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First, my deepest thanks to those who have kept my spirits up by being supportive friends and who have honored my dear ones so faithfully.|
I still find myself trying to focus on the theme of rebirth, and trying to shake the gloom of close losses in the past few years.
Our Romberger Family Association founder, the gent who found our original immigrant ancestor and his family home in Germany, a friend and genealogical mentor has passed. Thank you if you can honor Dr. John A. Romberger. The day we laid Dr. John to rest, another Doctor left us - my dear godfather, Dr. Edwin R. Baldrige. Since then my silversmith teacher, some of my favorite school teachers, and guiding figures from my church have also passed. It sort of feels like my mentors are all taking flight.
I'm finding using the site difficult right now. Some people have found it very therapeutic after a loss. Unfortunately, it has the opposite effect on me; I see all the losses of my fellow contributors, and it makes me feel terrible. I see your now-gone loved ones, and in a small way I re-live the loss of my loved ones. I think my feelings are still too close to the surface to be so easily stirred.
If you have a moment, would you kindly visit Paula Buckley? This awesomely kind lady has probably flowered your loved ones, and sadly it's now time for us to flower her.
If you are wondering whom else to visit, perhaps you'd kindly look in on my dearest.
And if you have another moment, please consider leaving a token for our fellow contributor, White Light.
Picture use: You are welcome to use pictures for offline personal use, but I do NOT consent for their use online or on commercial or paid sites. FindAGrave is about sharing what you know, and I will not have my good will co-opted and monetized. I saw some of my pics stolen from here and put on ancestry.com and I am taking action to correct this.
Transfers and suggestions: Forgive me, but experience has been a harsh teacher. I used to be very cool about transferring, but I've had about enough of being easy about this. I'll gladly transfer the memorials of anyone not related or without meaning to me in a heartbeat, and I have hundreds to give away. But on family, I'm adopted, working on both birth and adopted families. I have a lot of family to cover, possibly double the size of yours, and I have not articulated my relationship to the subject of every memorial for privacy reasons. Rather than quibble, I would be gladder still to improve a memorial with your suggestions sent via SAC. Let's do the right thing and make the memorial accurate, suitable and a reflection of that person's life. You can put the improved memorial in a "virtual cemetery" without needing ownership of it, as I have done with relatives that other contributors have added to the site. I can add links or the info you wish, and you are welcome to add pictures.
On the other hand, if the memorial is one I have added by chance or the subject is no one related to me or is one to whom I have no attachment, I will offer to transfer instantly.
FindAGrave memorials are online representations of real graves, not trading cards. I don't collect them for numbers and am frankly relieved to see them go to family if they have no connection and meaning to me. There are relatives of mine another contributor has memorialized on the site that I do not "own" and have not asked for, content that I have added the info I have, and linked them to their kin.
"Many African societies divide humans into three categories; those still alive on earth, the sasha, and the zamani. The recently departed whose time on earth overlapped with people still here are the sasha, the living-dead. They are not wholly dead, for they still live in the memories of the living, who can call them to mind, create their likeness in art, and bring them to life in anecdote. When the last person to know an ancestor dies, that ancestor leaves the sasha for the zamani, the dead. As generalized ancestors, the zamani are not forgotten but revered. Many can be recalled by name. But they are not living-dead. There is a difference." -- from "Lies My Teacher Told Me" by James Loewen
So perhaps the progression of the living to the sasha to the zamani cannot be helped, but we record here those we knew, both sasha and zamani, and leave some record of them. And if they are sashas to us, perhaps our record keeps them sashas longer as we offer our first hand accounts of them.
It bothers me that time passes, because I sense my friends and family members moving out of sight as they pass through the celestial plan, or whatever you like to call it. I am just conscious that our grip on those we know and love is constantly eroding. I think this is why I have been drawn to FindAGrave; I can't stop people from dying, but I can stop them from being forgotten, and can see the lives of people other contributors feel the same about, those they don't want to shift out of focus as time clouds memories and people who knew others pass on. Here, at least, we can freeze them in time and recount all that made them good or special.
Your visits to my loved ones mean a lot to me. They mean my folks here are not forgotten, and honor people I really loved or respected or took the time to research, so thank you. I enjoy honoring people remembered on Find a Grave, and do take the time to read bio info on memorials. I appreciate knowing about the people other folks want remembered.
Every memorial entered here has been done with respect and good intent, in the hopes dear ones will not be forgotten. Any concerns, additions and so on are most welcome here on this page.
Random research note for another day:
Village Record on March 26, 1823 — Marriage — Marriage On the 20th inst. by Walker Yarnall, Esq. Mr. JOSEPH HUNTER, to Miss MARY ANN STARKEY, both of Aston, Delaware county.
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|Tony Clark||74870072 Francis Starkey|
HAPPY WEDNESDAY !!!
we are a team of volunters searching My Hope, Aston, PA for our Veterans. Is Frank a Vet ? he's of the right age for WW I. As for that matter. Are any of your memorials Vets ? And that question goes out to all that visit find a grave. We are also " looking for a few good hands".
Hi, I read your bio for Albert Linsley #176909315 at the Jeffersonville Presbyterian Church Cemetery about Mary probably not being buried there. I know that some church records are incorrect and some did not keep such good records. I did add a memorial, however, if you find out in the future that she is buried elsewhere please let me know.
Added by DebVassa on Sep 11, 2017 4:00 PM
|Jim Davis||Totie Fields bio|
Thank you for creating a great bio for Totie. She has always been a favorite of mine. I read your profile page and just wanted to say that I hope you're feeling better and that perhaps your summer reminded you of the beauty of life. I know it's so hard sometimes, I send you warm thoughts and wishes! Jim
|I. T. Mudgett||RE: Hannah Loder children|
Thank you. I have sent her a request to correct her duplicate entry.
|Jerry Haas||RE: Thank you|
Many thanks for the kind words. I just keep hoping that some day this information will be of use to some researcher. Regards, Jerry Haas - UWE Volunteer
Hello - If you remove 1-2 of the docs you placed on this memorial, I will add photos of the stone. 74870072
Please let me know when/if you do. Thank you. Kimberly
Added by Kimberly on Aug 23, 2017 11:11 AM
|Harry Habbersett||Joseph Francis Starkey, Sr at Mt. Hope|
If you send me your email address, I'll send you images of Joseph's WW II draft registration card and the Penna. "compensation" he received for his service in the Army during the war. Besides the 5 months he served "stateside", he was in "Foreign Service" for 16 months (but I don't know where).
|Michael Harshbarger||RE: Erminie Smith|
|Marilyn Crawford||Mabel Fleck|
Mabel was a good friend and cousin of my grandmother. I have a feeling that she married late in life. She and her husband, Jack visited my grandparents often and I believe that they took a vacation with them. I remember meeting them when I was a child. If you would like to communication with me please feel free.
|tina definis||RE: Henry Huebner|
yes my Henry/Harry/Heinrich Gotlieb Huebner, my 2nd great uncle was born 1 Nov 1889 or 1 Nov 1890. His parents were Albert Huebner and Elizabeth Goebert. The census info you posted for 1900 and 1910 is indeed for my Harry and family not the other Henry. I can see why its confusing, the same names and similar birthdates. My Henry married Mildred clark 14 Nov 1911. She passed away 27 Aug 1957, and on all the census and her obit, she was still married to Uncle Harry. He died 31 Jan 1958 and is buried at Forrest Hills Cemetery. Thanks for making the corrections:) Take care, Tina
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