I enjoy filling requests for others. I take the time to clean up around stones that are neglected or half buried before I photograph them. It breaks my heart to see the condition of some of them. If I created a memorial for your family member I will be happy to transfer management to you. Just let me know.
A very useful link for finding historical graves in Rhode Island is:
Here is a link to the Nationwide Gravesite locator for military.http://gravelocator.cem.va.gov/
PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE do not fill requests, upload pictures etc to graves that already are claimed. Of if you photograph a grave, make sure you fulfill the claim in the proper manner. It's a waste of my time to go fill requests that are already done but improperly.