Pamela Mary Miller came to the United States of America from her childhood home of Wing England in March of 1958 as a young Air Force bride. She lived in Florida and California where her children were born. She later moved with her family to Oklahoma and her home away from home became Webbers Falls, Oklahoma.
Pamela was born on October 12, 1939 to Harold and Marion Emma Gillard and passed away on Saturday, January 22, 2022 at the age of 82.
She married Charles A. Miller in Carroll County, Arkansas on August 9, 1993. They shared many years of life and marriage together until his passing.
She worked as a secretary for the Muskogee County Emergency Management and retired after many years of service.
She loved knitting, gardening, watching birds and sitting on the porch with her children and friends.
Pamela will always be remembered for her tremendous love for her children and grandchildren as well as her other family and many friends. She was a huge blessing to her daughter's business, Emily's Tea Room, in Gore, Oklahoma.
She was preceded in death by her parents, Harold and Marion Emma Gillard; spouses, Lester Housley and Charles Miller; son, Terry Beckham; grandson, Samuel Barnes.
Pamela is survived by her daughters, Kim Barnes and husband Roy of Webbers Falls, OK, Dawn Barnes and husband Robin of Ft. Gibson, OK, Debra Young of Webbers Falls, OK; son, Jon Beckham of Webbers Falls; brothers, Brian Gillard of New Zealand and Roy Gillard of Wing England; sisters, Doreen Lathwell and Susan Timmins both of Wing England; grandchildren, Genevieve Rachal, Linsay Carter, Justin Barnes, Joshua Young, Emily Coleman, Shylow Young, Garret Beckham, Madison Beckham, Miranda Beckham, Dylan Beckham and Colton Beckham; 11 great-grandchildren; along with other family members and friends who will dearly miss her.