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Kris Burns, UK (#46591580)
 member for 13 years, 6 months, 28 days
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Bio Photo 🙏🙏🙏 sadly my brother died on 23 April 2017 🙏🙏🙏
Please visit him.....
🏎🏎🏎 Michael Charles Ockenden....🏎🏎🏎
Memorial #178679185
💗💗💗Thank you 💗💗💗

Hi, my name is Kris Burns (nee Ockenden)

I was born & raised in Tunbridge Wells, Kent, SE England, & now live in the NW of England.

I am tracing our family tree, & I am interested in the following surnames:
OCKENDEN, MUSK, PYLE, POTTER, OSBORNE, JEX & KIRBY. (no matter where they are in the world!)

My late Father died of cancer, & his wish was to be cremated & his ashes scattered at sea. I did this for him, but felt sad that I did not have a place to go to remember him, until a friend told me about this site! I now feel, so much happier, and can visit him when ever I feel the need.
I have also started to add other deceased relatives, such as my Grand Parents, who I have linked to other family relatives as well. Sadly, I live too far away from their graves to visit.
I am also interested in Manchester United FC,
(The Busby Babes) & The BEACH BOYS
(Carl Wilson & Dennis Wilson) who's graves I have visited, via this excellent web site.
A BIG THANK YOU, to everyone who visits my family & friends on this memorial site. Your tokens mean a lot to me. I try to say thank you to each of you, but sometimes you may be over looked. Please forgive me.
Words cannot explain my gratitude to my new friends,
* Jean from Atoka, OK, for sponsoring my Father & Mother's memorials.
* Nora Ann, for sponsoring my little Sammie's memorial.
* Ronald & Janice for sponsoring my cousin Alistair Musk's memorial.
* Debra Felger,from Ohio, USA, for sponsoring my husband's little Aunt - Freda Ann Burns, and my Great Aunt Jo Ockenden's memorials.
* Deb for sponsoring my Godfather, William Musk's memorial.
* Purple-Lady for sponsoring my grandparents Charles & Sarah Ockenden, my Aunt Vi & Uncle George Frost & Kookie, our much loved guinea pig.
* Nancy Murray for sponsoring Binky, my daughter's much loved rabbit.
If your wondering who to visit;
*Charles Henry Ockenden was my Father
*Daisy Florence Musk Ockenden was my Mother.
*Michael Charles Ockenden was my brother.
*Sammie Ockenden Phillips was my third child, who I sadly miscarried.
*Charles Henry Ockenden II my paternal Grandfather.
*Sarah Pyle Ockenden my paternal Grandmother.
*William Elijah Musk my maternal Grandfather.
*Florence Amelia Potter Musk my maternal Grandmother.
*Jo Ockenden my Great Aunt.
From there you can follow the links to other family members.

On my waunderings I found this:


I dedicate that to all those here on FAG, who I will probably never meet, but who have been like dear friends, when I've needed them most.
A simple token left for your loved ones, is so up lifting! You never feel alone, and know that others also know & share feelings of deep sadness & loss.
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say.
But first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness;
Here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I am with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through.
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you.
It's good to have you back again,
you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, They'll be here later on.
I need you here badly, you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years.
Because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry: It does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
If I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is over.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
But together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too;
That as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain;
Then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life was worthwhile.
Knowing as I passed along the way I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low;
Just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street
and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go....from that body to be free.
Remember you're not're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
ęCopyright 1998-2008
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Dear Kris,
It was my honor to leave a flower in the memory of
your big Brother Michael. You have my deepest condolences during this time. I will keep you and your family in my prayers.
John L. Cowherd Jr.
Jonesboro, Georgia USA
Added by JLC on Apr 28, 2017 6:16 PM
RE: Michael Ockenden
You are very welcome, Kris.
I'm so very sorry for your loss.
You and your family are in my thoughts.

With Love, Rosie~💖~
Added by Rosie on Apr 27, 2017 2:59 PM
RE: Michael Ockenden
You are welcome Kris. I am so sorry for the loss of your dear brother. Hugs, Rosie
Added by Rosie♥Mooch on Apr 25, 2017 5:27 PM
RE: My brother Michael Ockenden *
Hello Kris, please accept my condolences for the loss of your dear Brother Michael. I haven't been online for a while, so I'm glad I was here today, for your message. I know how hard it is to lose a loved one, so please take care of yourself. I have also visited Viola, Olive, Sarah & Charles, since I haven't for a while.

Take care,
Added by purple-lady on Apr 24, 2017 7:21 PM
Juanita Andrews Gransby
RE: Michael Ockenden
Hi Kris,

I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your big brother Michael. Praying that God gives you and your family the strength and endurance that you need during this difficult time. God Bless! I know your pain because I loss my brother last year in June. It was so hard because it was just him and I left. His name was Raymond Andrews and I miss him terribly.

Juanita Andrews Gransby
Added by Juanita Andrews Gransby on Apr 24, 2017 2:13 PM
RE: Michael Ockenden
You are welcome. We just lost a member of our family, too.
Added by RMW on Apr 24, 2017 2:08 AM
Alice Morton
Dear Kris
I am so sorry to hear of Michael's passing. I lost my brother 10 years ago and it leaves a big hole in your heart. He sounds like a wonderful man, Bless him Oh Lord.
Added by Alice Morton on Apr 23, 2017 8:58 PM
vera 💚 swensen
RE: Michael Ockenden
You're quite welcome.I'm so sorry for your recent loss..My Deepest Condolences to you and your family. You're in my Thoughts n Prayers to help you thru this difficult time. R.I.P Michael..❤
Added by vera 💚 swensen on Apr 23, 2017 8:36 PM
RE: Needs flowers
Dear Kris, I am so terribly sorry to learn about your brother's death. I can understand why this loss has left you in a state of shock. Thank you for reaching out to me. I was privileged to leave a token and message on Michael's memorial site. With sincere sympathy, Janice
Added by Tigress on Apr 23, 2017 11:58 AM
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Hi Kris, I don't know if your aware, but my husband passed away 6/11/16. I was a housewife now I'm a working girl. I for the first time in my life have to take care of myself. I work a lot. I don't get to be on Find A Grave as much as I would like.
Thanks Alisohn
Added by Alisohn - Highly Favored ... on Apr 19, 2017 11:17 AM
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