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Helen Margaret <I>Miller</I> DeVier

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Helen Margaret Miller DeVier

Birth
Baltimore City, Maryland, USA
Death
13 Feb 1985 (aged 86)
Randallstown, Baltimore County, Maryland, USA
Burial
Baltimore, Baltimore City, Maryland, USA Add to Map
Plot
Rose Hill 83
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Grammy was a fiercely independent woman who learn to drive while in her teens. She graduated from Eastern Female High School (now called Samuel Gompers Vocational High - the original school was built in 1870 and converted to a Grammar School in 1907 - Gompers was built in 1904) in 1916 and went on to graduate from the Peabody Conservatory with a degree in organ performance. She had studied piano with Gertrude Sappington and gave several recitals, using Liszt's The Erl King to audition for Peabody. She received a letter from Goucher College offering interest and more information, but ultimately she chose Peabody. She was always at a keyboard, be it the organ in her church, our family's piano, or (from what I understand) a baby grand in a ship's ballroom while on a cruise.

She met my grandfather on a trip to Harrisonburg with an uncle. Her father's brother managed Wise Brothers - a shirt manufacturer located in the city. They were engaged on May 6, 1921, she received her ring in June and they were married on February 18, 1922 in the parlor of the family home. It is interesting to note that despite the wedding being obviously planned, Grammy wore not white, but a brown satin canton crepe dress which was beaded in bronze. She did carry roses, but the wedding was tiny - on 45 people present including the minister and his wife. The only people present from Granddaddy's side of the family were his 18 year old sister, Edythe and his younger brother Amiss, who stood as his best man. Neither his father nor his mother were present. Granddaddy took Grammy to New York for their honeymoon and in March she moved to Harrisonburg and settled at 218 N. High Street. They eventually moved to 637 S. Mason Street in what is now part of downtown very near to James Madison University and the hospital. In fact, the hospital still stands virtually across the street.

When my father was born in 1936, she became very ill afterwards. The RH factor played a part in several miscarriages, one before her eldest Charles, Jr. was born in 1924, and several after her second son, Clinton was born. Dad was born hemorrhaging and was rushed to the hospital (he was born at home) where the jugular in his neck was cauterized. He was also a "blue baby" - not from a cardiac defect, but from the antibodies in his mother's blood, working to destroy his red blood cells. Again, he was taken to the hospital and (per his older brother) transfused directly with his father's blood. Grammy told me once that if it weren't for "Perky" (Mrs. Perkins), a nanny employed by my grandfather, she didn't know what she would have done.

In 1949, she and my grandfather split up and she moved, with my father, who was 14 at the time, back to her parents home at 505 41st Street in Baltimore. She and my father occupied the 3rd floor attic rooms of 505 and other extended family members occupied the rest of the home. Eventually, she would move from there to her own apartment at 4413 Old York Road. She went to work for the State Police and would receive a citation from the Governor of Maryland for her service. She did move back into the family home at 505 41st Street around the time that my father married in 1959 and remained there until the early 70's along with an uncle (her mother's baby brother) Charles Wesley DuVall, Jr. and his wife Mary. When Uncle Wes died of a heart attack in 1973, the home was finally sold and she moved to the Towson/Bellona area - again to her own apartment. I remember her apartment and the soft bayberry smells in her bathroom and all of her antique furniture - most of which belonged to her mother. I still have the brass bed that she was born in and the sofa that served as my father's bed for 5-6 years. My uncle has her gorgeous gold-velvet upholstered rocking chair.

She belonged to Boundary United Methodist Church (now Boundary/Govans) and was very involved in volunteer efforts through that church. It had been her family's church since it was built at the turn of the century (as Boundary Evangelical United Brethren originally Boundary Avenue Methodist Episcopal founded in 1893). The old church still sits on 42nd Street which used to be Boundary Avenue - so named because it originally delineated the Baltimore City/Baltimore County line. The church went through several transformations, most notably in the 50's when the organ was replaced. In 1983, with it's congregation shrinking, the church itself was sold to Faith Christian Fellowship and in 1993 it became the Baltimore Christian School. The Boundary Church congregation merged with the older Govans United Methodist (built 1849-1850) and they are still today Govans-Boundary.

She drove a '58 Chevrolet Impala, bought a year before my father bought his '59, and she traded that 10 years later and bought a '68 Chevelle. She put snow tires on the rear and put a piece of shag carpet across the back deck and because it was a 'muscle car' everyone swore up and down that I had a older brother rather than a really cool grandmother. And to me - she was cool. She showed up at our house randomly with bags of tomatoes and other vegetables, naughty jokes and hugs. She went to the opera, the symphony and hiked around in the woods with us in West Virginia every year. She went to Disney World with my godmother and cruised to Scotland, St. Peterburg and Sweden. She hopped in her car and drove everywhere - much to my father's chagrin and despite his very loud protests, even cutting through parking garages to avoid traffic lights (while my father attempted to follow in his car). She was an independent, working woman in an era when women were housewives. She drove until she was in her early 80's, finally being sidelined by a broken hip and congestive heart failure.

