w/o W.F.; m.30 Dec 1874 Polk Co.,IA
Eliza Cox Mitchell
Mrs. W. F. Mitchell, Club Woman, Dies
Several Weeks' Fight for Life Ended Last Night.
Active in City Work
Secured Hoyt Sherman Place As Home for Des Moines Women's Club.
Mrs. W. F. Mitchell, one of the most prominent club women in Des Moines, died Shortly before 9 o'clock last night at her home at 1214 Seventh street, after a brave fight for life which lasted for several weeks. A complication of diseases was the cause of her death. No funeral arrangements had been made last night and announcement is expected to be made today.
Mrs. Eliza Cox Mitchell was the daughter of Mrs. Catherine Beatty Cox and the late Dr. Henry Cox, who came to Des Moines in 1866. The death of Dr. Cox, who was at first engaged in the wholesale drug business and afterwards a practicing physician, occurred twenty-five years ago. His widow, who is a real daughter of the revolution, has made her home with her daughter for many years. The marriage of Miss Eliza Cox and Mr. W. F. Mitchell took place in Dec. 1874. Two children were born to this union, but neither is living. The deceased is survived, besides her husband and mother, by her sister, Mrs. Mary T. Adams, and her two brothers, Elmer E. Cox and J. E. Cox, all residing at Long Beach.
Active in Club Work
The death of Mrs. Mitchell removes one of the best known and most loved women of Des Moines. She was a power for good throughout her life, which was a most active one until just recently, when ill health caused her to forego many of her activities, but though confined to her home she kept in close touch with all current happenings and was as keenly interested as when a moving force in the city's club life, for it was there that Mrs. Mitchell gave much of her time and devotion. As president of the Review club of Des Moines for two years Mrs. Mitchell became an active force in women's club affairs and women's activities. Later as president of the Women's club and then president of the city federation, her activities widened and her influence was more widely felt.
The Des Moines Women's club owes much to Mrs. Mitchell for it was she who through her acquaintance with public officials and her influence secured Hoyt Sherman place as the club home for this women's club. If other had talked about it there was nothing done, and it remained for Mrs. Mitchell to bring it to pass and make possible a splendid club home for a club which now numbers over 700 members. What this has meant to the success of the club only the members who have had its interest close at heart can know.
Accomplished Good Work
This big work was accomplished by Mrs. Mitchell during her first term as president of the Women's club, the years 1906 and 1909, and it was during her second term, Mrs. Mitchell having been re-elected, that the improvements were made on the club house and the present art gallery added to the residence as occupied by the late Major Hoyt Sherman and family. Mrs. Mitchell put much of herself into all her club work never sparing her time and strength in anyway.
A president of the City Federation of Women's clubs, as a member of the Des Moines library board for two terms, as an officer in the women's club, other than president, and as a member of the Women's club board for nine years Mrs. Mitchell was a potent influence in the advancement of local interests.
Mrs. Mitchell's personal charities were many. She was a friend to everyone who needed a friend, and though she did much, she said very little about it, thus making her work all the more effective. The hospitality of the Mitchell home was well known, and it was genuine hospitality, just as everything about Mrs. Mitchell was genuine, She was democratic in her ideas and broad in her sympathies. Her sense of humor was keen, and when enjoying good health she was the life of any gathering she attended. Mrs. Mitchell had splendid executive ability and could see a long ways ahead.
Appointed Official Hostess.
The Commercial club of Des Moines appointed Mrs. Mitchell an official hostess, it being her duty to represent the club and Des Moines when a convention was being held here, which brought women to the city either as delegates or members of the delegates' families. Mrs. Mitchell planned many social affairs in honor of the women visitors, and a most hospitable hostess she made.
Mrs. Mitchell was a member of the Abigail Addams chapter of the D. A. R., and the Political Equality club.
[The Register and Leader, Des Moines Register, Thursday Morning, abt. 1914, submitted by Dana de Ville, transcribed by Cathy Danielson]
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The Passing of Mrs. W. F. Mitchell, by Belle Vinnedge Drake.
Mrs. W. F. Mitchell, whose last chapter has just closed, made life a thing worth living. It was her mission to bring as much sunshine as possible into her own life as well as into the lives of others. She filled her cup full of joy and, yet, when she saw the end surely approaching, she welcomed it like a true soldier. She said, "I have had my full share of happiness and, now, if the call has come all is well." That was last October, when the hand of the Great Reaper was even then upon her, but still inspiringly cheerful she attended the first meeting of the year at the women's club. This was the last time she was ever present at one of its meetings. A club to which she devoted years of inspiring enthusiasm, executive ability and the gift of her splendid leadership. The club owes its present home to Mrs. Mitchell. It was her foresight, keen appreciation of ways and means and untiring energy that brought the club this gift.
But she was not always the serious woman of business. If there was a frolic on hand she was the inevitable center. Her always kind and ready wit, buoyant spirits and wide acquaintance drew about her willing and admiring followers infected with her fun loving spirit. As a member of the city library board she was an equally zealous worker. In all matters of civic interest she was always alive to her own and women's responsibility in general and was ever a brave and enthusiastic color bearer.
She would be the last one to wish it said: "It is too bad she is gone." Rather would she have it said: "How glad we are that she lived and that her path crossed ours even for a little while."
[The Des Moines Register, abt. 1914, submitted by Dana de Ville, transcribed by Cathy Danielson]
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Mrs. Mitchell, Pioneer Club Woman, Is Dead
Hundreds of Her Club Sisters Mourn Loss of Former President
Built Art Gallery
During Her Regime She Secured Hoyt Sherman Place as Club Home
Mrs. W. F. Mitchell is dead.
No more will her cheery, kindly face be seen at the gatherings where club women love to congregate. Thin and white from her illness, but with eyes sparkling with the old time, indomitable zest, Mrs. Mitchell presided at a meeting of the Des Moines Women's club some months ago�then laid down the gavel for the last time.
"Lide" Mitchell as she was lovingly known by hundreds of good friends was "game" to the last. For a year or more past she has known her days were numbered. But she received the doctor's verdict with a plucky smile.
Wants No Mourners
On Walnut street one day she remarked to a friend: "Some morning you'll hear that Lide Mitchell is dead. And when you do, I don't want you nor any of my friends to feel badly. I don't want any mourning for me. Just remember when you hear that I am gone that Lide Mitchell had a good time. She enjoyed life and tried to make the world a little happier place for other people and she wasn't afraid to go."
Still Interested.
True to word, Mrs. Mitchell kept going as long as her strength kept up and when she was finally compelled to stay at home she still kept in close touch with city and club affairs, as well as with the big happenings of the world at large.
It was due to Mrs. Mitchell's efforts that the Des Moines Women's club secured Hoyt Sherman Place as a permanent club home. It was during her two term reign as club president also that this, the largest club in Iowa, was on its best financial basis and the art gallery was built. Mrs. Mitchell was a member of the D. A. R., was president of the city federation of Women's clubs at one time and of the Review club. She was also noted for her interest in philanthropic works, and many people in the lowly walks of life have benefited by her kindness.
Mother Lives.
