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I have recorded the birth date, death date, and last address of your family members. Now it is your turn to edit and enhance their memorials, for the enjoyment of future generations.|
Thank you so much to the people who generously donate their time and money to provide information, photographs, and floral contributions to people who may never be able to thank them. I especially appreciate those who remember this is much bigger than ourselves and consistently maintain their memorials in a professional manner, treating others volunteers in the respectful way in which they like to be treated.
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FINDAGRAVE MEMORIAL TRANSFER POLICY
First, Determine if you really need the memorial transferred to you for management. Transferring of management should only be requested If you have extensive changes to make to a memorial. You can add photos and suggest corrections without having to request management. Simply having someone in your family tree is not grounds for a management transfer request. With hundreds of thousands of contributors, we have many overlapping family trees and it would be impossible for all contributors to manage their entire tree.
Second, Transfer requests should be for direct relatives within four generations. This would be your siblings, parents, grandparents, great-grandparents, children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren.
Third, If you have extensive additions/changes to make to a memorial, please contact the Find A Grave member who created the memorial via the "Suggest a Correction" link under the "Edit" tab on the memorial in question with your request to have the memorial management transferred to you. This will send an email request to the contributor, even if there is not an email address listed on their contributor page.
Fourth, Explain your relationship in the request! Any non-direct relatives (aunts, uncles, cousins, etc) are not required to be transferred. Keep in mind that the original contributor may also be related to the memorial and may not make the transfer. Bulk surname requests should not be made. Be advised that memorials listed as famous or maintained by Find A Grave will not be transferred.
Fifth, The "Suggest a correction" feature may also be used to submit corrections, an original biography, and family links to memorials that do not fall under the above defintion. (Be sure to include the memorial ID#s for the family links and how they are related, father, mother or spouse. The original contributor should make any corrections and add any additional information you have for that memorial, such as links to parents and spouses, provided the information is accurate.
Sixth, Please note that it is not appropriate to request a transfer and then, after receiving the transfer, delete that page and substitute it with a new memorial that you have created. This practice denies credit to the original contributor. Please use the original memorial page to make updates and add information.
I HAVE HAD AN OVERABUNDANT AMOUNT OF BAD EXPERIENCES TRANSFERRING MEMORIALS TO MEMBERS WHO QUICKLY LOSE INTEREST AND ABANDON THE MEMORIALS I CREATED. WHEN I LOOK AT YOUR PROFILE AND I SEE YOU HAVE HAD HUNDREDS, OR THOUSANDS, OF MEMORIALS TRANSFERRED TO YOU, I WONDER ABOUT THE NECESSITY SINCE YOU ARE ONLY DIRECTLY DESCENDED FROM 30 PEOPLE ACCORDING TO FINDAGRAVE GUIDELINES.
ONE TRANSFER REQUEST CAME WITH A NOTE ABOUT ALL OF THE BIOGRAPHICAL INFORMATION SHE HAD TO POST WHICH CONSISTED OF "THIS WAS MY FIFTH GREAT GRANDPAPPY WHO I LOVED VERY MUCH". THAT, SOMEWHAT SUSPECT, BIOGRAPHY COULD HAVE BEEN POSTED ON A FLOWER TRIBUTE.
I RESEARCH ALL CORRECTIONS SUBMITTED TO ME FOR ACCURACY BECAUSE THERE IS A LOT OF MISINFORMATION AND FAMILY TREES WHICH ARE ALL MESSED UP ON RESEARCH SITES. ON SEVERAL OCCASIONS I HAVE BUILT TWO SEPARATE FAMILIES IN FINDAGRAVE SO THAT THEY WILL BACKFEED CORRECTLY INTO ANCESTRY. I AM TICKLED TO RECEIVE NEW EDITS AND LINKS, AND AM EXTRA EXTRA EXTRA EXCITED ABOUT PICTURES AND STORIES TO PERSONALIZE THE MEMORIALS. AND I AM EXTRA EXTRA EXTRA UNHAPPY WHEN PEOPLE TRY TO GET ME TO REMOVE INFORMATION IN ORDER TO REWRITE THEIR HISTORY TO PLEASE THEM.
I AM AN UNBIASED CARETAKER WILLING TO POST ALL THE DOCUMENTED INFORMATION YOU PROVIDE AND HAVE WORKED VERY CLOSELY WITH OTHER FINDAGRAVE MEMBERS FOR YEARS EXCHANGING INFORMATION TO HELP BUILD YOUR FAMILY HISTORY. MOST OF MY DIRECT ANCESTORS WERE BUILT BY AN EARLY PIONEER TO FINDAGRAVE WHO POSTED ALL OF THE INFORMATION I REQUESTED AND TAUGHT ME HOW TO DO IMBEDDED LINKS BEFORE THE RELATIONSHIP LINK FEATURE WAS ADDED. OVER TIME I HAVE TALKED HIM OUT OF A FEW OF THEM, BUT NOW HE SEEMS TO HAVE MOVED TO FLORIDA AND FOUND SOMETHING BETTER TO DO WITH HIS TIME. [I'M TALKING ABOUT YOU BERN] PUH-LEEZE DON'T OBSESS ABOUT OWNING THE MEMORIALS OF EXTENDED FAMILY.
