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May 18th my great granddaughter was born early this morning and she is in Heaven. She joined her grandmother Valencia this morning. We are all devastated and so distraught. Please keep Milan in prayer, thank you and God bless.|
May 19th - Thank you for all the support, prayers and love that is given to our family during such a difficult time. I am blessed with beautiful and loving friends. Will be offline.
♥ڿڰۣಌ I am blessed to be a Mother, just wish I wasn't a Grieving Mother ڿڰۣಌ♥
♥ڿڰۣಌ The most painful tears are not the ones that fall from my eyes and cover my face, it's the ones that fall from my heart and cover my soul ڿڰۣಌ♥
IF TIME PERMITS,
Would you kindly remember Rhonda, and her beloved daughter, Kristan, Kristan's case remains unsolved
Mariesa, Crystal's daughter
Kendall, Robyn's Sister
Saw this on fb....
I hate seeing my parents grow old <3
I love them so much
I deserve them for a longer time :'( to be here
Life is just not fair. God took my mom away too young and my dad is whatever,
But I just have to pray to keep my grandparents aka mom & dad healthy cause I need them I never wanna lose them <3 ~ written by Milan
I came across this poem and wanted to share,
Unless you've lost a child.......then don't ask us if we are over it yet. We'll never be over it. A part of us died with our child. Don't tell us they are in a better place. They are not here with us, where they belong. Don't say at least they are not suffering. We haven't come to terms with why they suffered at all. Don't tell us at least we have other children. Which of your children would you have sacrificed? Don't ask us if we feel better. Bereavement isn't a condition that clears up. Don't force your beliefs on us. Not all of us have the same faith. Don't tell us at least we had our child for so many years. What year would you choose for your child to die? Don't tell us God never gives us more than we can bear. Right now we don't feel we can handle anything else. Don't avoid us. We don't have a contagious disease, just unbearable pain. Don't tell us you know how we feel, unless you have lost a child. No other loss can compare to losing a child. It's not the natural order of things. Don't take our anger personally. We don't know who we are angry at or why and lash out at those closest to us. Don't whisper behind us when we enter a room. We are in pain, but not deaf. Don't stop calling us after the initial loss. Our grief does not stop there and we need to know others are thinking of us. Don't be offended when we don't return calls right away. We take each moment as it comes and some are worse than others. Don't tell us to get on with our lives. We each grieve differently and in our own time frame. Grief can not be governed by any clock or calendar. Do say you are sorry. We're sorry, too, and you saying that you share our sorrow is far better than saying any of those tired cliches you don't really mean anyway. Just say you're sorry. Do put your arms around us and hold us. We need your strength to get us through each day. Do say you remember our child, if you do. Memories are all we have left and we cherish them. Do let us talk about our child. Our child lived and still lives on in our hearts, forever. Do mention our child's name. It will not make us sad or hurt our feelings. Do let us cry. Crying is an important part of the grief process. Cry with us if you want to. Do remember us on special dates. Our child's birth date, death date and holidays are a very lonely and difficult time for us without our child. Do send us cards on those dates saying you remember our child. We do. Do show our family that you care. Sometimes we forget to do that in our own pain. Do be thankful for children. Nothing hurts us worse than seeing other people in pain. ~ Author Unknown
IT'S AN ANGEL MOM THING, BE THANKFUL YOU DON'T UNDERSTAND
Dedicated to Yo, with very great love...Hugs, Sue
**My Daughter and Me**
My daughter's birthday is not all her own, a mother was born mid those tears..
Along with her first breath was my first breath as a mom -
By her first birthday we'd shared nearly two years!
My child's Angel Day is not all her own, her mother perished mid those tears.
With her final heartbeat my own froze in time, unable to live through a mother's worst fears.
Birthday by birthday I still celebrate with love all the beautiful memories I own
Till my Angel Day comes and I'm laughing and hugging my baby again and the sorrow is gone.
© SSBJ 2011 mother to beautiful, Rhysa
Thanks to everyone for the tributes to my memorials, especially for little JOVONIE. Simple random act of kindness deeply touches and comforts my heart. Also thank you to my Comforting Angel Friends for listing MY DAUGHTER'S, ANGEL OF MINE memorial page, on your virtual cemetery and THANK YOU FOR HELPING ME KEEP MY DAUGHTER VALENCIA'S MEMORY ALIVE. With the help of my findagrave friends, my Valencia will always be remembered. The beautiful, loving sentiments are heartfelt and I am deeply touched by them all, your caring and thoughtfulness is so overwhelming. HUGE THANKS FOR YOUR CARING HEARTS AND FRIENDSHIP
~♥~ GOD BLESS YOU ALWAYS, LOVE YO ~♥~
♥♥ ڿڰۣಌ ~The most beautiful people we have known are those who have known defeat, known suffering, known struggle, known loss, and have found their way out of the depths. These persons have an appreciation, a sensitivity and an understanding of life that fills them with compassion, gentleness, and a deep loving concern. Beautiful people do not just happen ♥♥ڿڰۣಌ
~ Elisabeth Kubler-Ross
HEARTFELT THANK YOU to Always with Love for originally created my ღAngelsღ memorial in Sept 2003. It wasn't until 2006, that I discovered my daughter had a memorial on here.
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