In 1932, Helen, age 19, married Theodore Roosevelt Neal in Grant Co. Unable to have children of their own, the couple fostered a daughter named Mary Ann Fields and loved her for 7 years before one tragic day in January 1943 when Mary Ann died from burns. Her clothes caught fire when lighting the kitchen stove. Helen and Ted buried their daughter in Winchester and soon after relocated to the Los Angeles basin where they acquired another little girl to love, Arlene Waynett Ross. They also fostered a girl named Francis Dottson for a short time.
In 1956, the family's lives took another turn when Ted died unexpectedly. To make ends meet, Helen went to work at Woolworth's, took in ironing, and eventually went back to maid service in private family homes.
Four years later, Helen was involved in a serious accident that could have taken her life. She wrote, "Oct 5, 1960 9 a.m. Our 1958 Belvedere Plymouth after being hit by a freight train on left side, flipped and hit on right side. Then hit by a tank milk truck. I came out of it with a lacerated right knee, 9 stitches and one stitch in my right ankle. How I came out of it without serious injuries or death. It certainly was a miracle."
Helen was a deeply devoted Christian even before the accident. She was a faithful member of the 1st Southern Baptist Church in Inglewood for over 30 years. Several of those years she taught Sunday school to children. She was also a voracious reader and donated her books to the church library after she had read them.
Perhaps because of the car accident, Helen did not drive. She rode the bus, walked, or made arrangements with other people. She had a habit of clutching her purse close to her side and one day as she entered a freeway underpass two hoodlum boys tried to yank her purse out from under her. Helen yelled out and swung her purse at them.
Among Helen's favorite things were her Pekingese dog named Puggy, her parakeets, and a poodle that once bit into a wire and lost the curl in its fur; watching Lawrence Welk and Roller Derby which she insisted was REAL and not acting; Frosted Shredded Wheat, hamburger patties, and her signature dish: Watergate Salad. She loved to dress her finest, adorn herself with jewelry, paint her nails, and get her hair done in a salon every Saturday.
* * But most of all Helen loved people. * *
Steadfast, loving and reliable, Helen helped raise her seven grandchildren, two of whom lived with her for a full year. She kept in contact with her family back East, going back occasionally to visit; she was especially close to her sisters, Mae, Anna, and Mary.
Buried beside her on either side are Helen's husband, Ted, and mother-in-law, Tempie.
One last thing about my Grandma: She could not take a photo without getting her finger in the picture too. She is to this day deeply treasured and I miss her immensely.
In 1932, Helen, age 19, married Theodore Roosevelt Neal in Grant Co. Unable to have children of their own, the couple fostered a daughter named Mary Ann Fields and loved her for 7 years before one tragic day in January 1943 when Mary Ann died from burns. Her clothes caught fire when lighting the kitchen stove. Helen and Ted buried their daughter in Winchester and soon after relocated to the Los Angeles basin where they acquired another little girl to love, Arlene Waynett Ross. They also fostered a girl named Francis Dottson for a short time.
In 1956, the family's lives took another turn when Ted died unexpectedly. To make ends meet, Helen went to work at Woolworth's, took in ironing, and eventually went back to maid service in private family homes.
Four years later, Helen was involved in a serious accident that could have taken her life. She wrote, "Oct 5, 1960 9 a.m. Our 1958 Belvedere Plymouth after being hit by a freight train on left side, flipped and hit on right side. Then hit by a tank milk truck. I came out of it with a lacerated right knee, 9 stitches and one stitch in my right ankle. How I came out of it without serious injuries or death. It certainly was a miracle."
Helen was a deeply devoted Christian even before the accident. She was a faithful member of the 1st Southern Baptist Church in Inglewood for over 30 years. Several of those years she taught Sunday school to children. She was also a voracious reader and donated her books to the church library after she had read them.
Perhaps because of the car accident, Helen did not drive. She rode the bus, walked, or made arrangements with other people. She had a habit of clutching her purse close to her side and one day as she entered a freeway underpass two hoodlum boys tried to yank her purse out from under her. Helen yelled out and swung her purse at them.
Among Helen's favorite things were her Pekingese dog named Puggy, her parakeets, and a poodle that once bit into a wire and lost the curl in its fur; watching Lawrence Welk and Roller Derby which she insisted was REAL and not acting; Frosted Shredded Wheat, hamburger patties, and her signature dish: Watergate Salad. She loved to dress her finest, adorn herself with jewelry, paint her nails, and get her hair done in a salon every Saturday.
* * But most of all Helen loved people. * *
Steadfast, loving and reliable, Helen helped raise her seven grandchildren, two of whom lived with her for a full year. She kept in contact with her family back East, going back occasionally to visit; she was especially close to her sisters, Mae, Anna, and Mary.
Buried beside her on either side are Helen's husband, Ted, and mother-in-law, Tempie.
One last thing about my Grandma: She could not take a photo without getting her finger in the picture too. She is to this day deeply treasured and I miss her immensely.
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Graced us with her presence April 11, 1913
Laid in our Lord's arms August 24, 1994