I have been a cemetery buff most of my life. Cemeteries are sacred ground where our ancestors have memorialized and honored those who have passed on before us and where we ourselves will one day be memorialized. My favorite graves are those from the 19th and early 20th century as much thought and work went into them as opposed to the mass produced headstones of today. I am a husband and father of a pre-teen daughter. My family attends Muskogee First Assembly of God (www.m1a.us) in Muskogee, OK where I coordinate our social media (Facebook, Twitter, etc) (www.facebook.com/muskogeefirstassembly). I also work for the Cherokee Nation in Tahlequah, OK.Effective 5/29/12: I will only transfer memorials to immediate family members (spouses, children, grandchildren, etc) per FAG policy. If you are not immediate family, do not bother asking. Requests for transfers must include the name, memorial number and relation to the deceased.