Begin New Search
Refine Last Search
Cemetery Lookup
Add Burial Records
Help with Find A Grave

Top Contributors
Success Stories
Community Forums
Find A Grave Store

Log In
Pammy In Oklahoma (#46877560)
 member for 10 years, 6 months, 29 days
[Add to MyFriends]
Bio and Links
Bio Photo I'm Pam.
I live in Stillwater, OK.
I love doing research on Payne County, Oklahoma and surrounding counties.

Due to the death of DonZas, I am managing the memorials in Fairlawn Cemetery in Stillwater that he posted. I will be keeping all of the memorials that are in my family tree. And, believe me, there are alot of them.

However, if you wish for me to transfer a memorial to you, send EACH request through the "EDIT" - "SUGGEST A CORRECTION" Link on EACH person's memorial. Please allow time, because I get alot of requests each day.

REMEMBER the Find-A-Grave RULE states:
Transfer requests should be for DIRECT RELATIVES WITHIN FOUR GENERATIONS. This would be your siblings, parents, grandparents, great-grandparents, children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren.

Uncle, Aunts, Cousins, nephews, mother's brother's first cousins, well, these don't count as a direct relative. And, yes, this part is included in the rules.

E-mail me if you have a question or if you have a request that I haven't already uploaded.

Also, I have photographed and transcribed Ripley Oak Park Cemetery and Mt. Hope Cemetery near Ripley, OK. I don't transfer these memorials, but I will add the information and links if you ask me.
 Contact: Leave Public Message
Contributions to
Find A Grave
 • 5,086 Memorials Added
 • 14,698 Memorials Managed
 • 9 Memorials/Week
 • 9,220 Photos
 • 12 Photo Requests
 • 346 Volunteer Photos Taken
 • 115 Virtual Flowers
 • 20 Virtual Cemeteries
 • 9 Fame Ratings
 • 11 Friends
Search Contributor's Records

First NameLast Name

Virtual Cemeteries
Ancestors Not in Oklahoma (118)
Beare Family (4)
Brock Family in Georgia (1)
Cemetery Is Unknown (1)
Civil War in Oklahoma (2)
Dr William McKay Dougan (1)
Harrell Family (9)
Ingalls Cemetery (8)
Janey Clark (17)
John A. Moore Children (6)
[View all Virtual Cemeteries...]
Find A Grave Friends
DonZas, Dwayne Crandall, Glyn Trimble, Judy Mayfield, Laura, Mo and Dave Gat..., N. Dale Talking..., Pam W, Robert Mitchell, Theron Dowell, Tony Cannon
Messages left for Pammy In Oklaho... (947)[Leave Message]
Susy Flaming
Ila Mae Richardson Memorial
Hello Pammy,
My mother's memorial has as the first line, daughter of William Henry and Louella Roton.
I realize that the caretaker who gave you the records, spelled her name as such, it is in error.

Please edit that sentence to read "Luella Roton". Thank you so much.
Added by Susy Flaming on Jun 09, 2017 7:51 PM
Bruce Boyd
William Asbury Boyd #50024083
Hi Pammy,
I appreciate the work you have done documenting these cemeteries on Find-a-Grave.
I was wondering if you could provide any information about your sources for the information you have for William Asbury Boyd, memorial #50024083. I have been researching his family, but I have only found one record (1850 Census) that appears to apply to him. Any help you can provide would be greatly appreciated. You may reply by email, if you prefer:
Thank you,
Bruce Boyd
Added by Bruce Boyd on Jun 08, 2017 10:15 AM
Susan Roper
Thank you Pammy
Hi Pammy I am Susan Roper and I wanted to thank you so much for all of your dedication to researching the local Cemeteries. You have researched countless numbers of my relatives, My father, and my mothers' grandparents in the Fairlawn Cemetery. Since I was adopted at birth and only in the last few years have found my biological relatives in Stillwater, Perkins and surrounding area it is very wonderful to know where they are at rest.

