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1_Heavilin (#47663979)
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Bio Photo The uncertainty of life, eventually yields to the certainty of death.

We only have so many moments on this earth; what we do with them, is what we do with them ...

I am more than happy to transfer memorials to you, regardless of whether guidelines say I have to, or do not have to. If I created a memorial for one of your family members, loved one, friends, etc. feel free to ask. The guidelines are just that, guidelines; they do not state thou shalt not transfer ... Personally, I think
people who do not transfer, when requested, because of guideline technicalities, have some sort of mental disorder; they are probably basically good people, with otherwise good intentions, but keeping control of a loved one's memorial, just because you created it, is selfish and counterintuitive to the whole spirit, of what find a grave is, or should be, all about.

For example, I know this guy named Dick (not his real name). He's created tens of thousands of memorials; including several of my relatives; he has transferred several that I have requested to be transferred; but others, he has refused to transfer, referencing said guidelines. Don't be a Dick; again, not his real name.

I do not get on find-a-grave as much as I used to; I've been encountering too many technical difficulties, suspicious content warnings, freeze-ups, and the video adds are irritating

Dot com sellout, has forced me to opt out ...


For all of the good people out there; thanks for being you and doing what you do

Peace out ...

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Janis Babb
I belive Larry E Shover is the son of Violet Virginia Tamplin Shover not husband. Thanks,Janis Webb Babb
Added by Janis Babb on Sep 15, 2016 4:33 PM
Daniel Stoner
Thank you for the transfer. I appreciate it.
Added by Becky on Sep 05, 2016 7:19 PM
Sue Lapp
the transfer of Wells Deskins is greatly appreciate.
Added by Sue Lapp on Jul 27, 2016 8:10 AM
Debra Lewis
Willow View Cemetery
Thank You for the transfer of memorials thou was surprised as did not request.
Added by Debra Lewis on Jul 27, 2016 7:04 AM
Janet S
Dorothy V. Murphy - Transfer Request
Dorothy V Norris Murphy is my mother-in-law's aunt. Would you please consider transferring this memorial to me? My Find A Grave # is 48281840.

Thank you,
Added by Janet S on Jun 23, 2015 9:14 AM
Lillian's grandkids
post script... From my cousin I have her Grandma Lillian's mom being Mae, her grandfather being Mae's husband Henry, and sisters being Mamie and Ruby. I do not see Ruby on the sibling list but there is a brother that she does not have records of, correct? sorry I did not include this in the last post...
Added by Melody on Apr 26, 2015 12:46 PM
Mae's grandkids
Hello, Thank you so much for all your work on this site! The pics and info are so welcome... I am working on building a family tree for my cousins, grandchildren of Lillian Reimers (second wife of my grandfather John Charles Hartnup). They have very little information and any stories or pics would be welcome.I sent the wedding pic and the pic of Mae to my cousin and she was extremely happy to get them. If you are interested in exchanging info with me/them please contact me at and I will be happy to arrange. warm regards, Melody
Added by Melody on Apr 26, 2015 12:37 PM
Jodi G
Reimer/Reimers Family
Would love to share info with you about the Reimer family. We have been going thru old Reimer family photos that were stored and have many that we need help identifying. Found you thru searching for info on Helen Anders Reimer Field. I sent you an email yesterday. Hope we can discuss. Thanks for all the work you have done on this site. We really appreciate it!
Added by Jodi G on Feb 12, 2015 9:38 AM
Kathy in NW Indiana
Helen Reimer Field
Looks like we duplicated her memorial. Take what you can from my entry and then I'll gladly delete it. Just keep her link to her second husband.
Added by Kathy in NW Indiana on Feb 11, 2015 3:53 PM
Thank you for the updates!
Added by Honor on Dec 09, 2014 3:57 PM
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