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|Doc Wilson||re: Mary Luzinia (Michael) Gladden|
Thank you for the transfer.
|Bernd Doss||Elijah Carter|
Hyman Chapel A.M.E. Zion Church Cemetery
North Carolina, USA [Add Plot]
Created by: Bernd Doss
Record added: Jan 08, 2011
Find A Grave Memorial# 63900395
You asked if I knew anything about the cemetery. Mr. Carter was interred at the Hyman Chapel AME Zion Church Cemetery which is located adjacent to the church, just off Highway 101, east of Havelock, NC. The location of his burial on his death certificate is in error. North Harlow and Cohoque are essentially one and the same. North Harlow is a small community a short distance down the road from the church and Cohoque is the name of a small creek nearby. Hope that this helps.
|Joan Thorne-Baker||Elizabeth Huggins Freeman|
Is not buried in the Belcher Cemetery. I believe she was buried elsewhere
I have posted several photos of markers on your work today and I want to thank you for all that you continue to do and the effort you make to keep things informative and correct!
|Sharon Leon||RE: Punctuation|
I think you meant to say that you will not be adding the proper punctuation for my distant Cavinee cousin. That's wonderful that you're willing and able to devote so much volunteer time to helping with memorials, but punctuation can be helpful. When I first looked at his memorial while researching that Cavinee branch, I thought "Is that name meant to be O'Cavinee or O. Cavinee?" It definitely makes sense though to save time by skipping the middle initial punctuation when setting up a memorial, so I can see what you're saying, but if a relative, even a distant one, wants to help improve a memorial by adding that punctuation, why not graciously accept that option? There are also people who think it's disrespectful to the deceased to not add the punctuation. It's entirely up to you though. I'm not aware that Find A Grave has any rule on the subject. Sharon
|Midwest Family Research||Little Pigeon Cem. Indiana|
I just wanted to thank you for the incredible amount and thoroughness of data that you put on my ancestors Find A Grave page. Words can't describe my delight/Joy/excitement and so forth. This Particular Ancestor Was Edmund G. Smith. As you can probably imagine, The Name 'Smith' can be challenging, to say the Least.This particular person's been elusive to me for some time. I just had to Thank You! 'Salute.....
|Estelle Clark||Mary U PINNIX|
Hi there! I received a photo request for Mary U PINNIX at Maplewood. She was the child of Joseph and LuAnn PINNIX and is buried next to them in Maplewood. Her tall marker is next to the joint marker for her parents.(I have posted a photo on her parents' findagrave marker. The inscription on Mary U's marker is rather damaged but I was able to read it in its entirety by making a rubbing of it. Mary U was born Nov 13, 1883 and she died Dec 9, 1886. Underneath the dates was the inscription "Our darling one has gone before to greet us on the blessed shore" Mary U Pinnix's Findagrave's number is 102245911 and her father's entry is 102245889. You have indicated that her birth date was 1854, but the actual birth was 11-13-1883. The 1854 date I believe to be the MARY U PINNIX who was Joseph's sister. There is no other Mary U Pinnix listed in Maplewood, although I will double check that in a couple of weeks (The office at Maplewood has moved to another cemetery temporarily while the office building at Maplewood is renovated.) If you could please correct the birth date of this Mary U Pinnix (Joseph & LuElla's daughter), I would appreciate it. I will post the grave pictures on your existing page for Mary U Pinnix. I also would appreciate your adding this child to the pages you created to Joseph's and LuElla's memorials. You can email me if you have questions Estelle.Clark@gmail.com
Thanks for all the good work you do for findagrave!
|Michelle Shreve||Guy Holloway|
I have looked at the census record you sent, as well as the marriage record, and have accepted your request to connect him to his mother. It was nice to see you had so many records for him, I also had the other records. At least some people actually take the time to do gen. research instead of copying trees, which are so often full of errors (a pet peeve of mine). I hadn't bothered to research his parents as he is not a direct line ancestor of mine. I am related through his wife Mona Turnidge, who is my grandfather's sister.
|Suzanne Forester Stein||James Mitchell # 43745427|
First, thank you for all you have done in helping so many people with your additions to Find a Grave. I have info on James Mitchell. He lived in Orange Co, NC where the statue is erected listing him as a Revolutionary Soldier. In 1804, he moved to Kentucky and in 1809, he moved to Maury Co Tennessee where he died in Mount Pleasant in 1843. He is buried in the Hunter Cemetery # 8679795.
Suzanne Forester Stein
|Doc Wilson||RE: Charles Wade Phillips #92651805|
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