Born Mary Elizabeth Van Dam on November 11, 1920, she was one of the fourteen children (eight boys and six girls) of Herbert Evans Van Dam and Lillieth Ann (Smith) Van Dam. Betty arrived at the bucolic time when her father, a prominent Salt Lake attorney, could keep a cow on the family home on Seventh East in metropolitan Salt Lake.
Betty was a proud graduate of Granite High School who at age ninety-five could still sing the Granite fight song. She then attended Utah State Agricultural College (now Utah State University), where she met George William Ebert of Granite. They were subsequently married in the Salt Lake Temple on February 3, 1940. George and Betty and their growing family lived in a variety of locations around southern Salt Lake.
Betty was a wonderful lady with a sharp, inquisitive mind who lived life with grace and humor. Being a Van Dam, she was full of spunk, spit, and grit. She also was a stalwart, upbeat caring woman with a welcoming disposition.
She loved reading, particularly anything by Tom Brokaw. Early on, she considered herself a shark on the tennis court. Later in life, she found wordsearch puzzles, which could keep her entertained for hours. Most of all, she loved her family. Betty dearly loved her husband, George, and her children, grandchildren, and now great-grandchildren. She could make each one feel they were her favorite. All loved her in return.
She enjoyed her time spent serving in a variety of positions in the LDS Church, including callings as Relief Society President and Primary President.
Betty is survived by her sister, Doris Bailey; four children, Carol (Jim Ferrell), Ron (Perri), Mark (Diane), and Julie (Wes Smith); twenty-one grandchildren, and twenty-one great-grandchildren. Preceding her in death were George, her husband of sixty years; and daughter, Ginni (Wayne Bingham).
Since George's passing, Betty has lived with her daughter, Julie, and son-in-law, Wes, who made her an integral part of the Smith family over the last thirteen years. Over the last four years, Julie has been ably and compassionately assisted by Oli Tesina, whose care for Betty was superb. Intermountain Hospice was a superlative resource for Betty's last days, both from physical aspects of Betty's care, but, more especially, the advice, counsel, and moral support provided to Julie and Wes in these emotional times.
The funeral services for Mary Elizabeth Van Dam Ebert will be held beginning at 11:00 a.m. on Monday, July 18, 2016 in the East Millcreek Sixth Ward Chapel, 3103 East Craig Drive (3600 South), East Millcreek.
Burial next to George in the Granite Cemetery, 2949 East 9800 South, Granite, will follow.
A visitation will be held prior to the services at the church from 9:30-10:30 a.m.
Published in the Salt Lake Tribune and Deseret News on July 17, 2016.
Born Mary Elizabeth Van Dam on November 11, 1920, she was one of the fourteen children (eight boys and six girls) of Herbert Evans Van Dam and Lillieth Ann (Smith) Van Dam. Betty arrived at the bucolic time when her father, a prominent Salt Lake attorney, could keep a cow on the family home on Seventh East in metropolitan Salt Lake.
Betty was a proud graduate of Granite High School who at age ninety-five could still sing the Granite fight song. She then attended Utah State Agricultural College (now Utah State University), where she met George William Ebert of Granite. They were subsequently married in the Salt Lake Temple on February 3, 1940. George and Betty and their growing family lived in a variety of locations around southern Salt Lake.
Betty was a wonderful lady with a sharp, inquisitive mind who lived life with grace and humor. Being a Van Dam, she was full of spunk, spit, and grit. She also was a stalwart, upbeat caring woman with a welcoming disposition.
She loved reading, particularly anything by Tom Brokaw. Early on, she considered herself a shark on the tennis court. Later in life, she found wordsearch puzzles, which could keep her entertained for hours. Most of all, she loved her family. Betty dearly loved her husband, George, and her children, grandchildren, and now great-grandchildren. She could make each one feel they were her favorite. All loved her in return.
She enjoyed her time spent serving in a variety of positions in the LDS Church, including callings as Relief Society President and Primary President.
Betty is survived by her sister, Doris Bailey; four children, Carol (Jim Ferrell), Ron (Perri), Mark (Diane), and Julie (Wes Smith); twenty-one grandchildren, and twenty-one great-grandchildren. Preceding her in death were George, her husband of sixty years; and daughter, Ginni (Wayne Bingham).
Since George's passing, Betty has lived with her daughter, Julie, and son-in-law, Wes, who made her an integral part of the Smith family over the last thirteen years. Over the last four years, Julie has been ably and compassionately assisted by Oli Tesina, whose care for Betty was superb. Intermountain Hospice was a superlative resource for Betty's last days, both from physical aspects of Betty's care, but, more especially, the advice, counsel, and moral support provided to Julie and Wes in these emotional times.
The funeral services for Mary Elizabeth Van Dam Ebert will be held beginning at 11:00 a.m. on Monday, July 18, 2016 in the East Millcreek Sixth Ward Chapel, 3103 East Craig Drive (3600 South), East Millcreek.
Burial next to George in the Granite Cemetery, 2949 East 9800 South, Granite, will follow.
A visitation will be held prior to the services at the church from 9:30-10:30 a.m.
Published in the Salt Lake Tribune and Deseret News on July 17, 2016.
Family Members
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Smith Van Dam
1909–1964
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Charles Hubert Van Dam Sr
1910–1980
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Norman Van Dam
1912–1994
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Margaret Van Dam Allen
1914–2010
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Lillieth Vandam Mayer
1916–1978
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Richard Warren Van Dam
1918–1979
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Claire Van Dam Tidwell
1919–1979
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Doris Louise Van Dam Bailey
1922–2018
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Esther Louella "Lou" VanDam Gundersen
1923–2013
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Robert Theodore Van Dam
1926–1981
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Stephen Ralph Van Dam
1928–2012
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Jerrold David Van Dam
1930–1986
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