I am a Victim's Advocate by profession. I am, also, a Massage Therapist, part time. I lost my son to murder 17 years ago. Life has not been the same. Yet, I find the courage to carry on knowing, that is the way he would want it. I have a beautiful daughter, son-in-law and two beautiful grandchildren. They are my joy and love. My family is there for each other. I have two sisters and a brother. My Mom has been very ill and Dad passed away May of 2008. He is also on this site under Vincent Trama. This site is one of healing and releasing. It is a way to communicate feelings that may be difficult to do otherwise. I am glad to be a member of it... thanks to my niece Michele who introduced me to it.