Nathaniel Ashby Sr.


Nathaniel Ashby Sr.

Salem, Essex County, Massachusetts, USA
Death 23 Sep 1846 (aged 41)
Bonaparte, Van Buren County, Iowa, USA
Burial Salt Lake City, Salt Lake County, Utah, USA
Memorial ID 21711680 View Source
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Nathanial Ashby Sr.

Nathaniel Ashby Sr. was the son of Mary Young and Benjamin Ashby. He married Susan Hammond on November 30, 1826 in Salem, Massachusetts.

They had eleven children: Benjamin Ashby, Susan Ann Ashby, Elizabeth Rebecca Ashby, Martha Ellen Ashby, Harriet Maria Ashby, Ashby, Louisa Ashby, William Hardin Ashby, John Jefford Ashby and Emma Smith Ashby

Nathaniel died three years after their youngest was born, leaving his wife to raise their children. He was buried in Bonaparte, Iowa. When his wife died in Salt Lake City, Utah, he was memorialized on her gravestone as seen in the photo.

(Nathaniel Ashby was born in 1805 at Salem, Massachusetts, the son of Benjamin Ashby (1776-1841) and a descendant of Anthony Ashby (b. ca. 1630). He married Susan Hammond (1808-1851), daughter of Edward and Rebecca Flack Hammond.

They had twelve children, ca. 1824-1845. The family joined the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter- day Saints in 1841 and migrated to Nauvoo, Illinois, in 1843. He died on the plains near Bonaparte, Iowa, in 1846, after the Mormons were driven from Nauvoo. The family continued to Utah, arriving in 1848. His widow married 2) Joseph B. Noble and had one daughter, born in 1849.
History Written by: Fuchsia Stringham, a great-grand-daughter, November 10, 1958

Daughters of the Utah Pioneers, Camp: Ann Roberts Dustin, South Davis County

Nathaniel Ashby was born 15 April, 1805, in Salem, Essex Co., Massachusetts, (same year as the Prophet Joseph Smith). He was the son of Benjamin and Mary Young Ashby. Mary Young was a descendant of Governor Bradford of Rhode Island, a passenger on the ship Mayflower. His father, Benjamin, was born in Salem, 6 September, 1776. the Ashbys had lived for at least six generations: Anthony, an innkeeper; Benjamin, Jonathan, Jonathan and Jonathan, all shiprights, were followed by Benjamin, and then Nathaniel, the subject of this sketch.

In early life he was apprenticed to the shoe-making trade, and became expert in making fine shoes. He was employed for 13 years by the firm of Danford and Simonds, and later set up business for himself. He married Susan Hammond, three years younger than himself, daughter of Edward and Rebecca Flack Hammond.

By their industry and frugality the couple acquired a good home in South Salem amid comfortable surroundings, together with additional houses which they rented.

Nathaniel did not belong to any church, but attended the Universalist Church of which his wife was a member. In 1840, when he was about 35 years old. Elder Erastus Snow and others brought the true gospel message to this family, as follows . . . .

Nathaniel returned home one Sunday noon, saying he had been to hear a new religion preached by a Mormon in Masonic Hall. He took down his Bible and began to read some passages to his wife, who was confined to her bed by the birth of their 10th child, a daughter, Mary Jane. In the afternoon he and his son Benjamin, now 15 years old, attended another Mormon Meeting. His wife, as soon as able, also attended the meetings. One Sunday he gave his son Benjamin some money and told him to go pay the sexton at the church they previously attended, and give up their pew. Shortly afterwards, he and his wife were baptized into the Latter Day Saint Church. Though they had borne excellent characters all their days, they were now called crazy and derided by relatives and friends. Later that year, their two eldest children, Benjamin and Susan, were baptized.

On December 9, 1841, Nathaniel paid Erastus Snow $500 for a lot in Nauvoo, and also sent money to have a house built there. With the money, Erastus Snow built a duplex 2-story adobe house, half for himself, and half for the Ashbys. This home still stands in Nauvoo, and is owned now by the Church.

About two years later (in 1843) Nathaniel sold his shoe business to his brother, John Jefford Ashby, and set out with his family to live in his new home at Nauvoo.

They left Salem 14 October 1843, going first to Boston, where they stayed with Elizabeth Stuart (Nathaniel's wife's sister); then took passage with a large company from neighboring towns for Albany, New York, by railroad. Next they traveled by Erie Canal to Buffalo, then by steam boat to Cleveland, Ohio, on Lake Erie, by canals across the State of Ohio to Wheeling, thence down the Ohio River to the Mississippi River, and up that river to Nauvoo. They arrived 3 November, 1843.

Their home was not finished, so the Ashbys rented a room in a stone house near the landing, and later a log house, until their house was completed, the last of January, 1844.

In February, 1844, Nathaniel was ordained a seventy. He was sent as a delegate to the East, advocating and supporting the claim of the Prophet Joseph Smith as a candidate for the Presidency of the United States. While he was away, his son did some shoe making, and paddled the shoes that had been brought from Salem on their emigration.

The Ashby home in Nauvoo was only a few blocks from the Mansion House, the home of the Prophet. He was often admired by members of the Ashby family as he rode by on his beautiful black horse, attired in a tall beaver hat and circular cape, sitting so erect and looking so gentle and refined. He sometimes called at the Ashby home, which they considered a great honor.

