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Peace, Comfort and Hugs, Brenda & Wendy (#46937518)
 member for 9 years, 7 months, 12 days
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Bio Photo This is a picture of my beautiful daughter, Wendy. She was murdered when she was only 21 years old. Helping someone, she thought she could trust.

I did not know about findagrave until Mysticalmind found Wendy's website and made a memorial for her. I became hooked on making memorials for mothers that have lost a child to murder (with their permission) and my own family members. It is wonderful for our future generations looking for their past.

Since Wendy's murder, I have become a Victims' Advocate for homicide victims' family members. I never want another homicide family member to go through what I did.. alone.

I also make websites for mothers that do not know how and would like a website for their child. If you know of a mother that is looking for someone to make a website, please send her my email address.

If you know of a homicide victim and they did not receive justice for what was done to them, please let me know. I have a No Justice page. This includes victims of homicide that are still missing.

In addition, I try to keep the memorial of our murdered loved ones in the public spotlight. I never want someone to forget what happened to our children. If you have a chance, please visit the Victims of Homicide Webring.

Please leave a token and note for my Birthday and Angelday Angels. I think everyone should be remembered.
Thanking you from the bottom of my heart. Wendy's mom ~~~ Brenda

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Bill E. Doman
Donaldson Transfer
Hi: Happy to do so and appreciated your very sensitive information in your Find A Grave Bio. Very enlightening. Keep up your most helpful work you have become engaged with and have a great year.
Added by Bill E. Doman on Feb 23, 2017 8:36 PM
Shirley C McKenzie
This weekend my daughter and I are going up to Chewalla/Guys, McNairy County, for a Homecoming Day at Indian Creek Cemetery in Chewalla. We always go over to Guys for it is a part of our James, Hooker, Petty, Green (and many others) history.
You had photographed our extended family, Thomas Benton & Martha (Auten) Hooker at New Hope Cemetery over near Michie. The formal address is Eastview. Thanks to your work we will be able to go visit our Hooker family.
Your work remains a blessing to us all.
Families of Thomas B Hooker/Armada 'Madie' (Hooker) James, wife of William Henderson James of Guys. Parents of Jesse Benton James, father of Gerald Lionel James, my beloved brother.
Added by Shirley C McKenzie on May 03, 2016 9:38 AM
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Eddie Beyer
Thank you so much for adding Eddie's family to his memorial. And thank you for everything else. Hugs
Added by Find A Grave Volunteer on Jan 06, 2016 1:01 PM
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Eddie Beyer's Memorial Photos...
Would you consider removing one of Eddie's photos so that I can request a photo of his headstone? There is a maximum of five photos and you have already posted the max on his memorial. They won't allow me to make a request for a photo when the max is already met. There are several of his family members that would like to see his grave, but are not capable. Thank you, Jayne
Added by Find A Grave Volunteer on Jan 02, 2016 12:15 PM
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Eddie Beyer
Thank you so much for making a memorial for Eddie Beyer. He was my favorite cousin, and I haven't seen him since I was a child. Do you happen to know his cause of death? Do you have a photo of his headstone?

Thanks again, Jayne
Added by Find A Grave Volunteer on Jan 02, 2016 12:01 PM
Shirley C McKenzie
T.B and Martha (Auten) Hooker, McNairy Co, TN.
Thank you for the extensive work you have don on this family. I am making a family history book for one of their descendants and am far too old to do all the original work (only researches know what it really means). I have so enjoyed learning about this lovely family. I only knew 'snippets' and could never have gathered it myself. Shirley (Cartwright) McKenzie for James family descending from Armada (Hooker) James of Guys, McNairy Co, TN.
Added by Shirley C McKenzie on Mar 09, 2015 1:08 PM
Colleen Hoover
Hey Bren
Sorry I haven't been in touch. I moved and I have been really busy trying to get settled. I hope you have a Happy Easter. We 'll catch up soon. Col
Added by Colleen Hoover on Apr 17, 2014 5:35 AM
Reflections of my life
Thank you my friend
Dear Brenda, It was so good connecting with you again. Merry Christmas. May your Christmas be wonderful like you are. Thank you for helping me get back in here. As usual you are there for me. Love you.xxxxo
Added by Reflections of my life on Dec 20, 2013 2:35 PM
Colleen Hoover
thinking of you
Dear Brenda, I am Colleen's son. Mom broke her hand a few weeks ago, and wanted me to send this for her, as she can't type for awhile. She wanted you to know she is thinking about you and sending her love on Wendy's upcoming birthday. RJK
Added by Colleen Hoover on Aug 30, 2013 12:48 AM
RE: .
You are so welcome. I knew when I saw his picture, he would be someone I would really like to have known. I am so sorry for his recent passing. I know your heart is grieving, and especially with the death of your daughter. You made a wonderful tribute to her.

Take care,
May the Lord bless and keep you safe,
Added by Maggieღ on May 30, 2013 1:29 PM
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