Also known as Sallie or Tinker

Parents
Thomas Fletcher Ham (1838-1895)
Mary Ann Amelia Harkey (1846-1895)

Siblings
Thomas Holland Ham (1863-1927)
Frances Elizabeth Ham-Pierce (1866-1933)
Lewis Ham (1868-1936)
Jones Mack Ham (1870-1945)
John Wilbur Ham (1874-1940)
Mary Louise "Mollie" Ham-Johnson (1872-1929)
Maggie Belle Ham-Smotherman (1878-1905)
Clara Amelia Ham-Mattics (1883-1953)
Grace Pearl Ham-Tatum (1886-1961)
Allie Hugh Ham (1888-1906)
Frank Ham (1890-died as infant)

Spouse
John Bennett
Married 19 December 1897 , Nesbit, Missouri
Charles A. Courtney (1856-1912)
Married 12 August 1900, Craighead, Arkansas

Children with John Bennett:
Clara France Bennett (1899-1945)
Pearl Lottie Bennett (1900-1972)

Children with Charles Courtney:
Anna Mae Courtney-Booth-Morgan (1903-1987)
Ida B. Courtney

Stepchildren of Charles Courtney:
Elizabeth Mary "Lizzie" Courtney-Morgan (1886-?}
Albert O. Courtney (1888-1929)
Charlotta Lou "Lottie" Courtney-Booth (1893-1963)
James Archie Courtney (1898-1943)

Marriage License
State of Missouri - County of Dunklin
This License authorizes any Judge of a Court of Record, Justice of the Peace, or any licensed or ordained Preacher of the Gospel, who is a Citizen of the United States, to SOLEMNIZE MARRIAGES between Mr, John T. Bennett of Caruth in the County of Dunklin and the State of Missouri who is of the age of twenty-one years, and Miss Sarah Ham of Nesbit in the County of Dunklin and the State of Missouri who is of the age of eighteen years.
Witness my hand as Circuit Clerk and Ex-Officio Recorder of Deeds with the Seal of Office hereto affixed, at my office in Kennett, this 18th day of December 1897 by (Blank), Deputy J.B. Blakemore, Circuit Clerk and Ex-Officio Recorder.
State of Missouri, County of Dunklin
THIS IS TO CERTIFY That the undersigned A Ordained Preacher did, at Nesbit in said county, on the 19th day of December A.D. 1897. Unite in Marriage the above named persons, and I further certify that I am a citizen of the United States and legally qualified under the laws of the State of Missouri to solemnize Marriage. A.A.Saffold.
Filed for recorded on the December 21st 1897 by Orcaile Blakemore Deputy, J.B. Blakemore, Circuit Clerk and Ex-Officio Recorder

"Arkansas, County Marriages, 1837-1957," Sallie Bennett, 1900
name: Charles H Courtney
event: Marriage
event date: 12 Aug 1900
event place: , Craighead, Arkansas, United States
age:
estimated birth year:
residence: Lake City, Arkansas
spouse: Sallie Bennett
spouse's age:
spouse's estimated birth year:
spouse's residence: Cane Island, Arkansas
marriage license date:
page: 94
film number: 1302581
digital folder number: 004338431
image number: 00472
Citing this Record
"Arkansas, County Marriages, 1837-1957," index and images, FamilySearch (https://familysearch.org/pal:/MM9.1.1/N9SB-H3F : accessed 20 Oct 2012), Charles H Courtney and Sallie Bennett, 1900.
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A family tree by marthasmith486 at ancestry.com tipped me off to Sallie's remarriage to a Charles Henry Courtney before I found the record above. This tree did not have the first name of Sallie's first husband but gives his parents as John F Bennett born 1839 in Indiana, and mother M E Bennett born 1829 in Georgia. That's the end of the line for the moment.

In the 1910 census you can see that Charles had a family before he married Sallie and the family tree says the first wife's name was Julia Carpenter, mother to 4 children with Charles, 3 of which are represented in this census, (Elizabeth Mary 'Lizzie" Courtney b.1886 is missing). Because Charles married Sallie in 1900, the last two are their children and there are two more children that did not survive to see 1910; James Edward Courtney 1901-1902 and Charles Hugh Courtney 1905-1908. Sallie is widowed once again two years after this census with more young children. What a rough life!