Have been doing family history research for over 50 years now. I started when my children were babies and they are now all grown and have children and grandchildren of their own. I am retired.
I live in the metro Denver area but travel back home to Cheyenne county, Kansas quite frequently to visit my daughter and family. I would be delighted to take photos of graves in that area if needed.
If I have left a flower at a memorial site, the chances are very good that the person also appears on my tree - Naindata at ancestry.com. Look there for possible genealogical clues.