Grammy was a fiercely independent woman who learn to drive while in her teens. She graduated from Eastern Female High School (now called Samuel Gompers Vocational High - the original school was built in 1870 and converted to a Grammar School in 1907 - Gompers was built in 1904) in 1916 and went on to graduate from the Peabody Conservatory with a degree in organ performance. She had studied piano with Gertrude Sappington and gave several recitals, using Liszt's The Erl King to audition for Peabody. She received a letter from Goucher College offering interest and more information, but ultimately she chose Peabody. She was always at a keyboard, be it the organ in her church, our family's piano, or (from what I understand) a baby grand in a ship's ballroom while on a cruise.

She met my grandfather on a trip to Harrisonburg with an uncle. Her father's brother managed Wise Brothers - a shirt manufacturer located in the city. They were engaged on May 6, 1921, she received her ring in June and they were married on February 18, 1922 in the parlor of the family home. It is interesting to note that despite the wedding being obviously planned, Grammy wore not white, but a brown satin canton crepe dress which was beaded in bronze. She did carry roses, but the wedding was tiny - on 45 people present including the minister and his wife. The only people present from Granddaddy's side of the family were his 18 year old sister, Edythe and his younger brother Amiss, who stood as his best man. Neither his father nor his mother were present. Granddaddy took Grammy to New York for their honeymoon and in March she moved to Harrisonburg and settled at 218 N. High Street. They eventually moved to 637 S. Mason Street in what is now part of downtown very near to James Madison University and the hospital. In fact, the hospital still stands virtually across the street.

When my father was born in 1936, she became very ill afterwards. The RH factor played a part in several miscarriages, one before her eldest Charles, Jr. was born in 1924, and several after her second son, Clinton was born. Dad was born hemorrhaging and was rushed to the hospital (he was born at home) where the jugular in his neck was cauterized. He was also a "blue baby" - not from a cardiac defect, but from the antibodies in his mother's blood, working to destroy his red blood cells. Again, he was taken to the hospital and (per his older brother) transfused directly with his father's blood. Grammy told me once that if it weren't for "Perky" (Mrs. Perkins), a nanny employed by my grandfather, she didn't know what she would have done.

In 1949, she and my grandfather split up and she moved, with my father, who was 14 at the time, back to her parents home at 505 41st Street in Baltimore. She and my father occupied the 3rd floor attic rooms of 505 and other extended family members occupied the rest of the home. Eventually, she would move from there to her own apartment at 4413 Old York Road. She went to work for the State Police and would receive a citation from the Governor of Maryland for her service. She did move back into the family home at 505 41st Street around the time that my father married in 1959 and remained there until the early 70's along with an uncle (her mother's baby brother) Charles Wesley DuVall, Jr. and his wife Mary. When Uncle Wes died of a heart attack in 1973, the home was finally sold and she moved to the Towson/Bellona area - again to her own apartment. I remember her apartment and the soft bayberry smells in her bathroom and all of her antique furniture - most of which belonged to her mother. I still have the brass bed that she was born in and the sofa that served as my father's bed for 5-6 years. My uncle has her gorgeous gold-velvet upholstered rocking chair.

She belonged to Boundary United Methodist Church (now Boundary/Govans) and was very involved in volunteer efforts through that church. It had been her family's church since it was built at the turn of the century (as Boundary Evangelical United Brethren originally Boundary Avenue Methodist Episcopal founded in 1893). The old church still sits on 42nd Street which used to be Boundary Avenue - so named because it originally delineated the Baltimore City/Baltimore County line. The church went through several transformations, most notably in the 50's when the organ was replaced. In 1983, with it's congregation shrinking, the church itself was sold to Faith Christian Fellowship and in 1993 it became the Baltimore Christian School. The Boundary Church congregation merged with the older Govans United Methodist (built 1849-1850) and they are still today Govans-Boundary.

She drove a '58 Chevrolet Impala, bought a year before my father bought his '59, and she traded that 10 years later and bought a '68 Chevelle. She put snow tires on the rear and put a piece of shag carpet across the back deck and because it was a 'muscle car' everyone swore up and down that I had a older brother rather than a really cool grandmother. And to me - she was cool. She showed up at our house randomly with bags of tomatoes and other vegetables, naughty jokes and hugs. She went to the opera, the symphony and hiked around in the woods with us in West Virginia every year. She went to Disney World with my godmother and cruised to Scotland, St. Peterburg and Sweden. She hopped in her car and drove everywhere - much to my father's chagrin and despite his very loud protests, even cutting through parking garages to avoid traffic lights (while my father attempted to follow in his car). She was an independent, working woman in an era when women were housewives. She drove until she was in her early 80's, finally being sidelined by a broken hip and congestive heart failure.

Gravesite Details

1st wife of Charles W. DeVier, Sr. - buried next to her father at her request



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