Her mother, Mrs. Catherine Cox was an original daughter of the D. A. R., and is in her ninetieth year. She has always made her home with Mrs. Mitchell. Before her marriage Mrs. Mitchell was Miss Eliza Cox. Her parents, Dr. and Mrs. Henry Cox came to Des Moines in 1866. Her marriage to W. F. Mitchell took place in 1874. Two children were born, but both are dead. Mrs. Mitchell was 58 years old. She is survived by her husband, her mother, a sister, Mrs. Mary T. Adams, two brothers, Elmer E. and J. E. Cox, all of Long Beach, Cal.
Her death occurred last night shortly before 9 o'clock.
Next Wednesday was to have been observed at Sherman Place by the Des Moines Women's club as the annual social day but out of respect to Mrs. Mitchell the club house will be closed all day. It is the hope of the club women that a portrait of Mrs. Mitchell may some day be hung in the art gallery at Hoyt Sherman place.
[The Des Moines Register, Thursday, Feb. 12, 1914, submitted by Dana de Ville, transcribed by Cathy Danielson]
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Final Tributes to Mrs. W. F. Mitchell.
Large Company of Friends Attend Funeral Services at Home.
Dr. Hillman Speaks
Favorite Hymns of Deceased Sung by the Methodist Church Choir.
Funeral services for Mrs. W. F. Mitchell, held yesterday afternoon at 2 o'clock at the home at Seventh street and University avenue, were simple. By her request the family avoided all display. The services were attended by hundreds of sorrowing friends.
In December, 1912, Mrs. Mitchell placed with a friend of the family the list of names of friends of the family whom she desired to act as her pallbearers. Of this list, W. R. Marshall, who is out of the city, was the only one who could not serve in this capacity. The pallbearers included Simon Casady, Walter McCain, Judge W. H. McHenry, W. W. Ainsworth, D. S. Chamberlain and H. H. Lantz. The interment was made in the family lot in Woodland cemetery.
The Rev. Dr. John L. Hillman, pastor of the First Methodist church, conducted the brief services. The favorite hymns chosen by Mrs. Mitchell for this occasion, "Lead Kindly Light" and "Crossing the Bar," were sing by a quartette, which included Miss Daisy Binkley, soprano; Mrs. Genevieve Wheat-Baal, contralto; Ray Harmon, tenor, and Jack Campbell, baritone.
In his tribute to the memory of Mrs. Mitchell, Dr. Hillman spoke of her home life. The public phases of her life were well known, said Dr. Hillman, because of their scope.
The decease of this good woman is a distinct loss to our community, she will be greatly missed in home and friendly circles and in the wider circle of our civic life. It was not given me to have known her as long as many of this company, but one had only to meet her even in a hurried manner to realize that she was no ordinary woman," said Dr. Hillman.
In the tributes that have already been paid her in the press of our city as is fitting, attention has been directed especially to the more intimate company some reference should be made to her home life and domestic virtues. Those who knew her best, knew very well that whatever might be her public responsibilities, the claims of her home were never forgotten or even subordinated. She was the cheerful inspiring companion of her husband, the home maker, the dispenser of such a delightful hospitality as was a joy to all who were fortunate enough to share it. The entire community is under obligation to her husband, not only that he did not discourage the wider activities of his wife, but that he rejoiced in them and encouraged her.
Her beautiful relationship to her mother was observed by all who came into this home. Indeed possibly the bitterest drop in her cup the past few months was that she would most likely have to precede her mother out of this life.
As I have come to know her mother I thought I had at least a partial explanation of the daughter. They reacted upon each other in a most helpful manner.
Another factor that entered into her life story was the early death of her children that left her home childless. Selfishness in her grief and sorrow would have made the outcome of her life far different. Her sorrow only softened and sweetened her life. The large rooms in her heart made vacant by her bereavement were not kept closed and empty but were thrown open for the good of many others. The largeness of her love was not hoarded, but its store was increased by the generosity with which she bestowed it.
If she was richly endowed by nature, she increased her talents by their diligent use. Will, energy were the striking traits of her character. Otherwise the output of her life would not have been so large. Her healthy, optimistic spirit was a rare endowment which she diligently cultivated by constant use. That kept her from the paralyzing grip of discouragement, equipped her for companionship and leadership. Even the shadow of approaching death could not cloud her spirit. She laid it as an injunction upon her friends that "there should be no mourning at the bar when she put out to sea." Only a short time since she said to a friend: "I am not afraid to die, I cannot see how anybody who knows God can be afraid." Does not this remind you of the optimism of Browning:
"Fear death to feel the fog in my throat,
The mist in my face
When the snows begin and the blasts denote
I am nearing the place."
She believed that:
"The best of life was yet to be
The last of life for which the first was made;
Our times are in His hand
Who said, a whole I planned,
Youth shows but half: trust God; see all nor be afraid."
"She expected to see her pilot face to face when she had crossed the bar."
No one who knew her could doubt that much of the inspiration of her life came from Him who, when he was on earth, went about doing good, that she was a Christian in her spirit and purpose.
"Ships in Norway entering the great fiords sometimes sail so close to the cliffs that one can stand on deck and almost lay his hand on the face of the rock. When an old captain was once asked about the peril of it, her replied: �There is no danger. That which is in sight indicates what is out of sight. The slant above the water line indicates the slant below. We are perfectly safe."
"That principle is one that we can safely apply here. The slant of our sister's life in the "seen" indicated its slant in the "unseen."
"While we are thinking about our loss and lifting our tear-stained faces up to our Heavenly Father, it is fitting that we should think of some things that are not taken from away from us. Our sister has been taken from our sight, but many things remain that will bring her before our minds. She is gone and yet she remains. The Psalmist prayed: "Let the beauty of the Lord be upon us and establish thou the work of our hands upon us, yea, the work of our hands establish thou it." And in one of his moments of rare vision the great apostle exhorted: "Therefore, my beloved brethren, be ye steadfast, unmovable; always abounding in the work of the Lord, for as much as ye know that your labor is not in vain in the Lord's name."
"When Rufus Choate was leaving Boston the last time some of his friends said to him, "You will be here one year hence." And the great lawyer replied: "I shall be here one year hence and one hundred years hence."
"Mrs. Mitchell's work has not been in vain. She has made an impress upon the life of her city "that will not be effaced for generations. She is still with us and will continue to be with us in her beautiful filial devotion, in her wifely fidelity, in the influence and charm of her friendship, in the contagion of her hopeful service to her home and city, in inspiring and practical leadership she gave so unsparingly to the womanhood of our city, the good causes to which she gave assistance and in the personal helpfulness that characterized her. "We mourn her decease, but we are comforted in what she has left us. We shall miss her, but may things remain to remind us that she has been here."
[The Des Moines Register, abt. 1914, submitted by Dana de Ville, transcribed by Cathy Danielson]
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marriage record:
Name: Eliza Cox
Gender: Female
Marriage Date: 30 Dec 1874
Marriage Place: Des Moines, Polk, Iowa
Spouse: W. F. Mitchell
FHL Film Number: 1014766
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in same lot:
Infant Adams, Dr.James W.Adams, Catherine Beatty Cox, Dr.Henry Cox, Agnes Maxfield, Infant Mitchell, Eliza Cox Mitchell, Infant Mitchell, W.Fred Mitchell, Ralph Mitchell
Eliza Cox Mitchell
Mrs. W. F. Mitchell, Club Woman, Dies
Several Weeks' Fight for Life Ended Last Night.
