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Pam (#47212213)
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Bio Photo MA History, University of Montana
MA Clinical Mental Health Counseling, University of San Diego

I am an avid family historian for over 30 years and a native Montanan. When I was working on my MA thesis in History ("Myron Brinig's Butte: Jews in the Wide Open Town"), I spent a summer transcribing the information from the graves at the B'Nai Israel cemetery in Butte (my home town).

Family names I am researching include:
Wilson - McWhirter
Chartier/Carter - Neveu
Bertrand - Kuether
Sutherland - Sollars
Brittain - McMinn
Vance - Cole
Douthitt - Moore
Dillworth - Stilwell

Find a Grave is not a scholarly website. I think it has many purposes including providing catharsis and aiding with the grieving process, helping people with their family history, connecting relatives, remembering the dead, finding burial sites, etc. Those who think it is only for locating graves have a narrow imagination.

Sometimes all we know about a family member is what is printed in an old biography or what someone told us. This acts as a foundation for finding, correcting, adding to their history. I believe this should be a friendly collaborative process where we build together a story as we find more information. I will make mistakes. Feel free to let me know and I will correct.

My philosophy on transfers is simple - I believe memorials should be in the hands of relatives, even if not close relatives. I am happy to transfer, in fact I am waiting for the relatives of the B'Nai Israel and St. Patrick's cemetery memorials to contact me to care for their family memorials. I'm happy to transfer to relatives.
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David L Underhill U.E.
United Church Cemetery Lakeville Corner
I live in Fredericton NB Canada and this cemetery is known as the Sheffield United Church Cemetery and located in Sheffield NB - not in Lakeville Corner which is another different location - You are able to change this on your records . An Underhill ancestor attended this church at one time and she is buried in Sheffield United Church Cemetery - I have put photo of headstone online with some information. Thanks for helping fix this problem.
Added by David L Underhill U.E. on Apr 04, 2017 6:38 AM
Trudy Brooks
John and Catherine Sollars
Hi, I was updating my family lines and just noticed you and I think a Doug Sollars have created duplicate sites for John 61379939 and 81804172, and Catherine Stothard Sollars 81804197 and 61379323. You might want to check with him and have him take his down, since you have more information on yours. Thanks Trudy Brooks Oh William Sollars 1760-1833 is a 5th Great Grand Father.
Added by Trudy Brooks on Mar 27, 2017 8:44 PM
Daniel Harrington grave
Thanks so much for the transfer. I'll be adding photos shortly. Theresa
Added by tyagi13 on Jan 21, 2017 12:37 PM
Hello, thank you for what you have on Find A Grave, your Sollar family links up to my Scray side of the family in MN and WI. Find A Grave has given me places to start search or find missing persons and document them correclty. Thank you for all you posts. lmf
Added by lmf on Dec 29, 2016 10:10 PM
Tom and Nancy Gawthrop
William C Davis memorial
I stand corrected. The memorial is #20331373. This getting older sucks!
Added by Tom and Nancy Gawthrop on Oct 15, 2016 4:47 AM
Tom and Nancy Gawthrop
William C Davis memorial
His memorial is #20441373, and you maintain it. In his bio you have mentioned his last wife, and that there might be more children. There are. William had first married Lucinda Warden on 5 June 1847 in Ohio. Lucinda lived 1829-1851, and died in Ohio. No Find a Grave memorial for her as yet. They had two children: Sarah Matilda and Matilda Jane. Would you include this info on William's bio? Thanks.
Added by Tom and Nancy Gawthrop on Oct 14, 2016 6:52 AM
Linda Lee Holmes
RE: Edgar Schwartz
I noticed that, but noted he had the photographs--anyway to merge them? Thanks, Pam.
Added by Linda Lee Holmes on Oct 03, 2016 7:02 PM
Suzanne Andrews
Hugh Ferry
Hugh Ferry Memorial #52200672

You have a note that no headstone was found for this man. I ran across a headstone for him yesterday in St. Patrick's cemetery. I found a note in the Cemetery records that he was moved from AOH Block 421 to Block 341 Lot 1. That is where I found his headstone.
Added by Suzanne Andrews on Sep 20, 2016 10:15 AM
Debbie Hogue
Might be a relative to Joseph Bertrand
I was visiting Colonial Michilimackinac state park MI Fort and came across his name in the baptismal record. I am also a Bertrand from Quebec Canada, ansestor to Henry Bertrand/Amanda Bertrand who lived in Jefferson South Dakota. Just wanted to see if I was related to Joe.
Added by Debbie Hogue on Sep 10, 2016 4:22 PM
James Keppeler
Adolph and Theresa Reichle
Hi, I was wondering if you could transfer the controls of the memorials of Adolph Reichle and Theresa Reichle to me. I would really appreciate it. If you don't want to that's fine but it would make it a lot easier for me in editing details and adding their relationships. Thanks
James Keppeler
Added by James Keppeler on Aug 13, 2016 6:17 PM
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