any photo requests I make, Thank you so very much.

Although FINDAGRAVE can be very useful for genealogy, FINDAGRAVE, as the name implies, is a grave registration site, not a genealogy site. I try to use this as my guide when on this site.

I will NOT add a link to a burial-unknown memorial because I am still actively looking for where the person is actually buried. This site is named Find a GRAVE for a reason.

Did you add an edit and wish you hadn't? Check Below.

No Problem. Just so you know there is a way to delete these suggestions yourself.

Log in to your account.
Click "Profile" to go to that page.
When this page loads in the "Contributions" menu box you will see at the top of the box "Suggested Edits" open this screen.
When this page loads it defaults to Suggestions for Me. Choose the other option and click on "Suggestions I've Sent"
This page gives you a view of all the suggested edits you have made and gives you the option to remove the request.

Try it.

Hope this helps,

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