James Standing

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As long as I can remember I have been fascinated with the past and family history. As you look back in time there is a point where things become hard to visualize. Images fade and stone monuments return to the earth. At this point it is hard to separate Mythology from Genealogy. We the "Storytellers" are driven to preserve these images for the future generations.

I will use my knowledge of technology and photography to help separate Genealogy from Mythology.

As for the question of copyrights, I believe it is very disrespectful of the dead to think you would copyright a photograph of there tombstone. A copyright is normally placed on something for a profit. FIND A GRAVE is a FREE service and YOU ARE FREE TO USE ANY PHOTOGRAPH THAT I HAVE TAKEN OF TOMBSTONES, I WANT THE WORLD TO KNOW WHERE THEY ARE.

*** The Story Teller ***

My feelings are in each family there is one who seems called to find the ancestors. To put flesh on their bones and make them live again, to tell the family story and to feel that somehow they know and approve.
To me doing genealogy is not a cold gathering of facts but, instead, breathing life into all who have gone before. We are the story tellers of the tribe. All tribes have one. We have been called as it were by our genes. Those who have gone before cry out to us: Tell our story. So, we do.
In finding them, we somehow find ourselves. How many graves have I stood before now and cried? I have lost count. How many times have I told the ancestors you have a wonderful family you would be proud of us? How many times have I walked up to a grave and felt somehow there was love there for me? I cannot say.
It goes beyond just documenting facts. It goes to who am I and why do I do the things I do?
It goes to seeing a cemetery about to be lost forever to weeds and indifference and saying I can't let this happen. The bones here are bones of my bone and flesh of my flesh. It goes to doing something about it.
It goes to pride in what our ancestors were able to accomplish. How they contributed to what we are today.
It goes to respecting their hardships and losses, their never giving in or giving up, their resoluteness to go on and build a life for their family.
It goes to deep pride that they fought to make and keep us a Nation. It goes to a deep and immense understanding that they were doing it for us. That we might be born who we are. That we might remember them. So we do.
With love and caring and scribing each fact of their existence, because we are them and they are us.
So, as a scribe called I tell the story of my family. It is up to that one called in the next generation to answer the call and take their place in the long line of family storytellers.
That, is why I do my family genealogy, and that is what calls those young and old to step up and put flesh on the bones.

Written by Della M. Cummings Wright and re-written by her grand daughter, Della JoAnn McGinnis Johnson.

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