Helen Josephine <I>Vining</I> Neal

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Helen Josephine Vining Neal

Birth
Muncie, Delaware County, Indiana, USA
Death
24 Aug 1994 (aged 81)
Los Angeles County, California, USA
Burial
Rancho Palos Verdes, Los Angeles County, California, USA Add to Map
Plot
Sunrise Slope 103F
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Born in 1913, Helen was the youngest child of Sarah Brown and John Vining's 8 children. Having completed 10th grade, she was also the highest educated among them. After her mother died, Helen went to work as a live-in maid for the Skinners.

In 1932, Helen, age 19, married Theodore Roosevelt Neal in Grant Co. Unable to have children of their own, the couple fostered a daughter named Mary Ann Fields and loved her for 7 years before one tragic day in January 1943 when Mary Ann died from burns. Her clothes caught fire when lighting the kitchen stove. Helen and Ted buried their daughter in Winchester and soon after relocated to the Los Angeles basin where they acquired another little girl to love, Arlene Waynett Ross. They also fostered a girl named Francis Dottson for a short time.

In 1956, the family's lives took another turn when Ted died unexpectedly. To make ends meet, Helen went to work at Woolworth's, took in ironing, and eventually went back to maid service in private family homes.

Four years later, Helen was involved in a serious accident that could have taken her life. She wrote, "Oct 5, 1960 9 a.m. Our 1958 Belvedere Plymouth after being hit by a freight train on left side, flipped and hit on right side. Then hit by a tank milk truck. I came out of it with a lacerated right knee, 9 stitches and one stitch in my right ankle. How I came out of it without serious injuries or death. It certainly was a miracle."

Helen was a deeply devoted Christian even before the accident. She was a faithful member of the 1st Southern Baptist Church in Inglewood for over 30 years. Several of those years she taught Sunday school to children. She was also a voracious reader and donated her books to the church library after she had read them.

Perhaps because of the car accident, Helen did not drive. She rode the bus, walked, or made arrangements with other people. She had a habit of clutching her purse close to her side and one day as she entered a freeway underpass two hoodlum boys tried to yank her purse out from under her. Helen yelled out and swung her purse at them.

Among Helen's favorite things were her Pekingese dog named Puggy, her parakeets, and a poodle that once bit into a wire and lost the curl in its fur; watching Lawrence Welk and Roller Derby which she insisted was REAL and not acting; Frosted Shredded Wheat, hamburger patties, and her signature dish: Watergate Salad. She loved to dress her finest, adorn herself with jewelry, paint her nails, and get her hair done in a salon every Saturday.

* * But most of all Helen loved people. * *

Steadfast, loving and reliable, Helen helped raise her seven grandchildren, two of whom lived with her for a full year. She kept in contact with her family back East, going back occasionally to visit; she was especially close to her sisters, Mae, Anna, and Mary.

Buried beside her on either side are Helen's husband, Ted, and mother-in-law, Tempie.

One last thing about my Grandma: She could not take a photo without getting her finger in the picture too. She is to this day deeply treasured and I miss her immensely.

Born in 1913, Helen was the youngest child of Sarah Brown and John Vining's 8 children. Having completed 10th grade, she was also the highest educated among them. After her mother died, Helen went to work as a live-in maid for the Skinners.

In 1932, Helen, age 19, married Theodore Roosevelt Neal in Grant Co. Unable to have children of their own, the couple fostered a daughter named Mary Ann Fields and loved her for 7 years before one tragic day in January 1943 when Mary Ann died from burns. Her clothes caught fire when lighting the kitchen stove. Helen and Ted buried their daughter in Winchester and soon after relocated to the Los Angeles basin where they acquired another little girl to love, Arlene Waynett Ross. They also fostered a girl named Francis Dottson for a short time.

In 1956, the family's lives took another turn when Ted died unexpectedly. To make ends meet, Helen went to work at Woolworth's, took in ironing, and eventually went back to maid service in private family homes.

Four years later, Helen was involved in a serious accident that could have taken her life. She wrote, "Oct 5, 1960 9 a.m. Our 1958 Belvedere Plymouth after being hit by a freight train on left side, flipped and hit on right side. Then hit by a tank milk truck. I came out of it with a lacerated right knee, 9 stitches and one stitch in my right ankle. How I came out of it without serious injuries or death. It certainly was a miracle."

Helen was a deeply devoted Christian even before the accident. She was a faithful member of the 1st Southern Baptist Church in Inglewood for over 30 years. Several of those years she taught Sunday school to children. She was also a voracious reader and donated her books to the church library after she had read them.

Perhaps because of the car accident, Helen did not drive. She rode the bus, walked, or made arrangements with other people. She had a habit of clutching her purse close to her side and one day as she entered a freeway underpass two hoodlum boys tried to yank her purse out from under her. Helen yelled out and swung her purse at them.

Among Helen's favorite things were her Pekingese dog named Puggy, her parakeets, and a poodle that once bit into a wire and lost the curl in its fur; watching Lawrence Welk and Roller Derby which she insisted was REAL and not acting; Frosted Shredded Wheat, hamburger patties, and her signature dish: Watergate Salad. She loved to dress her finest, adorn herself with jewelry, paint her nails, and get her hair done in a salon every Saturday.

* * But most of all Helen loved people. * *

Steadfast, loving and reliable, Helen helped raise her seven grandchildren, two of whom lived with her for a full year. She kept in contact with her family back East, going back occasionally to visit; she was especially close to her sisters, Mae, Anna, and Mary.

Buried beside her on either side are Helen's husband, Ted, and mother-in-law, Tempie.

One last thing about my Grandma: She could not take a photo without getting her finger in the picture too. She is to this day deeply treasured and I miss her immensely.


Inscription

Graced us with her presence April 11, 1913
Laid in our Lord's arms August 24, 1994



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  • Find a Grave, database and images (https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/92150989/helen_josephine-neal: accessed ), memorial page for Helen Josephine Vining Neal (11 Apr 1913–24 Aug 1994), Find a Grave Memorial ID 92150989, citing Green Hills Memorial Park, Rancho Palos Verdes, Los Angeles County, California, USA; Maintained by Roselei (contributor 47673030).