"I publish photos and create memorials here for the benefit of present and future generations. If you want to publish my gravestone photos on any website that you contribute to (except FindaGrave, according to FAQ#142), include in the photo caption "used with the written permission of Shelly (#47100402) at FindaGrave" and keep a screen-print of this page for your records. Copyright laws require you to obtain permission to use a photograph, and conditionally - based on your integrity - you have it! Understand that merely attributing credit does not comply with the law."
The above is a quote from Findagrave.com Volunteer Chip5610 and with his permission I have posted it to my own Findagrave.com profile. His words sum up my feelings exactly. Thank you Chip5610!!