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Pammy In Oklahoma (#46877560)
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Bio Photo I'm Pam.
I live in Stillwater, OK.
I love doing research on Payne County, Oklahoma and surrounding counties.

Due to the death of DonZas, I am managing the memorials in Fairlawn Cemetery in Stillwater that he posted. I will be keeping all of the memorials that are in my family tree. And, believe me, there are alot of them.

However, if you wish for me to transfer a memorial to you, send EACH request through the "EDIT" - "SUGGEST A CORRECTION" Link on EACH person's memorial. Please allow time, because I get alot of requests each day.

REMEMBER the Find-A-Grave RULE states:
Transfer requests should be for DIRECT RELATIVES WITHIN FOUR GENERATIONS. This would be your siblings, parents, grandparents, great-grandparents, children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren.

Uncle, Aunts, Cousins, nephews, mother's brother's first cousins, well, these don't count as a direct relative. And, yes, this part is included in the rules.

E-mail me if you have a question or if you have a request that I haven't already uploaded.

Also, I have photographed and transcribed Ripley Oak Park Cemetery and Mt. Hope Cemetery near Ripley, OK. I don't transfer these memorials, but I will add the information and links if you ask me.
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Eddie Daniels
There are some siblings that wasn't added i noticed that my grandfather or his sister wasn't added to their parents. My grandfather Edward Leroy Doughty # 100934050 or his sister Nancy Ellen Farris #54556791

Can you please add them to there parents
James Franklin Doughty #51588739

as Nancy is buried with most of her family in Yale Oklahoma Lawson cemetary

Please feel free to contact me if you have any questions Thanks,
Eddie Daniels
Added by Eddie Daniels on Apr 18, 2017 7:38 PM
Lila Cole
Find A Grave Memorial# 35752236
Pammy, I recieved your rejection of my suggestion for edit on Ervin Nasalroad's page.

I am not sure why you will not correct the inaccurate maiden name in his bio section for the second wife of Ervin Nasalroad. After my first attempt, I have twice sent you indepth examples of records showing that Katherine Jane Bloom was the daughter of Charles Bloom and Susan McIntosh. Katherine was married four times - James Candor Weir was one that she had already had her name engraved on his stone, pre-need, when he died, before she married Mr. Nasalroad, so perhaps for clarification they showed that prior married name on Nasalroad's stone. Many times they will do that if their was a significant prior marriage, like with children. That does not mean it was her maiden name or middle name. The reason I continue to request that you fix this error is because it is creating confusion for people who are looking to findagrave for accuracy in helping them find their loved ones. Since you took these pages over from Don Zas whom I worked with on findagrave for many years, and who used to cheerfully just pass me the pages and then I would pass them back when finished because I didn't want to hold on to them all, you can perhaps imagine how frustrating your rejection without explanation of my third attempt at suggesting a correction was.
Added by Lila Cole on Apr 11, 2017 1:44 PM
Michael Colton
Hiram W. King #10971422

I was wondering if you know any information on his wife Annie Northrop King.

Thank you,

Michael Dykhorst
Added by Michael Colton on Apr 09, 2017 2:54 PM
Memorial #55304434
Hello, The above memorial is for Grant A "Bobby" Robinson in Lawson Cemetery. I believe it is for my great-uncle Ernest Grant Robinson. I'd like to know where you got the "Bobby" from. I know he sometimes went by Grant, but "Bobby' is new. I'd really appreciate your help.
Thank you,
Linda Welton (linwel)
Added by linwel on Apr 03, 2017 11:21 AM
amy cohen
Jacob Katz and family
Hi Pammy, First, I want to thank you for the incredible work you've done not only recording the deaths of my Katz relatives from Stillwater, but also for the obits and photos.

I am writing to ask your permission to use the photographs of Jacob Katz and of the headstones of the members of his family. I write a genealogy blog and might want to use some of them on my blog.

I am happy to give you full attribution in any format that you prefer.

Added by amy cohen on Mar 15, 2017 12:00 PM
merle lloyd allinson
I want to find out where you got the information that my father was a half brother to his siblings.
Please call me, at 405.372.0329. I am Vera Bilyeu.
Added by researcher on Mar 14, 2017 8:40 AM
Judith K. Arthur
George M. Hesser
My grandfather, George Milton Hesser, is buried in Stillwater, OK.
On his Find a Grave memorial, it lists the wrong child for him.
My uncle Vincent Earl Hesser is his older child and my mother, Olive June Hesser Kennedy is his younger child.
I will be happy to back that up with documents, but the one listed is not correct.
Judith K. Arthur
Alabaster, OK
Added by Judith K. Arthur on Mar 13, 2017 12:39 PM
Deb Stutte
Chester S Brock #30035407
There is a memorial for his wife, Ida Brock out in Arizona. It is #51150309. She is buried out there. Must have gone to live with her daughter, Grace Alberta Baker after Chester died.

Deb Stutte
Added by Deb Stutte on Mar 12, 2017 7:35 PM
Carl Catherman
RE: Florence and Owen Gray
I sent it using the Edit option but sometimes that doesn't work very well. Here is what I wanted you to add
Owen Gray - He was a member of his father's band, Otto Gray and his Oklahoma Cowboy's. Owen's memorial is # 10881195
Florence Gray - She was a member of her husband's band, Otto Gray and His Oklahoma Cowboys. Her memorial is # 10881186
Added by Carl Catherman on Mar 08, 2017 8:28 AM
Carl Catherman
Florence and Owen Gray
On Feb. 6 I sent short notes to be added to their memorials. Did you receive them?
Added by Carl Catherman on Mar 06, 2017 7:10 AM
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