The death of a family member or friend is an emotional time and in most circumstances the first thought is not about creating a memorial on this website. There are various opinions on the appropriate timing of creating memorials. My thought is that if I create the memorial, it can always be transferred to family or friend to manage.
I generally honor most transfer requests, but it must include the memorial # and your relationship. For messages sent to my message board, again, I will always need the memorial # to send a reply.
If you use the Suggest other corrections option, please be specific in what you are suggesting, requesting or sending to me. I get sent alot of stuff, that requires me to 'read your mind.' I still haven't learned how to do that, so please make the effort to provide me with enough information before you hit that Send Message button.