FINDAGRAVE MEMORIAL TRANSFERS:
Explain your relationship in the request! You need to make the request for transfer via the "Suggest a Correction" link under the "Edit" tab on the memorial.
Findagrave policy states that transfer requests should be limited to DIRECT RELATIVES WITHIN FOUR GENERATIONS. This would be YOUR:
Any non-direct relatives (aunts, uncles, cousins, etc) will not be transferred, please don't ask.
This originated with my friend FDP and I agree with it 100%.
I do also add that if myself or my wife are equally related to any one particular individual. It is very unlikely to be transferred. So please do not use the excuse that your more related than us.