Wilma Kathryn <I>Hardecopf</I> Weness

Wilma Kathryn Hardecopf Weness

Grand Meadow, Mower County, Minnesota, USA
Death 16 Feb 2014 (aged 88)
Rochester, Olmsted County, Minnesota, USA
Burial Adams, Mower County, Minnesota, USA
Plot 80
Memorial ID 125330004 · View Source
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Wilma Kathryn Weness, 88, of Adams died on Sunday February 16th at St. Mary's Hospital, Rochester.

She was born October 8, 1925 in rural Grand Meadow the daughter of William and Rachel (Julson) Hardecopf. Wilma graduated from the Adams High School and was married to Selmer Weness on June 12, 1945. Wilma was a lifelong area resident and farmed with her husband, Selmer (Sally) until 1978. She was employed by Wagner's Super Value for 18 years and was active in church activities through the Women of ELCA, her Circle and with quilting. She was a charter board member of Friends and Fellowship. Wilma served on the Adams Health Care Auxiliary and enjoyed family gatherings, baking and cooking and crocheting.

Survivors include her five children, Karen (Richard) Doughan of Waukee, IA.; Shirley (Randy) Sammons of Atlanta, GA; Gary (Angie) of North Branch, MN; BJ (Laura) of Blue Earth, MN; Mark (Cher) of Adams, MN; 10 grandchildren; 13 great-grandchildren; a sister Pearl Finseth of Fountain, MN; two brothers, Lloyd (Alice) Hardecopf of LeRoy, MN and Neil of Holmen Hardecopf, WI. Wilma was preceded in death by her husband, Selmer; her parents and 3 sisters.

Funeral services will be held at 1:30PM Saturday, February 22, at Little Cedar Lutheran Church, Adams, with the Rev. Jeremy Johnson officiating. Interment will be at the Little Cedar Cemetery. Visitation will be at Adams Funeral Home on Friday, February 21st, from 4:00 to 8:00 pm and at the church for one hour before the service on Saturday.

Information from Little Cedar Lutheran Church, written in 2005:
Wilma was born on October 8, 1925, to William and Rachael Hardecopf, living on a farm near Grand Meadow, MN. She was baptized at her great grandmother Peterson's home in Grand Meadow. Her family later moved to a farm near Dexter, where she started her school years, and was confirmed at St. John's Lutheran by Pastor Gaede. The family then moved to a farm near Adams.

Following graduation from Adams High School in 1943, Wilma moved to Adams and rented a room at Ollie Uglum's house while working at Halverson's grocery store. She was married to Selmer (Sally) Weness by Pastor Brevik on June 12, 1945, at the Little Cedar Parsonage. Sally and Wilma lived on the Weness family farm south of Adams until 1978, when they retired to a home in Adams.

Wilma is well-known around Adams for the many wedding, graduation, and confirmation cakes that she used to bake and decorate, and from her 18 years working as a cashier at Wagner's grocery store. She is active in church activities through the Women of the ELCA, her Circle, and with quilting. Wilma is also an active member of the Adams Health Care Auxiliary, the Friends and Fellowship group, and of the Jolly Dozen Card Club. Her family best knows her for her great love of family, and for love of baking and cooking for family gatherings. The thought of her brings to mind the wonderful aroma of fresh baked bread and sweet rolls. Her family marvels at her generosity to others, and honors her for the many hours of volunteering and leadership that she has always offered.

Wilma's husband, Selmer, passed away in 1989. She has 5 children: Karen and Richard Doughan of Des Moines, IA; Shirley and Randy Sammons, of Atlanta, GA; Gary and Angie Weness of Almelund, MN; BJ and Laura Weness of Blue Earth, MN; and Mark and Cheryl Weness of Adams. She has 10 grandchildren, and 5 great-grandchildren living in Minnesota, Iowa, Colorado, and Georgia. She has two living sisters, Esther Wiste and Pearl Finseth; two brothers, Lloyd and Alice Hardecopf and Neal Hardecopf; a sister-in law, Harriet Weness; a brother-in-law Allen and Marge Fossey; and many nieces and nephews. Two other sisters, Marian Fossey and Dorothy Kadlec are now deceased.

Wilma's favorite hymns are "How Great Thou Art" and "Sweet Hour of Prayer.' Her favorite scripture passage is Psalm 23.

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  • Created by: Janet Stephenson
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  • Find A Grave Memorial 125330004
  • Find A Grave, database and images (https://www.findagrave.com : accessed ), memorial page for Wilma Kathryn Hardecopf Weness (8 Oct 1925–16 Feb 2014), Find A Grave Memorial no. 125330004, citing Little Cedar Cemetery, Adams, Mower County, Minnesota, USA ; Maintained by Janet Stephenson (contributor 46853083) .