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Butterfly~Kisses (#46994799)
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Bio Photo Credit Respectfully given.....
Bob Carlisle, "Butterfly Kisses"
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Not a Word Spoken......None Needed.

Please remember our Veterans, Service Men and Woman.

A Veteran, whether active duty, discharged, retired, reserve or passed away, is someone who at one point in their life, wrote a blank check made payable to The United States of America, for an amount up to, and including their life.

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MY WORK IS AN ON GOING PROCESS......

I DO NOT LIVE HERE & I AM NOT HERE 24/7/365 ....... I AM STILL ACTIVE!!

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There are many unmarked graves in any given cemetery and we mark them when known, in the "Add Note" section:

UNMARKED GRAVE - NO HEADSTONE.
Or (depending on which family member is on)
NO HEADSTONE - UNMARKED GRAVE.

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REGARDING my cemetery photos, posted to a memorial:

Please feel free to use them in your family history programs, which ever they may be. Please, respectfully note if you chose to use my photos:

"Find A Grave, include Memorial #"

My Photos ARE NOT for reuse here at Find A Grave, (will be reported if & or when found) or to be published in any format for profit or non profit without my WRITTEN consent.

REGARDING filled photo requests by me:

"You are very welcome, and I am glad I could be of service and help." And as always:

"The Best to You and Yours", Butterfly~Kisses

REGARDING photo request found or even unable to be found, due to, never has been a marked grave to begin with, elements, vandals, etc.:

"I Respectfully Thank You, for your time, effort and endeavors to fill my request."

REGARDING the new photo transcribing system:

"You are welcome and I am glad I could be of service to help with your endeavors."

REGARDING the use of "Our Family Photos", on any memorial I have created:

"NO." There is no reason that you would need our personal family photos.

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DO NOT POST IN THE PHOTO SECTION:
1. Birth Certificates
2. Marriage Certificates
3. Death Certificates
4. Newspaper Obituaries

B. M. & D. certificates ARE NOT PHOTOS.

Newspaper obituaries ARE NOT EITHER, taking a photograph of the obituary DOES NOT change the classification, neither does a computer manipulation.

More importantly, F.A.G. says "Don't Do".
Simple guideline. Right ????????

DO NOT POST IN THE FLORAL SECTION:
1. Newspaper Obituaries
2. Any Bio Information

Again, F.A.G. says "Don't Do".
Simple guideline. Right ????????

I add obits, bio's, information and family structure as "My time" permits. Rome wasn't built in a day folks......

I work at my own pace, things will get done, when they get done.

RUDE, MEAN & NASTY, WILL NOT IMPROVE THE PACE......


Common sense, is a flower that doesn't grow,
in everyone's garden......

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I have received a large # of memorials, transferred to me from another Find A Grave contributor, to this I respectfully say, "Thank You for your trust in me to continue on with their care." Over time each one will receive headstone photos if still available, family connections and updates as needed.

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BTW, I live here, in western New York, not out of state.

I have 229 years of direct bloodline family roots here in western New York, beginning in, but NOT exclusive to, Ontario County. 1st in our blood line arrived in 1788, when we were still Montgomery County, Ontario sectioned off in 1791 and so on for the other counties.

I have 56+ years of family research and 51+ years of archiving cemeteries, locally and where our ancestors came from. "My" cemetery information comes from my own sweat, blood, tears and hard work, not to mention costs to accomplish this feat. So before you go off half cocked, remember, your getting this information at No cost to you......, because someone who has this information has volunteered to enter it here at Find A Grave for...... FREE !!!!


This also includes many other wonderful volunteers who have worked hard adding to this great source of information. This should never be taken for granted.

Good gravy people, the disrespect some of you show toward others, and carry on here at Find A Grave, is unacceptable!!!! Your Greed, Give me, Demands, Nasty Communications and Complaints about other volunteers is way off the chart. Thus one of the reasons my profile page is closed. I don't care about who or what you don't like, no one and even this site are perfect.

Spend some time leaving a flower or token for someone who has lost a family member or friend and took time to create a memorial for them. What a simple Kind gesture when someone is hurting and going through the grieving process, whether you know them or not. There are no words spoken in any language that can express as best we can, ones condolences in the loss of someones family member or friend, but a simple symbolic jester may say more than you'll ever know. 😊 Their loss could have been recent, a year ago, 5 years, 10 years, the kind jester still means the same. It's not just about those who came before us, our humanity toward others speaks "VOLUMES" of who we are, and who do we descend from.

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