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Hi all! I've been visiting cemeteries since I was a small child when my father used to take me to pioneer cemeteries. We would walk around and ponder the headstones of people who once lived on this earth we all share. I have always felt a special connection to folks who have passed and a respect for them. I am very curious about their lives: paths they took, their dreams, as well as experiences they once had. My interest in genealogy has helped me to better understand my own family past, and I am more than happy to help others in connecting to their families or distant relatives.

A quote from my favorite poet Kahlil Gibran on Death:

You would know the secret of death.
But how shall you find it unless you seek it in the heart of life?
The owl whose night-bound eyes are blind unto the day cannot unveil the mystery of light.
If you would indeed behold the spirit of death, open your heart wide unto the body of life.
For life and death are one, even as the river and the sea are one.
In the depth of your hopes and desires lies your silent knowledge of the beyond;
And like seeds dreaming beneath the snow your heart dreams of spring.
Trust the dreams, for in them is hidden the gate to eternity.
Your fear of death is but the trembling of the shepherd when he stands before the king whose hand is to be laid upon him in honor. Is the shepherd not joyful beneath his trembling, that he shall wear the mark of the king?
Yet is he not more mindful of his trembling?
For what is it to die but to stand naked in the wind and to melt into the sun?
And what is it to cease breathing, but to free the breath from its restless tides, that it may rise and expand and seek God unencumbered?
Only when you drink from the river of silence shall you indeed sing.
And when you have reached the mountain top, then you shall begin to climb.
And when the earth shall claim your limbs, then shall you truly dance.

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