Thomas J. “T.J.” Parham, Jr

Thomas J. “T.J.” Parham, Jr

Valdosta, Lowndes County, Georgia, USA
Death 17 Apr 2016 (aged 31)
Valdosta, Lowndes County, Georgia, USA
Burial Valdosta, Lowndes County, Georgia, USA
Memorial ID 161234559 · View Source
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TJ was born March 13, 1985 in Valdosta,Georgia He was the son of Jeff and Debbie Barwick Parham. He attended Georgia Christian School pre school, Clyattville Elementary School, Lowndes Middle school and graduated from Lowndes High School with honors. He was a member of the Georgia Bridgemen band and the Jazz Band of Lowndes High.
He graduated from Valdosta State College with a BS in accounting. He worked in the accounting department of two banks in Valdosta. Ga and one in Moultrie Georgia. He then worked as an indepentment contractor with Avianna Global working with the Chickasaw Indian Nation in Ada, Oklahoma. He had become a certified analyst. He had bought a home in Valdosta and traveled back and forth between Ada, Oklahoma and his home.
He was our computer geek. He did all the installation and trouble shooting when any family member had a computer problem. He had all expenses paid and a good salary with his job. He was scheduled to leave on April 17 going back to Ada. He did not answer our call to go eat lunch with us before catching his flight out. His Dad went to his house to check on him and found him.

TJ passed away on April 17, 2016 as a victim of suicide. It was a total shock to the family and can not understand why.
He is survived by his Father and step-Mother, one brother and one sister, one niece, his grandparents Bruce and Delita Barwick, two special aunts and his two cousins.
He was preceded in death by his MotherDebra Lynn Barwick
and his paternal Grandparents Bascom Parham and Lorene Parham

His Mother Debbie had passed away in 2006 from complications with ulcerative colitis.
He will be forever loved and missed by all of his family and many friends.

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  • Find A Grave, database and images ( : accessed ), memorial page for Thomas J. “T.J.” Parham, Jr (13 Mar 1985–17 Apr 2016), Find A Grave Memorial no. 161234559, citing Riverview Memorial Gardens, Valdosta, Lowndes County, Georgia, USA ; Maintained by Delita (contributor 47315206) .