To those who think they know everything, please keep your options to your self. We have and will continue to ask find a grave questions if we see fit. That is our right. We take care of our Veterans respectfully, and feel they have a right to stand out from the rest. Just as thier graves do with memorial flags. We do this using the prefix option. Certain find a grave members who shall remain nameless take it upon themselves to critize us for it. I have checked the find a grave written rules, they have no rules against doing this. Yet they persist. They are straight up bullying us. I decline thier edits time, and time again. I say we should stand up for our Veterans. They stood up for our Country.
Dan and Eileen

To Everyone else we apologize for having to be so blunt but certain people don't get hint. We joined find a grave in order to preserve our family heritage. We do not request graves that are not related to us in some way. We do not collect graves for the sake of collecting. Or looking like big shots because we have 10,000 graves. We take this very seriously. While it is a very fun project for us to do together, we are both disabled and are looking forward to future generations, and thier needs. If we are curious about our past it stands to reason they will be as well. So we are diligently researching, fixing, connecting, and once we are done every family member will have a bio. Not just born- died. But as much info as we can find. So we may not have as many graves, but when we get caught up, everyone will have as much information as we can give them, as well as be connected to as many of thier cherished loved ones as we can find.
So we are asking nicely, please don't tell us how to take care of our graves. For to us, these graves are as real as the ones they are buried in. They deserve respect.
Dan and Eileen

To those who think they know everything, please keep your options to your self. We have and will continue to ask find a grave questions if we see fit. That is our right. We take care of our Veterans respectfully, and feel they have a right to stand out from the rest. Just as thier graves do with memorial flags. We do this using the prefix option. Certain find a grave members who shall remain nameless take it upon themselves to critize us for it. I have checked the find a grave written rules, they have no rules against doing this. Yet they persist. They are straight up bullying us. I decline thier edits time, and time again. I say we should stand up for our Veterans. They stood up for our Country.
Dan and Eileen

To Everyone else we apologize for having to be so blunt but certain people don't get hint. We joined find a grave in order to preserve our family heritage. We do not request graves that are not related to us in some way. We do not collect graves for the sake of collecting. Or looking like big shots because we have 10,000 graves. We take this very seriously. While it is a very fun project for us to do together, we are both disabled and are looking forward to future generations, and thier needs. If we are curious about our past it stands to reason they will be as well. So we are diligently researching, fixing, connecting, and once we are done every family member will have a bio. Not just born- died. But as much info as we can find. So we may not have as many graves, but when we get caught up, everyone will have as much information as we can give them, as well as be connected to as many of thier cherished loved ones as we can find.
So we are asking nicely, please don't tell us how to take care of our graves. For to us, these graves are as real as the ones they are buried in. They deserve respect.
Dan and Eileen