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Kathleen Englebretson (#47705227)
 member for 5 years, 6 months, 4 days
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Bio Photo March 2017: Spring cleaning has hit my genealogy files. Have decided to sort out old paperwork (some 15-20+ years old). I started throwing out old obits, news clippings, etc. that I had transferred to a computer file. As I was looking I realized there was clippings of other non relative obits attached. Most were collected before I joined FAG. I decided that before I (aka my husband) burn all of them I would transcribe them into FAG. Please forgive me if some of the clippings do not have a source or date. It has been too long to remember where I got some of them from and some came from other people who did not included that information. I thought the data was more important than not doing anything except lighting the match to the fire barrel.
Sept 2016: Please do not send me Transfers that I do not request. Just because I request an Edit doesn't mean I want a Transfer. Transfers should be reserved for family members. Requesting an Edit doesn't mean you are a family member.

Nov 2015: A bit about manners and rudeness. We all make mistakes. Sometimes people like me who adds thousand of names just to be helpful can only go by the info on the tombstone. A couple of e-mails I have gotten in the recent past went like this:

Kathleen, I'm writing to ask you if you would kindly delete this memorial for -------. I had checked to see if one was made shortly before you made yours and there was none. So I did extended work on his whole family here in Connecticut then returned to "Henry" and made his a few weeks later. When "Bulldog", the photographer who took the gravestone photos for my memorial pointed out today that there was another one already made, I didn't know what to do but write and explain the situation. I hope you understand. Thank you and God bless you for all your work on findagrave.

Another went like this: I recently created a FAG link for my family. I see you created a link 2 years ago. You will remove your "duplicate" immediately so that I can keep mine.

Guess which request I honored?

Pictures: I am sure it is safe to say that the majority of us picture takers are amateurs. This means that sometimes we don't always get the best pictures--- Weather, bad stones, bad timing, just plain bad luck. If I get a picture that is better than yours please don't be offended as I am not offended if someone gets a better one than mine. To me it is just like editing a name or date. We want the best we can get.
I don't set out to duplicate pictures. I take hundreds of pictures at one time and worry about duplicates after I get home.

This is a hobby, I don't think anyone gets paid (If you do--let me know how!) This is suppose to be fun. Too much griping, insults, etc. will only discourage people from doing this. Newbies will make mistakes. I will check a person's profile to determine how to respond. I need this service and hope you do, too.

I have been deeply involved in Genealogy for over 25 years including teaching, doing workshops and running a Family History Center.

This is my system for doing cemeteries. I have a government job that has strange hours and erratic appointment times. I have learned to carry a camera and area cemetery maps with me at all times. I may have minutes or hours in between things so that may determine how many pictures get taken. I take a picture of every stone as time allows including cleaning up the really nasty ones. I do look over the requests but do not "claim" them because I don't know when I will get them downloaded so that may explain why "requests" are filled "hit and miss". I have taken 200-800+ pictures per cemetery visit depending on time and the size of the cemetery. I multi-task in front of the TV at night.

Please feel free to use my photos anyway you want. I believe in sharing. No special request is needed.

PLEASE include the name, cemetery and FAG number. Since the majority of my contributions are complete strangers to me, it is hard to respond properly without this info.
The EDIT button is a fantastic tool.
Feel free to ask for transfers within reasonable relationships. Except for my own family I have no special attachment to the 1000's of photos I have taken. I think the comedian Rodney Dangerfield said "Take them, PLEASE, they're mine!"

2017 I have started being more cautious about some transfers as too many "friends and neighbors" were contacting me and then I get a response from a new contributor who is family. I hate to discourage family from doing FAG because their feelings were hurt by a non relative who took over their family links.

Recently, I made an observation--Delete and Deliver both begin with "de" which explains why when I am tired I may hit the wrong one so if I don't respond or make an edit try again. I also noted that other words begin with "de" like dementia, demented, delusional and delirium, which explains the rest of me.
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I love your commentary. Couldn't agree more.
Thanks for all of your work and your humor.
Added by Genhunter on Jul 26, 2017 11:16 AM
Tim Koenig
Louise F Holubets
Hi Kathy: I sent you a suggested edit, to add Louise's maiden name - "Gandt". Please look at the obit for Louise's son Bob (Robert W. Holubets) on his Find A Grave memorial for confirmation of Louise's maiden name. Thanks much. - Tim
Added by Tim Koenig on Jul 24, 2017 11:21 PM
Vickie Schnitzler
RE: James Haupt 95281259
I see there is a duplicate. I only took the photos for the page requested. They an merge the two pages but I can't do anything with them since I didn't create either page. Sorry!
Added by Vickie Schnitzler on Jul 24, 2017 1:30 PM
Rose Franz-Gondek
Gustave Adolph & Theresa Kottke
Thanks so much for taking a photo of their headstone. It is really helpful in my family tree. God bless you!
Added by Rose Franz-Gondek on Jul 20, 2017 11:19 PM
Deb Hanna
Hi Kathleen: The family links for parents. The name you wrote is different than the name on the stone.
Added by Deb Hanna on Jul 20, 2017 10:43 AM
Don Knight
Duplicate Entries
Hi Kathleen,

Thought I would bring to your attention what appear to be two entries of yours that duplicate earlier entries.

The entry 26926851 appears duplicated by your entry 94043075.

The entry 26926888 appears duplicated by your entry 94043095.

The earlier entries were put in 4 years before yours.

That's all I've got, but do thank your for your many pictures I've found useful in filling out my tree.

Don Knight
Added by Don Knight on Jul 19, 2017 1:08 PM
Janet Marie
Janice Holden # 107850229
You accidentally added an incorrect photo to Janice Holden # 107850229. Another F.A.G. volunteer has added the correct photo. Please remove the incorrect photo.

Added by Janet Marie on Jul 18, 2017 6:00 PM
Jessica (Muraski) VanHove
Request Transfers
Hello Kathleen,
I was wondering if you could transfer the following to me as these are my Grandparents, Great Aunts and Uncles. Thank you for all the work that you do.

Frank W. Muraski 141635488
LaVerne M Mruaski 141635465
Felix W Murawski 142385795
Joseph G Muraski 142385813

Jessica (Muraski) VanHove
Added by Jessica (Muraski) VanHove on Jul 14, 2017 8:36 PM
Lorraine Martel
Lavinia Humeston wife of Ichabod Bowerman
Thank you for all the work you do to help people like me find our long lost past. I want you to know that I'm giving you some flowers today as I place them on the Find A Grave memorial for my 3x great grandmother.
Added by Lorraine Martel on Jul 07, 2017 9:57 AM
Paulette Janikowski
Could you please transfer the memorial for Selma Eiter 158328529 to me. She is my aunt on my dad's side, they never had any children so I would be the only person who would make any changes to it.

Thank you.
Added by Paulette Janikowski on Jul 07, 2017 9:56 AM
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