Active in City Work
Secured Hoyt Sherman Place As Home for Des Moines Women's Club.
Mrs. W. F. Mitchell, one of the most prominent club women in Des Moines, died Shortly before 9 o'clock last night at her home at 1214 Seventh street, after a brave fight for life which lasted for several weeks. A complication of diseases was the cause of her death. No funeral arrangements had been made last night and announcement is expected to be made today.
Mrs. Eliza Cox Mitchell was the daughter of Mrs. Catherine Beatty Cox and the late Dr. Henry Cox, who came to Des Moines in 1866. The death of Dr. Cox, who was at first engaged in the wholesale drug business and afterwards a practicing physician, occurred twenty-five years ago. His widow, who is a real daughter of the revolution, has made her home with her daughter for many years. The marriage of Miss Eliza Cox and Mr. W. F. Mitchell took place in Dec. 1874. Two children were born to this union, but neither is living. The deceased is survived, besides her husband and mother, by her sister, Mrs. Mary T. Adams, and her two brothers, Elmer E. Cox and J. E. Cox, all residing at Long Beach.
Active in Club Work
The death of Mrs. Mitchell removes one of the best known and most loved women of Des Moines. She was a power for good throughout her life, which was a most active one until just recently, when ill health caused her to forego many of her activities, but though confined to her home she kept in close touch with all current happenings and was as keenly interested as when a moving force in the city's club life, for it was there that Mrs. Mitchell gave much of her time and devotion. As president of the Review club of Des Moines for two years Mrs. Mitchell became an active force in women's club affairs and women's activities. Later as president of the Women's club and then president of the city federation, her activities widened and her influence was more widely felt.
The Des Moines Women's club owes much to Mrs. Mitchell for it was she who through her acquaintance with public officials and her influence secured Hoyt Sherman place as the club home for this women's club. If other had talked about it there was nothing done, and it remained for Mrs. Mitchell to bring it to pass and make possible a splendid club home for a club which now numbers over 700 members. What this has meant to the success of the club only the members who have had its interest close at heart can know.
Accomplished Good Work
This big work was accomplished by Mrs. Mitchell during her first term as president of the Women's club, the years 1906 and 1909, and it was during her second term, Mrs. Mitchell having been re-elected, that the improvements were made on the club house and the present art gallery added to the residence as occupied by the late Major Hoyt Sherman and family. Mrs. Mitchell put much of herself into all her club work never sparing her time and strength in anyway.
A president of the City Federation of Women's clubs, as a member of the Des Moines library board for two terms, as an officer in the women's club, other than president, and as a member of the Women's club board for nine years Mrs. Mitchell was a potent influence in the advancement of local interests.
Mrs. Mitchell's personal charities were many. She was a friend to everyone who needed a friend, and though she did much, she said very little about it, thus making her work all the more effective. The hospitality of the Mitchell home was well known, and it was genuine hospitality, just as everything about Mrs. Mitchell was genuine, She was democratic in her ideas and broad in her sympathies. Her sense of humor was keen, and when enjoying good health she was the life of any gathering she attended. Mrs. Mitchell had splendid executive ability and could see a long ways ahead.
Appointed Official Hostess.
The Commercial club of Des Moines appointed Mrs. Mitchell an official hostess, it being her duty to represent the club and Des Moines when a convention was being held here, which brought women to the city either as delegates or members of the delegates' families. Mrs. Mitchell planned many social affairs in honor of the women visitors, and a most hospitable hostess she made.
Mrs. Mitchell was a member of the Abigail Addams chapter of the D. A. R., and the Political Equality club.
[The Register and Leader, Des Moines Register, Thursday Morning, abt. 1914, submitted by Dana de Ville, transcribed by Cathy Danielson]
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The Passing of Mrs. W. F. Mitchell, by Belle Vinnedge Drake.
Mrs. W. F. Mitchell, whose last chapter has just closed, made life a thing worth living. It was her mission to bring as much sunshine as possible into her own life as well as into the lives of others. She filled her cup full of joy and, yet, when she saw the end surely approaching, she welcomed it like a true soldier. She said, "I have had my full share of happiness and, now, if the call has come all is well." That was last October, when the hand of the Great Reaper was even then upon her, but still inspiringly cheerful she attended the first meeting of the year at the women's club. This was the last time she was ever present at one of its meetings. A club to which she devoted years of inspiring enthusiasm, executive ability and the gift of her splendid leadership. The club owes its present home to Mrs. Mitchell. It was her foresight, keen appreciation of ways and means and untiring energy that brought the club this gift.
But she was not always the serious woman of business. If there was a frolic on hand she was the inevitable center. Her always kind and ready wit, buoyant spirits and wide acquaintance drew about her willing and admiring followers infected with her fun loving spirit. As a member of the city library board she was an equally zealous worker. In all matters of civic interest she was always alive to her own and women's responsibility in general and was ever a brave and enthusiastic color bearer.
She would be the last one to wish it said: "It is too bad she is gone." Rather would she have it said: "How glad we are that she lived and that her path crossed ours even for a little while."
[The Des Moines Register, abt. 1914, submitted by Dana de Ville, transcribed by Cathy Danielson]
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Mrs. Mitchell, Pioneer Club Woman, Is Dead
Hundreds of Her Club Sisters Mourn Loss of Former President
Built Art Gallery
During Her Regime She Secured Hoyt Sherman Place as Club Home
Mrs. W. F. Mitchell is dead.
No more will her cheery, kindly face be seen at the gatherings where club women love to congregate. Thin and white from her illness, but with eyes sparkling with the old time, indomitable zest, Mrs. Mitchell presided at a meeting of the Des Moines Women's club some months ago�then laid down the gavel for the last time.
"Lide" Mitchell as she was lovingly known by hundreds of good friends was "game" to the last. For a year or more past she has known her days were numbered. But she received the doctor's verdict with a plucky smile.
Wants No Mourners
On Walnut street one day she remarked to a friend: "Some morning you'll hear that Lide Mitchell is dead. And when you do, I don't want you nor any of my friends to feel badly. I don't want any mourning for me. Just remember when you hear that I am gone that Lide Mitchell had a good time. She enjoyed life and tried to make the world a little happier place for other people and she wasn't afraid to go."
Still Interested.
True to word, Mrs. Mitchell kept going as long as her strength kept up and when she was finally compelled to stay at home she still kept in close touch with city and club affairs, as well as with the big happenings of the world at large.
It was due to Mrs. Mitchell's efforts that the Des Moines Women's club secured Hoyt Sherman Place as a permanent club home. It was during her two term reign as club president also that this, the largest club in Iowa, was on its best financial basis and the art gallery was built. Mrs. Mitchell was a member of the D. A. R., was president of the city federation of Women's clubs at one time and of the Review club. She was also noted for her interest in philanthropic works, and many people in the lowly walks of life have benefited by her kindness.
Mother Lives.