I am going to be in Stillwater July 4 2017 and plan on spending time in the Fairlawn Cemetery looking at and photographing as many of my relatives that I can find there.
Maybe the stars will align and I may meet you in the Fairlawn Cemetery I will be there with my biological cousin. I am meeting for the very first time my biological sister who lives in Stillwater as well.
Thank you for the many Blessings that you have provided for so many families.
Added by Susan Roper on May 19, 2017 11:39 AM
Bill Hays
Like a photo Fairlawn Stillwater
Hi Pammy,
A strange request since neither of us deceased yet......However, the tombstone is in place next to my Wife's Grandparents........(Harry & Susie Masemore...Lot 32)....If a picture possible I thought I could enter information that likely will not be available after our passing.
Regards William H. Hays & Joy Wilson Hays (Lot 32 Blk 4)
Added by Bill Hays on May 19, 2017 8:24 AM
Thomas Yant
Photo does not match name
Photo added for William Paul Axtell does not match his name.
Added by Thomas Yant on May 18, 2017 3:36 PM
Eddie Daniels
There are some siblings that wasn't added i noticed that my grandfather or his sister wasn't added to their parents. My grandfather Edward Leroy Doughty # 100934050 or his sister Nancy Ellen Farris #54556791

Can you please add them to there parents
James Franklin Doughty #51588739

as Nancy is buried with most of her family in Yale Oklahoma Lawson cemetary

Please feel free to contact me if you have any questions Thanks,
Eddie Daniels
Added by Eddie Daniels on Apr 18, 2017 7:38 PM
Lila Cole
Find A Grave Memorial# 35752236
Pammy, I recieved your rejection of my suggestion for edit on Ervin Nasalroad's page.

I am not sure why you will not correct the inaccurate maiden name in his bio section for the second wife of Ervin Nasalroad. After my first attempt, I have twice sent you indepth examples of records showing that Katherine Jane Bloom was the daughter of Charles Bloom and Susan McIntosh. Katherine was married four times - James Candor Weir was one that she had already had her name engraved on his stone, pre-need, when he died, before she married Mr. Nasalroad, so perhaps for clarification they showed that prior married name on Nasalroad's stone. Many times they will do that if their was a significant prior marriage, like with children. That does not mean it was her maiden name or middle name. The reason I continue to request that you fix this error is because it is creating confusion for people who are looking to findagrave for accuracy in helping them find their loved ones. Since you took these pages over from Don Zas whom I worked with on findagrave for many years, and who used to cheerfully just pass me the pages and then I would pass them back when finished because I didn't want to hold on to them all, you can perhaps imagine how frustrating your rejection without explanation of my third attempt at suggesting a correction was.
Added by Lila Cole on Apr 11, 2017 1:44 PM
Michael Colton
Hiram W. King #10971422

I was wondering if you know any information on his wife Annie Northrop King.

Thank you,

Michael Dykhorst
Added by Michael Colton on Apr 09, 2017 2:54 PM
Memorial #55304434
Hello, The above memorial is for Grant A "Bobby" Robinson in Lawson Cemetery. I believe it is for my great-uncle Ernest Grant Robinson. I'd like to know where you got the "Bobby" from. I know he sometimes went by Grant, but "Bobby' is new. I'd really appreciate your help.
Thank you,
Linda Welton (linwel)
Added by linwel on Apr 03, 2017 11:21 AM
amy cohen
Jacob Katz and family
Hi Pammy, First, I want to thank you for the incredible work you've done not only recording the deaths of my Katz relatives from Stillwater, but also for the obits and photos.

I am writing to ask your permission to use the photographs of Jacob Katz and of the headstones of the members of his family. I write a genealogy blog and might want to use some of them on my blog.

I am happy to give you full attribution in any format that you prefer.

Added by amy cohen on Mar 15, 2017 12:00 PM
[View all messages...]

Privacy Statement and Terms of Service