I am the mother of five daughters, two are step children, I lost a daughter in 2002. My life will never be the same again, I became interested in find a grave from a lady named Shannon Longstrech, for she had kindly created this site for my daughter and sent her home to me. I would like to Thank her for this! It really helps me when I feel so far away from Pamela. I am the Grandmother of 8... Five boys, and three girls. I feel a little closer to my daughter when I come here to visit. I would like to Thank all of you that visit my daughters grave and leave messages. It really helps me to cope on my bad days. Pamela was my oldest daughter and she is as beautiful as the day is bright. Inside and out. I would like to Thank my mother for she is my Rock, if not for her kindness and giving way, She has really helped me a lot thru this ordeal and she continues to do so to this day. I Love you Mom.