I am or was just a mother of two of the greatest kids that ever was. Loving, happy and very compassionate they were. Ryan Mathew Hair my 13 year old died when he was struck and killed by a speeding car doing 64 in a 30 mph zone as Ryan tried to cross the street. That was 3 days after my birthday and was on Memorial day May 26th 1997. I was then terrified of losing my only other child Ali Rassul Saiedipour. He was 17 when his brother was killed and they were together. Ali had a lot of problems after his brother was killed he got into drugs and alcohol. And every time he left the house I waited for the phone to ring. I knew an official would call me to tell he he had been in an accident. That phone call came on December 5th 2004. Ali had finally settled down and straightened his life up so much and was engaged to be married the following fall. On December 5th I was called only to be told by Ali's fiance's mother that there had been an accident. As Ali and his fiance were driving to another town for rehersals in the NUTCRACKER BALLET where Ali's fiance was to play the lead They were hit head on by a man passing in a no passing zone on a two lane highway. I was told to hurry and get to the hospital. Where he died just before i got there. My life will never again be the same. I will never be a grandmother I never got to sit on the front row of a church and watch either of my children get married. I now live every day wishing I was with my boys.
When I go to a cemetary to take a photo of a grave that has been requested, I take other photos of headstones and add them to findagrave also. It is all done out of complete respect and sympathy for the family members. If I have added someone in your family and you would like to take ownership or if there is an error please let me know.