They had been in Nauvoo less than a year when the prophet Joseph Smith was martyred on June 27, 1844. This plunged the Saints into the deepest sorrow and mourning. All night Grandmother Ashby sat by her bedroom window filled with terror for the safety of the people now that the leaders were gone. The dismal howling of the dogs, the uncertainty and fear, made the night most memorable. She took her children to view the bodies as they lay in state before burial. A sad sight never forgotten.

Nathaniel returned from his mission in the fall, and was laid up most of the winter with rheumatism. The summer of 1845 was spent in making shoes for Brother Boynton, Amos Davis, and the Cooperative Shoe and Harness Company. When contributions were asked for furnishing the Nauvoo Temple, Grandmother Ashby shared her belongings, giving a large mirror, a dresser, two beautiful home-made rugs and a dark brown Brussels carpet. No call was left unheeded by her or her family.

Soon the people began to leave Nauvoo. Before they left, Nathaniel and Susan were sealed in the Nauvoo Temple, 3 February 1846. The river was frozen over, and the people crossed on the ice.

There was a committee appointed to dispose of property left by those emigrating. Nathaniel put his house into their hands to find a buyer. A merchant was found who offered $400 in goods at wholesale prices – just a fraction of the value of his house. Then the committee exchanged the goods for cattle and wagons. Nathaniel was obliged to wait some weeks for the cattle. When they came, he and his son Benjamin went over the river to select them, with the help of Brother Phineas Young, as the Ashbys had no experience with horned cattle. They obtained six yoke of oxen, only two of which were broken to work. They drove the cattle to the camp on Sugar Creek, and Benjamin was left there to herd them.

The Ashbys were not acquainted with the management of cattle. Brother Phineas Young, who had assisted them in the selection of horned stock, recommended Brother John Hill to help. He was a Canadian, and had left Nauvoo and camped on the bank of the river, being without teams or wagons. He was engaged to handle the oxen for the use of a wagon and team to move to camp with. He commenced to handle the oxen, and in a short time was able to use them.

Previously, a young Benjamin had obtained wood-work for a wagon, had then got a blacksmith to iron it off, and had built a wagon box. The expenses had been paid by shoe making.

Nathaniel returned to Nauvoo. He fitted up two more wagons, and acquired two cows. He now had three wagons, six yoke of oxen, and three cows. He was among the favored ones, as many could not dispose of their property at all.

The family had lived in Nauvoo only three years when the Saints were driven out. The night they crossed the river, they saw, on looking back, their beautiful temple in flames, and heard the roar and boom of cannons. On the day of the Nauvoo battle, they took up the line of march for the distant camp on the Missouri River. Nathaniel gave Bro. John Hill one wagon and two yoke of oxen, if he would assist him in the work. Not used to exposure and outdoor work, Nathaniel soon failed in health.

One day a man came to camp, looking for men to work on a thresher. Nathaniel and Brother Hill hired out to him, and worked three days, when Nathaniel took sick. It became necessary to move to a more healthful location.

Benjamin drove the first wagon; Sister Hill drove the second, with Nathaniel lying sick in the wagon; Bro. Hill brought up the rear. On the third day, they arrived at the town of Bonaparte, Iowa. Here there was a large flour mill, and by trading cloth, the party laid in some flour. On they went about six miles west. In the morning one yoke of oxen was gone. They camped there for one week. Here Nathaniel died, 10 September, 1846, aged 41, and leaving a widow with eleven fatherless children. His wife had a few dollars, and sent Benjamin, the eldest son, back to a sawmill to purchase some rough oak boards sufficient to make a coffin. It was made by Brother Hill and Father Taylor (the father of John Taylor, later President of the Church). In a grave on the plains the burial took place by the side of a little child of Brother and Sister Parmers. A faithful Latter-day Saint and a kind and loving father remained behind as the company moved on.

Next day Brother Hill found the oxen five or six miles away, and the travelers prepared to start on West.

Nathaniel had been the father of twelve children, six boys and six girls. The oldest, a boy, had died as a child. The youngest, a boy, had been born at Nauvoo. Nathaniel's death was a great trial to his wife and eleven children. It took courage and faith to bear this great bereavement.

His widow arranged for her children to be provided for as best she could. One daughter was taken into the family of Lorenzo Young; one went with Joseph Bates Noble; and another traveled with the family of Brigham Young. One son drove a team for a Brother Haven. One daughter, Rebecca, had married Erastus Snow. Susan still had six children with her to look after and to care for their needs. The oldest son drove a team and acted as father to the younger children.

Arriving in Salt Lake Valley after the long, trying journey, September 20, 1848, she lived in a vacated room in the old fort provided by Brother Noble, whom she had previously married at Winter Quarters.

Susan Hammond Ashby and her eleven children all lived to reach Utah in 1848.

-Biographical WIKI
According to his Wikitree obit, he died and was buried in Bonaparte, Van Buren, Iowa NOT Salt Lake City Cemetery (unless his remains were transferred to Salt Lake. Just thought I would drop you a line about this.

By Marie Wallace


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