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Roger (#46562712)
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The Tacoma Cemetery staff has no record of Barbara Carmen, Find A Grave Memorial# 176305270, being buried in that cemetery. I discovered that by making a photo request which I was going to use to take the photo myself. Since her husband is buried there one would guess she would be buried there too.
Added by Publico on May 30, 2017 2:46 PM
Poplar Grove, Newbern Tn
You had requested info on John Ellis. In the 1976 records there is a John W.Ellis born April 15, 1832 died Nov 9, 1895. He is buried in Row 12/East side. I Will try to locate the remains of his headstone.
Added by Poplargrove on May 24, 2017 4:33 PM
Matthew Wade
Tabitha "Lizzie" Laughlin, North Middletown Cemetery
Hi. I added a pic for the tombstone of a Lizzie Laughlin. The birth and death dates are off slightly (so you might want to check your records) but it was the only Laughlin I could find and I searched pretty much the whole cemetery. If you don't think it is the right one, feel free to remove.
Thank you,
Matthew Wade
Added by Matthew Wade on Apr 29, 2017 10:58 AM
B & BJ Thomas
Transfer 178752661
I am requesting transfer of my Uncle Wes to me please. I am here now for his service and I will add pictures of stone and of him.
Thank you,
Added by B & BJ Thomas on Apr 27, 2017 8:43 PM
B & BJ Thomas
Transfer 178752661
I am requesting transfer of my Uncle Wes to me please. I am here now for his service and I will add pictures of stone and of him.
Thank you,
Added by B & BJ Thomas on Apr 27, 2017 2:58 PM
Photo request for Arthur Arlinghaus
I have your photo request for Arthur Arlinghaus, b.1918, d.2001 for St. Mary's Cemetery in Ft. Mitchell KY. Find A Grave#175132130. If you call the cemetery and get his plot location, I will gladly try to find it on my next trip to the cemetery. Their number is 859-331-1140 or the Diocese is 859-392-1500.
Added by SFlischel on Apr 14, 2017 7:59 AM
Aleta Stafford
13th Tennessee Calvary
Thank you so much for the edits for the members of the 13th Tennessee Calvary troops.

Added by Aleta Stafford on Jan 22, 2017 7:20 PM
Paula Via
13th Tennessee Cavalry
Hi Roger, I am a researcher of Tennessee's Union soldiers. I was going through the soldiers that you have in your Virtual Cemetery for the 13th Tennessee Cavalry and I have the memorials on Find A Grave for about 50 more. If you are interested in adding these, please contact me directly.
Paula Via
Added by Paula Via on Jan 01, 2017 11:22 AM
deanna french
RE: Manhattan, Alvah Strong Civil War Veteran
Thank you very much Roger. Alvah Strong was born in Benson, Vermont Jan. 12,1797. He was 61 years old when he enlisted, and was credited to his home town. He actually served as Private in Co. F.1st NE Infantry, from June 24th.1861 until March 21,1862. He does have a page on the Vermont C.W. site, but we don't have anything on him other than his birth, death and service. That is where his grave photo will go.If you have any detail on him, family, obituary, photo etc. we would be glad to post it on his page.If you browse the site you will see many soldiers have a lot listed, others not so much. We are always on the hunt for info on them.

Again, thanks.
Deanna French
Added by deanna french on Sep 22, 2016 2:00 PM
deanna french
Manhattan, Alvah Strong Civil War Veteran
May I use the monument photo that you contributed to the Find A Grave Memorial of Alvah Strong, to post on the Vermont C.W. site? (

You will receive credit for this.
Thank you for your consideration.

Deanna French
Added by deanna french on Sep 17, 2016 8:57 AM
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