At age 22, in 1917, Frieda eloped with Norman Joseph Schaaf. They were married by a priest in his rectory (Norman was a Catholic), but they had taken out their license only the day before, and their families were not involved in the ceremony. Frieda was not a Catholic but became one when, according to family story, her then 10 year daughter Edith asked her to. The couple raised their four children as Catholics. Their first child, Edith Charlotte, born a year after the marriage, died of meningitis at age 12, an event that permanently shaded the family life. They sent her to the Dowling School in Minneapolis, where she was an accomplished student. Three children followed: Norman David (1921), Gloria Ann (1926), and Shirley Marie (1928).
I remember Frieda, who was my grandmother, as energetic, resilient, and remarkably able; she wrote beautiful, articulate, (and grammatically perfect!) letters to me and did not start to fade until about two years before she died, two months shy of her 100th birthday. She was a beautiful soul who rose up under adverse circumstances often in her life, to shine and to help others.
At age 22, in 1917, Frieda eloped with Norman Joseph Schaaf. They were married by a priest in his rectory (Norman was a Catholic), but they had taken out their license only the day before, and their families were not involved in the ceremony. Frieda was not a Catholic but became one when, according to family story, her then 10 year daughter Edith asked her to. The couple raised their four children as Catholics. Their first child, Edith Charlotte, born a year after the marriage, died of meningitis at age 12, an event that permanently shaded the family life. They sent her to the Dowling School in Minneapolis, where she was an accomplished student. Three children followed: Norman David (1921), Gloria Ann (1926), and Shirley Marie (1928).
I remember Frieda, who was my grandmother, as energetic, resilient, and remarkably able; she wrote beautiful, articulate, (and grammatically perfect!) letters to me and did not start to fade until about two years before she died, two months shy of her 100th birthday. She was a beautiful soul who rose up under adverse circumstances often in her life, to shine and to help others.
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