I live in Hendersonville, NC. I was born in Waynesville, NC. My family lived in Balsam, NC & are buried there. If I have anyones family members and they are not my family. You are welcome to them. There a lot of contributors that only seem to see how many listing they can list and hold and that is not the real reason for this web site. You should never hold any family members that can be handed down to other generations. Any family member should have the first rights over anyone that is not relative to them. Common sense goes a long way.