Hello. I live in Ada, OK (but I am originally from Asher) and have been doing family research for a few years now. Find a Grave is a great resource and I'm very appreciative of it and its members. If you would like to add or correct any information I have posted on this site, or would like a family members' memorial transferred to you (or removed), just let me know! I try to photograph veteran's stones whenever I am in a cemetery as a small way to say thanks, so that's why I may have listed a family member of yours. I am the County Keeper for Pontotoc County, Oklahoma. If you see any problems with the cemetery listings in the county, please email me so I can get them corrected.
One of my favorite (if not dark) epitaphs:
"Remember friends as you pass by, as you are now so once was I, as I am now so you must be, therefore prepare to follow me."