He married Lovina Rogers
Illinois Marriages to 1850
Name: Bosunrges Ruby
Spouse: Lavina Rogers
Marriage Date: 5 Apr 1843
Marriage County: Edgar
married Mary Blakesley (1849), Elizabeth Blakesley (1860), and Louvina Ellen Jackson (1881)
a marriage record on FamilySearch says the marriage was on 16th of April.
U.S., Civil War Soldier Records and Profiles, 1861-1865
Name: Boanerges F Ruby
Age at Enlistment: 42
Enlistment Date: 25 Jul 1863
Rank at enlistment: Private
State Served: Iowa
Survived the War?: Yes
Service Record: Enlisted in Company D, Iowa 8th Cavalry Regiment on 25 Jul 1863.
Mustered out on 13 Aug 1865 at Macon, GA.
Birth Date: abt 1821
Sources: Roster & Record of Iowa Soldiers in the War of Rebellion
Gravesite Details Civil War, Co. D 6th Iowa Cavalry