Her mother, Mrs. Catherine Cox was an original daughter of the D. A. R., and is in her ninetieth year. She has always made her home with Mrs. Mitchell. Before her marriage Mrs. Mitchell was Miss Eliza Cox. Her parents, Dr. and Mrs. Henry Cox came to Des Moines in 1866. Her marriage to W. F. Mitchell took place in 1874. Two children were born, but both are dead. Mrs. Mitchell was 58 years old. She is survived by her husband, her mother, a sister, Mrs. Mary T. Adams, two brothers, Elmer E. and J. E. Cox, all of Long Beach, Cal.
Her death occurred last night shortly before 9 o'clock.
Next Wednesday was to have been observed at Sherman Place by the Des Moines Women's club as the annual social day but out of respect to Mrs. Mitchell the club house will be closed all day. It is the hope of the club women that a portrait of Mrs. Mitchell may some day be hung in the art gallery at Hoyt Sherman place.
[The Des Moines Register, Thursday, Feb. 12, 1914, submitted by Dana de Ville, transcribed by Cathy Danielson]
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Final Tributes to Mrs. W. F. Mitchell.
Large Company of Friends Attend Funeral Services at Home.
Dr. Hillman Speaks
Favorite Hymns of Deceased Sung by the Methodist Church Choir.
Funeral services for Mrs. W. F. Mitchell, held yesterday afternoon at 2 o'clock at the home at Seventh street and University avenue, were simple. By her request the family avoided all display. The services were attended by hundreds of sorrowing friends.
In December, 1912, Mrs. Mitchell placed with a friend of the family the list of names of friends of the family whom she desired to act as her pallbearers. Of this list, W. R. Marshall, who is out of the city, was the only one who could not serve in this capacity. The pallbearers included Simon Casady, Walter McCain, Judge W. H. McHenry, W. W. Ainsworth, D. S. Chamberlain and H. H. Lantz. The interment was made in the family lot in Woodland cemetery.
The Rev. Dr. John L. Hillman, pastor of the First Methodist church, conducted the brief services. The favorite hymns chosen by Mrs. Mitchell for this occasion, "Lead Kindly Light" and "Crossing the Bar," were sing by a quartette, which included Miss Daisy Binkley, soprano; Mrs. Genevieve Wheat-Baal, contralto; Ray Harmon, tenor, and Jack Campbell, baritone.
In his tribute to the memory of Mrs. Mitchell, Dr. Hillman spoke of her home life. The public phases of her life were well known, said Dr. Hillman, because of their scope.
The decease of this good woman is a distinct loss to our community, she will be greatly missed in home and friendly circles and in the wider circle of our civic life. It was not given me to have known her as long as many of this company, but one had only to meet her even in a hurried manner to realize that she was no ordinary woman," said Dr. Hillman.
In the tributes that have already been paid her in the press of our city as is fitting, attention has been directed especially to the more intimate company some reference should be made to her home life and domestic virtues. Those who knew her best, knew very well that whatever might be her public responsibilities, the claims of her home were never forgotten or even subordinated. She was the cheerful inspiring companion of her husband, the home maker, the dispenser of such a delightful hospitality as was a joy to all who were fortunate enough to share it. The entire community is under obligation to her husband, not only that he did not discourage the wider activities of his wife, but that he rejoiced in them and encouraged her.
Her beautiful relationship to her mother was observed by all who came into this home. Indeed possibly the bitterest drop in her cup the past few months was that she would most likely have to precede her mother out of this life.
As I have come to know her mother I thought I had at least a partial explanation of the daughter. They reacted upon each other in a most helpful manner.
Another factor that entered into her life story was the early death of her children that left her home childless. Selfishness in her grief and sorrow would have made the outcome of her life far different. Her sorrow only softened and sweetened her life. The large rooms in her heart made vacant by her bereavement were not kept closed and empty but were thrown open for the good of many others. The largeness of her love was not hoarded, but its store was increased by the generosity with which she bestowed it.
If she was richly endowed by nature, she increased her talents by their diligent use. Will, energy were the striking traits of her character. Otherwise the output of her life would not have been so large. Her healthy, optimistic spirit was a rare endowment which she diligently cultivated by constant use. That kept her from the paralyzing grip of discouragement, equipped her for companionship and leadership. Even the shadow of approaching death could not cloud her spirit. She laid it as an injunction upon her friends that "there should be no mourning at the bar when she put out to sea." Only a short time since she said to a friend: "I am not afraid to die, I cannot see how anybody who knows God can be afraid." Does not this remind you of the optimism of Browning:
"Fear death to feel the fog in my throat,
The mist in my face
When the snows begin and the blasts denote
I am nearing the place."
She believed that:
"The best of life was yet to be
The last of life for which the first was made;
Our times are in His hand
Who said, a whole I planned,
Youth shows but half: trust God; see all nor be afraid."
"She expected to see her pilot face to face when she had crossed the bar."
No one who knew her could doubt that much of the inspiration of her life came from Him who, when he was on earth, went about doing good, that she was a Christian in her spirit and purpose.
"Ships in Norway entering the great fiords sometimes sail so close to the cliffs that one can stand on deck and almost lay his hand on the face of the rock. When an old captain was once asked about the peril of it, her replied: �There is no danger. That which is in sight indicates what is out of sight. The slant above the water line indicates the slant below. We are perfectly safe."
"That principle is one that we can safely apply here. The slant of our sister's life in the "seen" indicated its slant in the "unseen."
"While we are thinking about our loss and lifting our tear-stained faces up to our Heavenly Father, it is fitting that we should think of some things that are not taken from away from us. Our sister has been taken from our sight, but many things remain that will bring her before our minds. She is gone and yet she remains. The Psalmist prayed: "Let the beauty of the Lord be upon us and establish thou the work of our hands upon us, yea, the work of our hands establish thou it." And in one of his moments of rare vision the great apostle exhorted: "Therefore, my beloved brethren, be ye steadfast, unmovable; always abounding in the work of the Lord, for as much as ye know that your labor is not in vain in the Lord's name."
"When Rufus Choate was leaving Boston the last time some of his friends said to him, "You will be here one year hence." And the great lawyer replied: "I shall be here one year hence and one hundred years hence."
"Mrs. Mitchell's work has not been in vain. She has made an impress upon the life of her city "that will not be effaced for generations. She is still with us and will continue to be with us in her beautiful filial devotion, in her wifely fidelity, in the influence and charm of her friendship, in the contagion of her hopeful service to her home and city, in inspiring and practical leadership she gave so unsparingly to the womanhood of our city, the good causes to which she gave assistance and in the personal helpfulness that characterized her. "We mourn her decease, but we are comforted in what she has left us. We shall miss her, but may things remain to remind us that she has been here."
[The Des Moines Register, abt. 1914, submitted by Dana de Ville, transcribed by Cathy Danielson]
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marriage record:
Name: Eliza Cox
Gender: Female
Marriage Date: 30 Dec 1874
Marriage Place: Des Moines, Polk, Iowa
Spouse: W. F. Mitchell
FHL Film Number: 1014766
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in same lot:
Infant Adams, Dr.James W.Adams, Catherine Beatty Cox, Dr.Henry Cox, Agnes Maxfield, Infant Mitchell, Eliza Cox Mitchell, Infant Mitchell, W.Fred Mitchell, Ralph Mitchell
w/o W.F.; m.30 Dec 1874 Polk Co.,IA
Eliza Cox Mitchell
Mrs. W. F. Mitchell, Club Woman, Dies
Several Weeks' Fight for Life Ended Last Night.
