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sticksandstones (#46888135)
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Bio Photo BIO: Interested in genealogy, cemetery art, historical preservation, Colonial, Civil War, and present day history of the Eastern North Carolina and South Carolina low country regions, plus visiting historically significant cemeteries in the United States. My interests have lately focused on the Baynard, Barnwell, Bailey, Burrows, Elliott, Jenkins, Mikell, Jones, Smith and Whaley families of Beaufort, Edisto Island, Charleston, Columbia, Orangeburg, Port Royal, South Carolina.

Why Sticks and Stones?

I have to take a moment to express appreciation for a book I found about year 2000 in an independent bookshop on the 2nd floor of a building in Wake Forest, North Carolina. That book was ' Sticks and Stones: Three Centuries of North Carolina Gravemarkers (Richard Hampton Jenrette Series in Architecture and the Decorative Arts) by M. Ruth Little'. It spurned my interest in the historical and cultural aspects of cemeteries, and lured me into exploring the backwoods, and not so backwoods cemeteries of North Carolina and South Carolina, and eventually led me to join Find A Grave to help document and photograph stones for others to see.

I've stood in amazement looking at wooden gravemarkers over 300 years old, learned of the stone carvers trade, dominated by the Italian stone artists of Connecticut and Massachusetts, that were first imported to the south, and later done locally by stonecarvers who moved to the South. I learned about the distinct regions of distribution of peoples in NC,from many places; the Scot-Irish of the mountains, the Germans and Czechs(Moravians) of the piedmont, the English in east central NC, and the French Huegenots and Irish who settled along the coast. Many of the settlements were influenced by early Indian trade routes. I encourage you to get a copy for your taphology library.


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I will no longer do additional information/links etc from this message area... Please use the EDIT tab on the far upper right of each memorial for that.

Transfer are typically done by FIND A GRAVE Rules and Guidelines and with-in the generations noted..PLEASE read the rules carefully..... and do not expect to get transfers automatically, just because you state they are in your FAMILY lines. Please clearly state your relationship to the deceased.

Transfer requests should be your siblings, parents, grandparents, great-grandparents, children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren.

I am more than happy to add detailed biographical information to memorials. Please upload it using the EDIT tab in the upper right, pasting it into the box in 'Make A Suggestion'.

You are free to use any of my photos for personal genealogy and family tree work. It would be much appreciated if you give credit to me as the photographer and be sure to note Find A Grave as the source. Please do not use my photos for any commercial purpose without contacting me. Thanks for assistance in this request.

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Per Find A Grave Newest Rules:

Please be aware of the rules when asking for transfers. Guidelines

Transfer requests should be your siblings, parents, grandparents, great-grandparents, children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren.

Please state your exact relationship when you contact me.

You should not ask for transfers of people whom were born and died in the 1700 time frame. MANY OTHERS MAY ALSO BE RELATED TO THESE SAME PEOPLE.

Again: Please use the edit tab on the upper right hand corner of the memorial when wanting additional information added... Please use the suggest a correction link.


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Roberta Canon Cram
Catharine Fonda-Ballston Spa

I saw a record that you created
Catharine Fonda
Created by: sticksandstones
Record added: Jun 10, 2011
Find A Grave Memorial# 71108398

There was a record created earlier for the same person:
Catryna Oothout TenBroeck Fonda
Created by: Mark Fonda
Record added: Jul 12, 2007
Find A Grave Memorial# 20425440

Could you please review your record and if you determine that yours is a duplicate, could you please delete it to help consolidate records? Thank you for all the good work you do.
Added by Roberta Canon Cram on Oct 18, 2017 4:30 PM
Donna Sutiff
John S Lott
Can't send you a memorial edit or suggestion so this can show you what is wrong. Thomas can't be the father he was born after John S Lott and Martha sister born in 1799? And the Mother born in 1780? This is bad information and should be removed from John S Lott's memorial.
It's a really big error. I have been on Find A Grave for almost 13 years and this should be fixed. Hope you can fix it.

Thank You, Donna Sutliff #46786711

John S Lott
Birth: 1766
Death: Jan. 18, 1810

Family links:
Thomas Lott (1770 - 1816)
Rebecca (a guess) Dye Lott (1780 - 1807)

John S Lott (1766 - 1810)
Martha Sandifer Lott Peay (1799 - 1842)**

First Presbyterian Churchyard
Richland County
South Carolina, USA
Plot: 84

Created by: sticksandstones
Record added: Apr 03, 2011
Find A Grave Memorial# 67836597

Added by Donna Sutiff on Oct 04, 2017 5:07 PM
bill preston
Ballston Spa & St. Mary's Cemeteries
SnS: Thank you for posting some 23 edits. At Ballston for Adeline, Hellen, Joel & Matthew Tarbell. At St. Mary's the Griffin's, McDonald's and Swanick. All the best. Bill P.
Added by bill preston on Sep 24, 2017 7:31 PM
bill preston
Bio's @ Ballston Spa
SnS: Many thanks for posting the following Bio's: Ella Lory, William Huffman, Marcus Camp, Herbert Sweet, Dougall MacPherson, Dorothy Curtis, Lloyd Bryant & Margaret Rook Jordan. All the best, Bill P.
Added by bill preston on Sep 19, 2017 5:57 PM
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Stephen, Deborah & Frances Fox @ Ballston Spa
SnS: Thanks you for posting their edits. Bill P.
Added by bill preston on Sep 19, 2017 5:33 PM
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Leo Angell @ St. Mary's Ballston Spa
SnS: Thanks for posting the edit. Bill P.
Added by bill preston on Sep 19, 2017 5:30 PM
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Marian Swanick Angell @ St. Mary's Ballston Spa
SnS: Thanks for positing the edit.Bill P
Added by bill preston on Sep 19, 2017 5:23 PM
bill preston
Ballston Spa Cemetery
SnS: Many thanks for posting the edits for: Lazell Gardiner, Jennie Gardiner, Egbert Gardiner & Newton Gardiner. All the best, Bill Preston
Added by bill preston on Sep 17, 2017 7:59 PM
bill preston
St. Mary's Cemetery, Ballston Spa
SnS: Thank you for posting the edits for: Elizabeth Hennessy, Anna Hennessy DeVoe, Robert S. Swanick, Genevieve Swanick, Nancy Swanick Angell, Leo Angell & James R. Collins. All the best, Bill Preston
Added by bill preston on Sep 17, 2017 7:57 PM
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Dougall McPherson @ Ballston Spa
SnS: Thank you for posting his obit. Bill P.
Added by bill preston on Sep 13, 2017 6:16 AM
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