I've had a long held belief that everytime we think of or speak lovingly of someone that has passed our words are whispered in their ear in heaven. They know they are remembered and loved and the love they gave or the good deeds they did live on forever. Remember it isn't about how much money you have, what mighty things you've accomplished, but the love and kindness you show. "Above all things the greatest of these is love."
That is why I was so happy when I found this site. I can literally leave the thoughts I have about my loved ones written here. (some of my family think I little "touched" for believing this, but, oh well :) It is also why I don't just leave a token. I take time to learn about the person and write words I want angels to whisper in their ear. :)
Thank you to my friends here at Find A Grave! All the tokens, kind words and friendship mean so much to me.
Again, thank you so much for everything you have done for me and I hope you reach out to Aunt Grace and Carleen by visiting Keith's memorial.