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Kathy (McPhaul) Cather (#46821758)
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Bio Photo May 2011
Thank you again to all who continue to visit my angel momma and other memorials. Your thoughtfulness is always appreciated.

If you have time, this Memorial Day, please visit my step son's Fallen Battalion Brothers of the 3/25th Marines who lost their lives in Iraq in 2005. (Virtual Cemetery 10) My step son is being re-deployed this summer. Please keep him in your prayers.

May each of you be abundantly blessed!! XOXO


~~ Dear Ancestor ~~
Your tombstone stands among the rest, neglected and alone.
The name and date are chiseled out on polished, marbled stone.
It reaches out to all who care; it is too late to mourn.
You did not know that I exist; You died, and I was born.
Yet each of us are cells of you: in flesh, in blood, in bone.
Our blood contracts and beats a pulse entirely not our own.
Dear Ancestor, the place you filled one hundred years ago
Spreads out among the ones you left who would have loved you so.
I wonder if you lived and loved,
I wonder if you knew
That someday I would find this spot,
And come to visit you.

--Author Unknown


1 Dec 2009: Posted a Memorial for my friend and well known Paralympian, RANDY SNOW. Please pay him a visit if you have the time and keep his family in your prayers. Thank you!!

June 17...Posted my mom's pics. They look AWSOME!!!..Unfortunately had to delete some of her paintings...:-(

June 8, 2009

Thank you so very much for taking so much time to share your insights with me. FindAGrave is a TRUE Godsend!!!! and it is people like you, who reach out to complete strangers, that make it that way!!

Currently researching ALL McPHAULs, CATHERs and FITZWILLIAMs (regardless of Ancestry, Line, Race, Religion, Etc. ) and their descendants. Would LOVE to hear from you!
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A&M College Photo of E.D. Fitzwilliam
I would like to ask for more information about Fitzwilliam at A&M. He is listed in the June 1916 as student in the two-year Agriculture program so we believe he started that fall and would have completed the program in 1918 right before he enlisted. We simply cannot find him in any yearbook so a better quality photograph would be great. I am researching all the Aggies and local men (Brazos County) who served in the USMC for the WW1 Centennial. Any assistance would be appreciated.
John P. Blair, Ph.D.
Bryan, Texas
Added by JPB on Dec 06, 2016 7:42 AM
Find A Grave Memorial# 81075064
Hi Kathy,

The information on this memorial needs to be updated. John McLean's wife Margaret's maiden name was Margaret McPherson.
Added by kelley on Nov 19, 2016 5:25 AM
Debbie Galbreath
James Marion Stagner
Hello Kathy,

I believe we may be kin. James Marion Stagner is my great great grandfather. My Great Grandmother is Ella Stagner Parker.

Debbie Galbreath
Added by Debbie Galbreath on Aug 20, 2016 10:53 PM
Matthew Barr
Added by Matthew Barr on May 29, 2016 5:05 PM
Angela Short Hudson
Hey Kathy, hope you are well.

I was researching some of the "Curries" in my family tree.

I saw where you had added Malcolm A. Clark in
Bethel Presbyterian Church Cemetery Find A Grave #141238248.

Malcolm Archie Clark marries twice 1) Mary McNeill on Jan. 28, 1884 in Robeson Co., N.C. (the one you have named on his memorial). 2) Mary Currie on April 5, 1894 in Robeson Co. N.C.

I found an obituary for Malcolm Clark, says he was about 81 yrs old when he died. I believe he was born about 1862. His mother could have been pregnant with him when his father died.

Malcolms' birth is listed as 1862 in both of his marriages.

I have added Mary Currie Clark memorial to this cemetery and linked her to her husband Malcolm A. Clark.

The children born after 1892 that died are Malcolm and Mary Currie Clarks.

Have a blessed day,
Added by Angela Short Hudson on May 27, 2016 1:47 PM
Jan Greiving
Thank you for posting John Poe and Grace Jenkins on Find A Grave. I only have family lore as sources for James W. Cather. Have you had any success with research verifying James W. Cather and his wife as the parents of James Cather born 1807 Pennsylvania? Thank you,
Added by Jan Greiving on May 22, 2016 3:16 PM
James Price

Please look at the page for Alexander Muszynski number 139176445. I posted a photo of his flight crew that may or may not include Your cousin. 2nd Lt Muszynski was the co-pilot of the "Naughty but "Nice B24 that was piloted by Price . I don't have much info on Al Muszynski after his March 31 1944 letter home from an airfield in Brazil. Since he died on April 17 I don't think he got 21 missions under his belt. Maybe he was teamed up with an experienced crew and it was his first.

His sister is still alive and only knew of the burial in Jefferson Barracks when I showed he the photos and crash report in 2014.

If you can direct me to any sources about the crash and crew please do so Thank you.
Added by David on May 16, 2016 6:46 AM
Claudia Allen
Beatrice Darling
Hi Kathy,

You have done an impressive amount of work for Find a Grave. Thank you for putting in the information for our Darling line.
I have a correction for Beatrice Darling. Her maiden name was Casey. Her parents were James Casey and Mary Morrisroe Casey. She was born in 1862 in Cloonaweema, County Mayo, Ireland and baptized as Bridget Casey. She changed her name to Beatrice when she came to America.
Thought you might be interested to know that my mother,(Beatrice's grand-daughter and Richard Darling Jr's niece), Beatrice Meyer, is buried with my father at Arlington National Cemetery.

Claudia Kellogg Allen
Added by Claudia Allen on May 11, 2016 10:40 AM
Verena Fehlmann Zeller
Hi Kathy,

I would like to talk about the information listed.

I think information is incorrect. I have her maid name as Felman. I would also like to know how you know where she was born. Any info you can provide would be great.

Thanks, Wendy
Added by Wendy on Mar 12, 2016 8:54 PM
Suzette West
Always remembefed
Kathy, I wanted you to know that I think of you and your mom often. I met you as a little girl through my sister Lynette Vines, your friend. I am her baby sister. You are in my prayers and I hope you are well. God bless
Added by Suzette West on Mar 03, 2016 1:15 PM
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