https://www.familysearch.org/tree/person/details/LCCH-VQN

NOTE:
There is a Henry Parmer Sr, b. 1826, who has a son also named Henry Parmer Spivey but he is born 1863.
1880: https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:MD7V-SSS

In the 1900 census Henry & Bettie are living in Louisiana for some reason. Living with them is a son named Andrew born Oct 1899 in TN. Andrew does not show up in the 1910 census, so he may have died young.
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Henry Spivey / United States Census, 1880
Event Place: District 8, Jackson Co., Tennessee
Gender: Male
Age: 2
Marital Status: Single
Race: White
Relationship to Head of Household: Son
Birth Year (Estimated): 1878
Birthplace: Tennessee
Father's Birthplace: Tennessee
Mother's Birthplace: Tennessee

Household Role Sex Age Birthplace
Bishop Spivey Self Male 23Tennessee
Nancy A Spivey Wife Female 24 Tennessee
William H Spivey Son Male 3 Tennessee
Henry Spivey Son Male 2 Tennessee
Joseph M Spivey Son Male 0 Tennessee
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Henry Sivey / United States Census, 1900
Event Place (Original): ED 136 Ward 10 Rigolette, Rapides Co., Louisiana
Age: 22
Marital Status: Married
Birth Date: Aug 1878
Birthplace: Tennessee
Marriage Year (Estimated): 1898
Father's Birthplace: Tennessee
Mother's Birthplace: Tennessee
Relationship to Head of Household: Head

Household Role Sex Age Birthplace
Henry Sivey Head Male 22 Tennessee
Bettie Sivey Wife Female 19 Tennessee
Andrew Sivey Son Male 1 Tennessee
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Henry Spivey / United States Census, 1910
Event Place: Civil District 15, Jackson Co., Tennessee
Age: 31
Marital Status: Married
Birth Year (Estimated): 1879
Relationship to Head of Household: Head

Household Role Sex Age Birthplace
Henry Spivey Head Male 31 Tennessee
Bettie Spivey Wife Female 30 Tennessee
Calvin Spivey Son Male 9 Tennessee
Mertel Spivey Daughter Female 7 Tennessee
Lassey Spivey Daughter Female 5 Tennessee
Gracy Spivey Daughter Female 1 Tennessee
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Henry P Spivey / United States Census, 1920
Event Place: Civil District 15, Jackson Co., Tennessee
Age: 40
Marital Status: Married
Can Read: Yes
Can Write: Yes
Own or Rent: Own
Birth Year (Estimated): 1880
Relationship to Head of Household: Head

Household Role Sex Age Birthplace
Henry P Spivey Head Male 40 Tennessee
Bettie Spivey Wife Female 38 Tennessee
Calvin Spivey Son Male 19 Tennessee
Myrtle Spivey Daughter Female 16 Tennessee
Lassie Spivey Daughter Female 14 Tennessee
Grace Spivey Daughter Female 11 nnessee
Alvis Spivey Son Male 8 Tennessee
Ruth Spivey Daughter Female 3 Tennessee
Modine Spivey Daughter Female 1 Tennessee
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Henry Spivey / United States Census, 1930
Event Place: Civil District 15, Jackson, Tennessee
Age: 51
Marital Status: Married
Birth Year (Estimated): 1879
Relationship to Head of Household: Head

Household Role Sex Age Birthplace
Henry Spivey Head Male 51 Tennessee
Bettie Spivey Wife Female 49 Tennessee
Grace Spivey Daughter Female 21 Tennessee
Alvis Spivey Son Male 18 Tennessee
Ruth Spivey Daughter Female 16 Tennessee
Modine Spivey Daughter Female 12 Tennessee
Juanita Spivey Daughter Female 8 Tennessee
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Henry P Spivey / United States Census, 1940
Event Place: Civil District 15, Jackson Co., Tennessee
Last Place of Residence: Rural, Jackson Co., Tennessee
Age: 61
Marital Status: Married
Birth Year (Estimated): 1879
Relationship to Head of Household Head

Household Role Sex Age Birthplace
Henry P Spivey Head Male 61 Tennessee
Bettie F Spivey Wife Female 59 Tennessee
Gracy M Spivey Daughter Female 31 Tennessee
Anna R Spivey Daughter Female 24 Tennessee
Modene Spivey Daughter Female 21 Tennessee
Waneda Spivey Daughter Female 18 Tennessee
Sassena Spivey Daughter Female 34 Tennessee
Eva L Baily Granddaughter Female 13 Tennessee
Walter A Baily Grandson Male 12 Tennessee
Luela F Purcel Sister-in-law Female 73 Tennessee
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