Active in City Work
Secured Hoyt Sherman Place As Home for Des Moines Women's Club.
Mrs. W. F. Mitchell, one of the most prominent club women in Des Moines, died Shortly before 9 o'clock last night at her home at 1214 Seventh street, after a brave fight for life which lasted for several weeks. A complication of diseases was the cause of her death. No funeral arrangements had been made last night and announcement is expected to be made today.
Mrs. Eliza Cox Mitchell was the daughter of Mrs. Catherine Beatty Cox and the late Dr. Henry Cox, who came to Des Moines in 1866. The death of Dr. Cox, who was at first engaged in the wholesale drug business and afterwards a practicing physician, occurred twenty-five years ago. His widow, who is a real daughter of the revolution, has made her home with her daughter for many years. The marriage of Miss Eliza Cox and Mr. W. F. Mitchell took place in Dec. 1874. Two children were born to this union, but neither is living. The deceased is survived, besides her husband and mother, by her sister, Mrs. Mary T. Adams, and her two brothers, Elmer E. Cox and J. E. Cox, all residing at Long Beach.
Active in Club Work
The death of Mrs. Mitchell removes one of the best known and most loved women of Des Moines. She was a power for good throughout her life, which was a most active one until just recently, when ill health caused her to forego many of her activities, but though confined to her home she kept in close touch with all current happenings and was as keenly interested as when a moving force in the city's club life, for it was there that Mrs. Mitchell gave much of her time and devotion. As president of the Review club of Des Moines for two years Mrs. Mitchell became an active force in women's club affairs and women's activities. Later as president of the Women's club and then president of the city federation, her activities widened and her influence was more widely felt.
The Des Moines Women's club owes much to Mrs. Mitchell for it was she who through her acquaintance with public officials and her influence secured Hoyt Sherman place as the club home for this women's club. If other had talked about it there was nothing done, and it remained for Mrs. Mitchell to bring it to pass and make possible a splendid club home for a club which now numbers over 700 members. What this has meant to the success of the club only the members who have had its interest close at heart can know.
Accomplished Good Work
This big work was accomplished by Mrs. Mitchell during her first term as president of the Women's club, the years 1906 and 1909, and it was during her second term, Mrs. Mitchell having been re-elected, that the improvements were made on the club house and the present art gallery added to the residence as occupied by the late Major Hoyt Sherman and family. Mrs. Mitchell put much of herself into all her club work never sparing her time and strength in anyway.
A president of the City Federation of Women's clubs, as a member of the Des Moines library board for two terms, as an officer in the women's club, other than president, and as a member of the Women's club board for nine years Mrs. Mitchell was a potent influence in the advancement of local interests.
Mrs. Mitchell's personal charities were many. She was a friend to everyone who needed a friend, and though she did much, she said very little about it, thus making her work all the more effective. The hospitality of the Mitchell home was well known, and it was genuine hospitality, just as everything about Mrs. Mitchell was genuine, She was democratic in her ideas and broad in her sympathies. Her sense of humor was keen, and when enjoying good health she was the life of any gathering she attended. Mrs. Mitchell had splendid executive ability and could see a long ways ahead.
Appointed Official Hostess.
The Commercial club of Des Moines appointed Mrs. Mitchell an official hostess, it being her duty to represent the club and Des Moines when a convention was being held here, which brought women to the city either as delegates or members of the delegates' families. Mrs. Mitchell planned many social affairs in honor of the women visitors, and a most hospitable hostess she made.
Mrs. Mitchell was a member of the Abigail Addams chapter of the D. A. R., and the Political Equality club.
[The Register and Leader, Des Moines Register, Thursday Morning, abt. 1914, submitted by Dana de Ville, transcribed by Cathy Danielson]
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The Passing of Mrs. W. F. Mitchell, by Belle Vinnedge Drake.
Mrs. W. F. Mitchell, whose last chapter has just closed, made life a thing worth living. It was her mission to bring as much sunshine as possible into her own life as well as into the lives of others. She filled her cup full of joy and, yet, when she saw the end surely approaching, she welcomed it like a true soldier. She said, "I have had my full share of happiness and, now, if the call has come all is well." That was last October, when the hand of the Great Reaper was even then upon her, but still inspiringly cheerful she attended the first meeting of the year at the women's club. This was the last time she was ever present at one of its meetings. A club to which she devoted years of inspiring enthusiasm, executive ability and the gift of her splendid leadership. The club owes its present home to Mrs. Mitchell. It was her foresight, keen appreciation of ways and means and untiring energy that brought the club this gift.
But she was not always the serious woman of business. If there was a frolic on hand she was the inevitable center. Her always kind and ready wit, buoyant spirits and wide acquaintance drew about her willing and admiring followers infected with her fun loving spirit. As a member of the city library board she was an equally zealous worker. In all matters of civic interest she was always alive to her own and women's responsibility in general and was ever a brave and enthusiastic color bearer.
She would be the last one to wish it said: "It is too bad she is gone." Rather would she have it said: "How glad we are that she lived and that her path crossed ours even for a little while."
[The Des Moines Register, abt. 1914, submitted by Dana de Ville, transcribed by Cathy Danielson]
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Mrs. Mitchell, Pioneer Club Woman, Is Dead
Hundreds of Her Club Sisters Mourn Loss of Former President
Built Art Gallery
During Her Regime She Secured Hoyt Sherman Place as Club Home
Mrs. W. F. Mitchell is dead.
No more will her cheery, kindly face be seen at the gatherings where club women love to congregate. Thin and white from her illness, but with eyes sparkling with the old time, indomitable zest, Mrs. Mitchell presided at a meeting of the Des Moines Women's club some months ago�then laid down the gavel for the last time.
"Lide" Mitchell as she was lovingly known by hundreds of good friends was "game" to the last. For a year or more past she has known her days were numbered. But she received the doctor's verdict with a plucky smile.
Wants No Mourners
On Walnut street one day she remarked to a friend: "Some morning you'll hear that Lide Mitchell is dead. And when you do, I don't want you nor any of my friends to feel badly. I don't want any mourning for me. Just remember when you hear that I am gone that Lide Mitchell had a good time. She enjoyed life and tried to make the world a little happier place for other people and she wasn't afraid to go."
Still Interested.
True to word, Mrs. Mitchell kept going as long as her strength kept up and when she was finally compelled to stay at home she still kept in close touch with city and club affairs, as well as with the big happenings of the world at large.
It was due to Mrs. Mitchell's efforts that the Des Moines Women's club secured Hoyt Sherman Place as a permanent club home. It was during her two term reign as club president also that this, the largest club in Iowa, was on its best financial basis and the art gallery was built. Mrs. Mitchell was a member of the D. A. R., was president of the city federation of Women's clubs at one time and of the Review club. She was also noted for her interest in philanthropic works, and many people in the lowly walks of life have benefited by her kindness.
Mother Lives.
