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MaryK4d4 (#46982975)
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Bio Photo Single mother of two sons ~ 1 has 2 legs the other has 4.

Spent my adult life working in customer service and as a caregiver to terminally ill friends and family. I have watched dementia and Alzheimers destroy memories that can never be recovered. It is for that reason I feel that each and every memorial should include as much information as possible. I have been told that this site is merely a database for locations of graves. And it is my opinion that if that were true we wouldn't be posting flowers & messages. We wouldn't be adding photos and bios. We would have nothing more than John Smith row 4 plot 7 Sunny Acres Cemetery.

~~~~~ABOUT PHOTOS~~~~~

Most of my memorials are created from grave photos. I search the site before I create the memorial. If I find that I have created a memorial and subsequently find that it is a duplicate of a BU memorial I send an Edit to the contributor advising them of the grave location and that I have a photo of the grave. If the location is added to the memorial I will post the grave photo and delete the memorial I created.

If the contributor does not respond or update the location within 30 days then I will keep my memorial and it's photo in place. As per the site guidelines the contributor is supposed to update the location within 30 days of creating it.

If I have posted a picture of a grave marker it is a picture that I have taken myself. I place no monetary value on these photos. I took the pictures to create or complete memorials and provide photo documentation of the grave site. If family or friends would like a copy of the grave site photos they are welcome to them.
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Messages left for MaryK4d4 (174)[Leave Message]
Andrew Witham
RE: Samantha Schultz
Thank you for your message

To the best of my knowledge, there is no younger brother, and certainly was not one at the time of her passing.

She has an older maternal half-brother. During the time that I knew Samantha, which was from 1998 until her passing seven years ago, and during which time I was married to her mother's sister, I never once heard mention of a younger brother.

Perhaps Kyle was a half-brother by her father, who, in the entire time I knew Sam, I never met, nor to the best of my knowledge was he present at her funeral? I could be wrong.

In any event, the article you quote was not written by me, but by Sam's immediate family, and copied from the newspaper in which it was published at the time. You may find answers to your questions by asking family.

Sam's aunt and I separated about a year after Sam's death, since which time I have had negligible communication with my ex-wife or her sister.

Sorry that I am unable to help you - but I have no idea about what you mention, nor am I interested in being dragged in old family issues.

I now have a family of my own, and live overseas. I am, however still very fond of Sam, and choose to remember her in my own way.

Added by Andrew Witham on Apr 23, 2017 3:23 PM
RE: Martha Stroop- Memorial# 54911698
Hi Mary,
Thank you for your reply and for honoring Marty with your flowers. I didn't know the family really well as my dad was in the Navy while I was growing up and we only connected a few times. I did make it to one of the kid's wedding when I was older. I remember Marty being a fun person.
Added by Kaye on Mar 26, 2017 2:09 AM
Martha Stroop- Memorial# 54911698
Hi Mary,

You left some flowers on Marty's memorial. Are you related? She married my first cousin.

Added by Kaye on Jan 25, 2017 2:07 AM
Sonia Young Francisco
Eugene Foster
You created memorial#113766204 for Eugene Foster which includes a photo of his headstone. A Marine's Daughter created what I believe to be a duplicate record ( Memorial# 81733799) without a photo of his headstone, but connected to his spouse and children. Perhaps you and she should communicate about the possibility of a merge?

Sonia Francisco
Added by Sonia Young Francisco on Jan 09, 2017 5:21 AM
Re: Lottie Moody
Thank you so much for your help. Your time and efforts are greatly appreciated.

Dianna Burran Wellman
Added by LadyDi_60 on Nov 12, 2016 2:54 PM
Diane Pedersen
Alphonse Seidlinger
Thank you for his headstone photo. I appreciate you taking time to do this for me.
Added by Diane Pedersen on Nov 11, 2016 8:00 PM
Find A Grave Memorial# 123458525
I have a question about this memorial:
Find A Grave Memorial# 123458525
This came up in a cousin's documents on Ancestry. I see the photo of the marker has a generic message on it, but above it is the name of the baby twin girl- can you tell me about it? Is this name listed on the back? Are the parents names also on this- it looks to have Carlson names above it. I have no other children/twin listed for this couple so I'm trying to solve this family mystery. What is the reason the baby was buried this way?
Thank you so much.
Added by cbsorci on Sep 27, 2016 3:19 PM
Barbara (Harford) Smith
Transfer #50607744
Could you transfer Lori Cimmino to me she is my Cousin and I would like to add info about her.
Thank You
Barbara Harford Smith
Added by Barbara (Harford) Smith on Sep 07, 2016 6:45 AM
Hi thought I would contact you about Earnest and Gladys Harris buried at Findlay Il. Ernie is my stepdad Estels brother. Was wondering if you could tell me anything about their children. We know there names but dont know what happened to them.Any help would be appreciated. Joyce Bell Sullivan Il
Added by JOYCE Bell on Aug 25, 2016 7:46 PM
Hey you!
I wish Find A Grave would go back to our forums we had fun in!

How's the weather out there? Are you doing ok?

Added by TheBlueJar on Aug 25, 2016 3:58 AM
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