McCaleb, soon after his majority, on February 5, 1828, married Elizabeth Collett, a sister of John Collett, Esq., of Burke, and Abraham Collett, of Cherokee County and settled in what was then known as the upper dark hollow of the Yadkin River, where he kindled the cheerful light of a home, since widely known as well for the thrift and hospitality of its inmates as for the noble brood of sons and daughters reared and trained under its shelter. Here sixteen children were born to him, of whom thirteen are known: John C Coffey(d-young), Thomas Jefferson(b1828) and William Columbus(b1839), Charles Lewis(b1830),and Henry Clay Coffey(b12/31/1841)and six daughters: Laura Coffey(d-young),Sarah Amelia(b1831), Mary Louisa(b1836), Margaret E(b1837), Martha E(b1840), Francis Caroline(b1839) and Rachel Minerva Coffey(b1850). Preceding him in death was James F Coffey(bca1843).
Without seeking to praise the living, it is but justice to the dead to say that children so taught by precept or example as these have been are the best gifts a citizen can bestow upon the State. To their prudence, energy, and uprightness their several counties owe much, and their immediate neighborhoods very much of their prosperity and reputation. McCaleb Coffey was one of the last and best specimens of an almost extinct class of men. He was a hunter, pioneer, and backwoods farmer. Never long absent from the place where he first laid his hearthstone, commencing life with scanty means, he was able by steady work and just dealing to erect a slightly and commodious mansion, to raise a large family and equip them for active life, and to accumulate a sufficient fortune for the support of his old age.
While never seeking public position, be was once induced by the united voices of his fellow citizens to act as chairman of the first Board of our County Commissioners, and made a faithful and painstaking officer.
He died February 17, 1881, at his home about a mile above Patterson on the left side of 321 north bound, and was buried February 19, at Harper's Chapel, within sight of the roof tree under which he was born. Without ambition, save to live uprightly and do what he found to be his duties at home, of rare prudence in speech and action, never busied in the affairs of others, inflexibly just, yet not uncharitable, this plain farmer's long life was so useful, clean, and pure that as he was followed to his grave by three generations of his descendants and a large concourse of his neighbors. After more than three-fourths of a century spent under the shadow of the same hills that towered over his birthplace, there was not one in all the throng who pressed near the coffin for a last look at the well-known gray head but who could say, "a good man is gone."
From: Thomas Coffey and His Descendants, pgs. 95-96
McCaleb, soon after his majority, on February 5, 1828, married Elizabeth Collett, a sister of John Collett, Esq., of Burke, and Abraham Collett, of Cherokee County and settled in what was then known as the upper dark hollow of the Yadkin River, where he kindled the cheerful light of a home, since widely known as well for the thrift and hospitality of its inmates as for the noble brood of sons and daughters reared and trained under its shelter. Here sixteen children were born to him, of whom thirteen are known: John C Coffey(d-young), Thomas Jefferson(b1828) and William Columbus(b1839), Charles Lewis(b1830),and Henry Clay Coffey(b12/31/1841)and six daughters: Laura Coffey(d-young),Sarah Amelia(b1831), Mary Louisa(b1836), Margaret E(b1837), Martha E(b1840), Francis Caroline(b1839) and Rachel Minerva Coffey(b1850). Preceding him in death was James F Coffey(bca1843).
Without seeking to praise the living, it is but justice to the dead to say that children so taught by precept or example as these have been are the best gifts a citizen can bestow upon the State. To their prudence, energy, and uprightness their several counties owe much, and their immediate neighborhoods very much of their prosperity and reputation. McCaleb Coffey was one of the last and best specimens of an almost extinct class of men. He was a hunter, pioneer, and backwoods farmer. Never long absent from the place where he first laid his hearthstone, commencing life with scanty means, he was able by steady work and just dealing to erect a slightly and commodious mansion, to raise a large family and equip them for active life, and to accumulate a sufficient fortune for the support of his old age.
While never seeking public position, be was once induced by the united voices of his fellow citizens to act as chairman of the first Board of our County Commissioners, and made a faithful and painstaking officer.
He died February 17, 1881, at his home about a mile above Patterson on the left side of 321 north bound, and was buried February 19, at Harper's Chapel, within sight of the roof tree under which he was born. Without ambition, save to live uprightly and do what he found to be his duties at home, of rare prudence in speech and action, never busied in the affairs of others, inflexibly just, yet not uncharitable, this plain farmer's long life was so useful, clean, and pure that as he was followed to his grave by three generations of his descendants and a large concourse of his neighbors. After more than three-fourths of a century spent under the shadow of the same hills that towered over his birthplace, there was not one in all the throng who pressed near the coffin for a last look at the well-known gray head but who could say, "a good man is gone."
From: Thomas Coffey and His Descendants, pgs. 95-96
Inscription
McCaleb Coffey
Born
Aug. 22 1803
Died
Feb 17 1881
Aged
77 yr. 5 mo. 25 da.
Family Members
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CPT Thomas Jefferson Caffey
1828–1901
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Sarah Amelia Coffey Steele
1830–1901
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Charles Lewis Coffey
1830–1916
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John B. Coffey
1834–1835
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Mary L. Coffey Nelson
1836–1863
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Margaret E. Coffey
1837–1873
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William Columbus Coffey
1839–1920
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Frances Caroline "Carrie" Coffey Farthing
1839–1922
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Martha Elizabeth Coffey
1840–1927
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Sgt Henry Clay Coffey
1841–1906
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Pvt James F. Coffey
1845–1862
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Rachel Minerva Coffey Coffey
1850–1910
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Julia Jane "Jennie" Coffey
1852–1954
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Laura Louise Coffey
1853–1857
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