Her mother, Mrs. Catherine Cox was an original daughter of the D. A. R., and is in her ninetieth year. She has always made her home with Mrs. Mitchell. Before her marriage Mrs. Mitchell was Miss Eliza Cox. Her parents, Dr. and Mrs. Henry Cox came to Des Moines in 1866. Her marriage to W. F. Mitchell took place in 1874. Two children were born, but both are dead. Mrs. Mitchell was 58 years old. She is survived by her husband, her mother, a sister, Mrs. Mary T. Adams, two brothers, Elmer E. and J. E. Cox, all of Long Beach, Cal.
Her death occurred last night shortly before 9 o'clock.
Next Wednesday was to have been observed at Sherman Place by the Des Moines Women's club as the annual social day but out of respect to Mrs. Mitchell the club house will be closed all day. It is the hope of the club women that a portrait of Mrs. Mitchell may some day be hung in the art gallery at Hoyt Sherman place.
[The Des Moines Register, Thursday, Feb. 12, 1914, submitted by Dana de Ville, transcribed by Cathy Danielson]
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Final Tributes to Mrs. W. F. Mitchell.
Large Company of Friends Attend Funeral Services at Home.
Dr. Hillman Speaks
Favorite Hymns of Deceased Sung by the Methodist Church Choir.
Funeral services for Mrs. W. F. Mitchell, held yesterday afternoon at 2 o'clock at the home at Seventh street and University avenue, were simple. By her request the family avoided all display. The services were attended by hundreds of sorrowing friends.
In December, 1912, Mrs. Mitchell placed with a friend of the family the list of names of friends of the family whom she desired to act as her pallbearers. Of this list, W. R. Marshall, who is out of the city, was the only one who could not serve in this capacity. The pallbearers included Simon Casady, Walter McCain, Judge W. H. McHenry, W. W. Ainsworth, D. S. Chamberlain and H. H. Lantz. The interment was made in the family lot in Woodland cemetery.
The Rev. Dr. John L. Hillman, pastor of the First Methodist church, conducted the brief services. The favorite hymns chosen by Mrs. Mitchell for this occasion, "Lead Kindly Light" and "Crossing the Bar," were sing by a quartette, which included Miss Daisy Binkley, soprano; Mrs. Genevieve Wheat-Baal, contralto; Ray Harmon, tenor, and Jack Campbell, baritone.
In his tribute to the memory of Mrs. Mitchell, Dr. Hillman spoke of her home life. The public phases of her life were well known, said Dr. Hillman, because of their scope.
The decease of this good woman is a distinct loss to our community, she will be greatly missed in home and friendly circles and in the wider circle of our civic life. It was not given me to have known her as long as many of this company, but one had only to meet her even in a hurried manner to realize that she was no ordinary woman," said Dr. Hillman.
In the tributes that have already been paid her in the press of our city as is fitting, attention has been directed especially to the more intimate company some reference should be made to her home life and domestic virtues. Those who knew her best, knew very well that whatever might be her public responsibilities, the claims of her home were never forgotten or even subordinated. She was the cheerful inspiring companion of her husband, the home maker, the dispenser of such a delightful hospitality as was a joy to all who were fortunate enough to share it. The entire community is under obligation to her husband, not only that he did not discourage the wider activities of his wife, but that he rejoiced in them and encouraged her.
Her beautiful relationship to her mother was observed by all who came into this home. Indeed possibly the bitterest drop in her cup the past few months was that she would most likely have to precede her mother out of this life.
As I have come to know her mother I thought I had at least a partial explanation of the daughter. They reacted upon each other in a most helpful manner.
Another factor that entered into her life story was the early death of her children that left her home childless. Selfishness in her grief and sorrow would have made the outcome of her life far different. Her sorrow only softened and sweetened her life. The large rooms in her heart made vacant by her bereavement were not kept closed and empty but were thrown open for the good of many others. The largeness of her love was not hoarded, but its store was increased by the generosity with which she bestowed it.
If she was richly endowed by nature, she increased her talents by their diligent use. Will, energy were the striking traits of her character. Otherwise the output of her life would not have been so large. Her healthy, optimistic spirit was a rare endowment which she diligently cultivated by constant use. That kept her from the paralyzing grip of discouragement, equipped her for companionship and leadership. Even the shadow of approaching death could not cloud her spirit. She laid it as an injunction upon her friends that "there should be no mourning at the bar when she put out to sea." Only a short time since she said to a friend: "I am not afraid to die, I cannot see how anybody who knows God can be afraid." Does not this remind you of the optimism of Browning:
"Fear death to feel the fog in my throat,
The mist in my face
When the snows begin and the blasts denote
I am nearing the place."
She believed that:
"The best of life was yet to be
The last of life for which the first was made;
Our times are in His hand
Who said, a whole I planned,
Youth shows but half: trust God; see all nor be afraid."
"She expected to see her pilot face to face when she had crossed the bar."
No one who knew her could doubt that much of the inspiration of her life came from Him who, when he was on earth, went about doing good, that she was a Christian in her spirit and purpose.
"Ships in Norway entering the great fiords sometimes sail so close to the cliffs that one can stand on deck and almost lay his hand on the face of the rock. When an old captain was once asked about the peril of it, her replied: �There is no danger. That which is in sight indicates what is out of sight. The slant above the water line indicates the slant below. We are perfectly safe."
"That principle is one that we can safely apply here. The slant of our sister's life in the "seen" indicated its slant in the "unseen."
"While we are thinking about our loss and lifting our tear-stained faces up to our Heavenly Father, it is fitting that we should think of some things that are not taken from away from us. Our sister has been taken from our sight, but many things remain that will bring her before our minds. She is gone and yet she remains. The Psalmist prayed: "Let the beauty of the Lord be upon us and establish thou the work of our hands upon us, yea, the work of our hands establish thou it." And in one of his moments of rare vision the great apostle exhorted: "Therefore, my beloved brethren, be ye steadfast, unmovable; always abounding in the work of the Lord, for as much as ye know that your labor is not in vain in the Lord's name."
"When Rufus Choate was leaving Boston the last time some of his friends said to him, "You will be here one year hence." And the great lawyer replied: "I shall be here one year hence and one hundred years hence."
"Mrs. Mitchell's work has not been in vain. She has made an impress upon the life of her city "that will not be effaced for generations. She is still with us and will continue to be with us in her beautiful filial devotion, in her wifely fidelity, in the influence and charm of her friendship, in the contagion of her hopeful service to her home and city, in inspiring and practical leadership she gave so unsparingly to the womanhood of our city, the good causes to which she gave assistance and in the personal helpfulness that characterized her. "We mourn her decease, but we are comforted in what she has left us. We shall miss her, but may things remain to remind us that she has been here."
[The Des Moines Register, abt. 1914, submitted by Dana de Ville, transcribed by Cathy Danielson]
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marriage record:
Name: Eliza Cox
Gender: Female
Marriage Date: 30 Dec 1874
Marriage Place: Des Moines, Polk, Iowa
Spouse: W. F. Mitchell
FHL Film Number: 1014766
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in same lot:
Infant Adams, Dr.James W.Adams, Catherine Beatty Cox, Dr.Henry Cox, Agnes Maxfield, Infant Mitchell, Eliza Cox Mitchell, Infant Mitchell, W.Fred Mitchell, Ralph Mitchell
Eliza Cox Mitchell
Mrs. W. F. Mitchell, Club Woman, Dies
Several Weeks' Fight for Life Ended Last Night.
Active in City Work
Secured Hoyt Sherman Place As Home for Des Moines Women's Club.
Mrs. W. F. Mitchell, one of the most prominent club women in Des Moines, died Shortly before 9 o'clock last night at her home at 1214 Seventh street, after a brave fight for life which lasted for several weeks. A complication of diseases was the cause of her death. No funeral arrangements had been made last night and announcement is expected to be made today.
Mrs. Eliza Cox Mitchell was the daughter of Mrs. Catherine Beatty Cox and the late Dr. Henry Cox, who came to Des Moines in 1866. The death of Dr. Cox, who was at first engaged in the wholesale drug business and afterwards a practicing physician, occurred twenty-five years ago. His widow, who is a real daughter of the revolution, has made her home with her daughter for many years. The marriage of Miss Eliza Cox and Mr. W. F. Mitchell took place in Dec. 1874. Two children were born to this union, but neither is living. The deceased is survived, besides her husband and mother, by her sister, Mrs. Mary T. Adams, and her two brothers, Elmer E. Cox and J. E. Cox, all residing at Long Beach.
Active in Club Work
The death of Mrs. Mitchell removes one of the best known and most loved women of Des Moines. She was a power for good throughout her life, which was a most active one until just recently, when ill health caused her to forego many of her activities, but though confined to her home she kept in close touch with all current happenings and was as keenly interested as when a moving force in the city's club life, for it was there that Mrs. Mitchell gave much of her time and devotion. As president of the Review club of Des Moines for two years Mrs. Mitchell became an active force in women's club affairs and women's activities. Later as president of the Women's club and then president of the city federation, her activities widened and her influence was more widely felt.
The Des Moines Women's club owes much to Mrs. Mitchell for it was she who through her acquaintance with public officials and her influence secured Hoyt Sherman place as the club home for this women's club. If other had talked about it there was nothing done, and it remained for Mrs. Mitchell to bring it to pass and make possible a splendid club home for a club which now numbers over 700 members. What this has meant to the success of the club only the members who have had its interest close at heart can know.
Accomplished Good Work
This big work was accomplished by Mrs. Mitchell during her first term as president of the Women's club, the years 1906 and 1909, and it was during her second term, Mrs. Mitchell having been re-elected, that the improvements were made on the club house and the present art gallery added to the residence as occupied by the late Major Hoyt Sherman and family. Mrs. Mitchell put much of herself into all her club work never sparing her time and strength in anyway.
A president of the City Federation of Women's clubs, as a member of the Des Moines library board for two terms, as an officer in the women's club, other than president, and as a member of the Women's club board for nine years Mrs. Mitchell was a potent influence in the advancement of local interests.
Mrs. Mitchell's personal charities were many. She was a friend to everyone who needed a friend, and though she did much, she said very little about it, thus making her work all the more effective. The hospitality of the Mitchell home was well known, and it was genuine hospitality, just as everything about Mrs. Mitchell was genuine, She was democratic in her ideas and broad in her sympathies. Her sense of humor was keen, and when enjoying good health she was the life of any gathering she attended. Mrs. Mitchell had splendid executive ability and could see a long ways ahead.
Appointed Official Hostess.
The Commercial club of Des Moines appointed Mrs. Mitchell an official hostess, it being her duty to represent the club and Des Moines when a convention was being held here, which brought women to the city either as delegates or members of the delegates' families. Mrs. Mitchell planned many social affairs in honor of the women visitors, and a most hospitable hostess she made.
Mrs. Mitchell was a member of the Abigail Addams chapter of the D. A. R., and the Political Equality club.
[The Register and Leader, Des Moines Register, Thursday Morning, abt. 1914, submitted by Dana de Ville, transcribed by Cathy Danielson]
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The Passing of Mrs. W. F. Mitchell, by Belle Vinnedge Drake.
Mrs. W. F. Mitchell, whose last chapter has just closed, made life a thing worth living. It was her mission to bring as much sunshine as possible into her own life as well as into the lives of others. She filled her cup full of joy and, yet, when she saw the end surely approaching, she welcomed it like a true soldier. She said, "I have had my full share of happiness and, now, if the call has come all is well." That was last October, when the hand of the Great Reaper was even then upon her, but still inspiringly cheerful she attended the first meeting of the year at the women's club. This was the last time she was ever present at one of its meetings. A club to which she devoted years of inspiring enthusiasm, executive ability and the gift of her splendid leadership. The club owes its present home to Mrs. Mitchell. It was her foresight, keen appreciation of ways and means and untiring energy that brought the club this gift.
But she was not always the serious woman of business. If there was a frolic on hand she was the inevitable center. Her always kind and ready wit, buoyant spirits and wide acquaintance drew about her willing and admiring followers infected with her fun loving spirit. As a member of the city library board she was an equally zealous worker. In all matters of civic interest she was always alive to her own and women's responsibility in general and was ever a brave and enthusiastic color bearer.
She would be the last one to wish it said: "It is too bad she is gone." Rather would she have it said: "How glad we are that she lived and that her path crossed ours even for a little while."
[The Des Moines Register, abt. 1914, submitted by Dana de Ville, transcribed by Cathy Danielson]
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Mrs. Mitchell, Pioneer Club Woman, Is Dead
Hundreds of Her Club Sisters Mourn Loss of Former President
Built Art Gallery
During Her Regime She Secured Hoyt Sherman Place as Club Home
Mrs. W. F. Mitchell is dead.
No more will her cheery, kindly face be seen at the gatherings where club women love to congregate. Thin and white from her illness, but with eyes sparkling with the old time, indomitable zest, Mrs. Mitchell presided at a meeting of the Des Moines Women's club some months ago�then laid down the gavel for the last time.
"Lide" Mitchell as she was lovingly known by hundreds of good friends was "game" to the last. For a year or more past she has known her days were numbered. But she received the doctor's verdict with a plucky smile.
Wants No Mourners
On Walnut street one day she remarked to a friend: "Some morning you'll hear that Lide Mitchell is dead. And when you do, I don't want you nor any of my friends to feel badly. I don't want any mourning for me. Just remember when you hear that I am gone that Lide Mitchell had a good time. She enjoyed life and tried to make the world a little happier place for other people and she wasn't afraid to go."
Still Interested.
True to word, Mrs. Mitchell kept going as long as her strength kept up and when she was finally compelled to stay at home she still kept in close touch with city and club affairs, as well as with the big happenings of the world at large.
It was due to Mrs. Mitchell's efforts that the Des Moines Women's club secured Hoyt Sherman Place as a permanent club home. It was during her two term reign as club president also that this, the largest club in Iowa, was on its best financial basis and the art gallery was built. Mrs. Mitchell was a member of the D. A. R., was president of the city federation of Women's clubs at one time and of the Review club. She was also noted for her interest in philanthropic works, and many people in the lowly walks of life have benefited by her kindness.
Mother Lives.
Her mother, Mrs. Catherine Cox was an original daughter of the D. A. R., and is in her ninetieth year. She has always made her home with Mrs. Mitchell. Before her marriage Mrs. Mitchell was Miss Eliza Cox. Her parents, Dr. and Mrs. Henry Cox came to Des Moines in 1866. Her marriage to W. F. Mitchell took place in 1874. Two children were born, but both are dead. Mrs. Mitchell was 58 years old. She is survived by her husband, her mother, a sister, Mrs. Mary T. Adams, two brothers, Elmer E. and J. E. Cox, all of Long Beach, Cal.
Her death occurred last night shortly before 9 o'clock.
Next Wednesday was to have been observed at Sherman Place by the Des Moines Women's club as the annual social day but out of respect to Mrs. Mitchell the club house will be closed all day. It is the hope of the club women that a portrait of Mrs. Mitchell may some day be hung in the art gallery at Hoyt Sherman place.
[The Des Moines Register, Thursday, Feb. 12, 1914, submitted by Dana de Ville, transcribed by Cathy Danielson]
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Final Tributes to Mrs. W. F. Mitchell.
Large Company of Friends Attend Funeral Services at Home.
Dr. Hillman Speaks
Favorite Hymns of Deceased Sung by the Methodist Church Choir.
Funeral services for Mrs. W. F. Mitchell, held yesterday afternoon at 2 o'clock at the home at Seventh street and University avenue, were simple. By her request the family avoided all display. The services were attended by hundreds of sorrowing friends.
In December, 1912, Mrs. Mitchell placed with a friend of the family the list of names of friends of the family whom she desired to act as her pallbearers. Of this list, W. R. Marshall, who is out of the city, was the only one who could not serve in this capacity. The pallbearers included Simon Casady, Walter McCain, Judge W. H. McHenry, W. W. Ainsworth, D. S. Chamberlain and H. H. Lantz. The interment was made in the family lot in Woodland cemetery.
The Rev. Dr. John L. Hillman, pastor of the First Methodist church, conducted the brief services. The favorite hymns chosen by Mrs. Mitchell for this occasion, "Lead Kindly Light" and "Crossing the Bar," were sing by a quartette, which included Miss Daisy Binkley, soprano; Mrs. Genevieve Wheat-Baal, contralto; Ray Harmon, tenor, and Jack Campbell, baritone.
In his tribute to the memory of Mrs. Mitchell, Dr. Hillman spoke of her home life. The public phases of her life were well known, said Dr. Hillman, because of their scope.
The decease of this good woman is a distinct loss to our community, she will be greatly missed in home and friendly circles and in the wider circle of our civic life. It was not given me to have known her as long as many of this company, but one had only to meet her even in a hurried manner to realize that she was no ordinary woman," said Dr. Hillman.
In the tributes that have already been paid her in the press of our city as is fitting, attention has been directed especially to the more intimate company some reference should be made to her home life and domestic virtues. Those who knew her best, knew very well that whatever might be her public responsibilities, the claims of her home were never forgotten or even subordinated. She was the cheerful inspiring companion of her husband, the home maker, the dispenser of such a delightful hospitality as was a joy to all who were fortunate enough to share it. The entire community is under obligation to her husband, not only that he did not discourage the wider activities of his wife, but that he rejoiced in them and encouraged her.
Her beautiful relationship to her mother was observed by all who came into this home. Indeed possibly the bitterest drop in her cup the past few months was that she would most likely have to precede her mother out of this life.
As I have come to know her mother I thought I had at least a partial explanation of the daughter. They reacted upon each other in a most helpful manner.
Another factor that entered into her life story was the early death of her children that left her home childless. Selfishness in her grief and sorrow would have made the outcome of her life far different. Her sorrow only softened and sweetened her life. The large rooms in her heart made vacant by her bereavement were not kept closed and empty but were thrown open for the good of many others. The largeness of her love was not hoarded, but its store was increased by the generosity with which she bestowed it.
If she was richly endowed by nature, she increased her talents by their diligent use. Will, energy were the striking traits of her character. Otherwise the output of her life would not have been so large. Her healthy, optimistic spirit was a rare endowment which she diligently cultivated by constant use. That kept her from the paralyzing grip of discouragement, equipped her for companionship and leadership. Even the shadow of approaching death could not cloud her spirit. She laid it as an injunction upon her friends that "there should be no mourning at the bar when she put out to sea." Only a short time since she said to a friend: "I am not afraid to die, I cannot see how anybody who knows God can be afraid." Does not this remind you of the optimism of Browning:
"Fear death to feel the fog in my throat,
The mist in my face
When the snows begin and the blasts denote
I am nearing the place."
She believed that:
"The best of life was yet to be
The last of life for which the first was made;
Our times are in His hand
Who said, a whole I planned,
Youth shows but half: trust God; see all nor be afraid."
"She expected to see her pilot face to face when she had crossed the bar."
No one who knew her could doubt that much of the inspiration of her life came from Him who, when he was on earth, went about doing good, that she was a Christian in her spirit and purpose.
"Ships in Norway entering the great fiords sometimes sail so close to the cliffs that one can stand on deck and almost lay his hand on the face of the rock. When an old captain was once asked about the peril of it, her replied: �There is no danger. That which is in sight indicates what is out of sight. The slant above the water line indicates the slant below. We are perfectly safe."
"That principle is one that we can safely apply here. The slant of our sister's life in the "seen" indicated its slant in the "unseen."
"While we are thinking about our loss and lifting our tear-stained faces up to our Heavenly Father, it is fitting that we should think of some things that are not taken from away from us. Our sister has been taken from our sight, but many things remain that will bring her before our minds. She is gone and yet she remains. The Psalmist prayed: "Let the beauty of the Lord be upon us and establish thou the work of our hands upon us, yea, the work of our hands establish thou it." And in one of his moments of rare vision the great apostle exhorted: "Therefore, my beloved brethren, be ye steadfast, unmovable; always abounding in the work of the Lord, for as much as ye know that your labor is not in vain in the Lord's name."
"When Rufus Choate was leaving Boston the last time some of his friends said to him, "You will be here one year hence." And the great lawyer replied: "I shall be here one year hence and one hundred years hence."
"Mrs. Mitchell's work has not been in vain. She has made an impress upon the life of her city "that will not be effaced for generations. She is still with us and will continue to be with us in her beautiful filial devotion, in her wifely fidelity, in the influence and charm of her friendship, in the contagion of her hopeful service to her home and city, in inspiring and practical leadership she gave so unsparingly to the womanhood of our city, the good causes to which she gave assistance and in the personal helpfulness that characterized her. "We mourn her decease, but we are comforted in what she has left us. We shall miss her, but may things remain to remind us that she has been here."
[The Des Moines Register, abt. 1914, submitted by Dana de Ville, transcribed by Cathy Danielson]
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marriage record:
Name: Eliza Cox
Gender: Female
Marriage Date: 30 Dec 1874
Marriage Place: Des Moines, Polk, Iowa
Spouse: W. F. Mitchell
FHL Film Number: 1014766
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in same lot:
Infant Adams, Dr.James W.Adams, Catherine Beatty Cox, Dr.Henry Cox, Agnes Maxfield, Infant Mitchell, Eliza Cox Mitchell, Infant Mitchell, W.Fred Mitchell, Ralph Mitchell
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