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CryptoGram (#46897564)
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Bio Photo Grief never ends,
but it changes.
It is a passage,
not a place to stay.
Grief is not a sign of
weakness or lack of faith...
it is the price of love.

The words above are thought to be based on a eulogy Queen Elizabeth made for her sister Princess Margaret.

RE: erroneous memorials in Santa Fe National Cemetery ~ ALL people buried in ALL National Cemeteries are findable at VetGravesLocator

I don't make more than a couple memorials a day on average, but have done research into the families of lots of them...same for many whose pictures I post...making me gladly able to help with most anyone's ancestral brick walls however I can.

As the activity on FindAGrave increases, memorials and pictures left to be added decrease. There are already over 125,000,000 memorials; so considering that half the people who ever lived on Planet Earth are living now, and that it's unknown where over 90% of the dead many does that leave? -LOL and go figure.

When the picture "request" function first started, pix were limited in size to 250K: a comparatively tiny 1/32 of 8M now allowed. Back then there was only one guy and me taking pix in Arlington National (all that white granite for matching military markers comes from Vermont...not China :^), and there weren't many requests, so you can see how membership and contributions have exploded! I've had to tell my eager grandboy that there will probably be little picture-taking left to do when another seven years pass, just always recent deaths to add.

Us'uns who are willing & able: little burial grounds usually need cleaning and repairs; but don't go alone, and be careful ~ I've encountered snakes, dogs, & Black Widow spiders...and been told creepy tales about the LIVING I might encounter.

Some might think others of us are too possessive about pictures we take/post, but you probably haven't encountered a self-aggrandizer who deletes memorials after lifting the pictures others added to them and then remakes memorials with same pictures claimed as their own. As on any real city block, not everything is hunky-dory here; and not all the neighbors are nice. It takes just one rotten apple plus a few manipulators, stalkers, and green-eyed game players...especially the ones who post wrong poor-quality pictures on purpose, change names &/or places of burial to make originals look like duplicates, &/or put deaths willy-nilly into incorrect cemeteries just to inflate their "contributions" and then get huffy & vindictive when others notice the obvious, require the rest of us in the barrel to ignore the inappropriate comedy of their intentional errors.

COMMENTS ON MESSAGES TO ME ABOUT COPYRIGHT ISSUES, INCLUDING FindAGrave's OWN rules and regulations, found here ~ FindAGrave FAQs ~ which admonish, among else: >>The copyright of all photos posted to Find A Grave remains with the original submitter. No use of photos for any other website or personal use is given without prior consent of the original submitter.<<

Sad to have to point out that I have posted NO pictures on, but some members there and elsewhere online lifted pictures I DID add to FindAGrave ~ ESPECIALLY of KINFOLK ~ & reposted them as their own with no credit given. When you see a picture on identical to one I've added to FaG, mine is the original; if included posting dates, I would not have to explain this. It's also quite silly that when I/others have made family trees there from personal information, they're noted as having no sources, but then when others copy same, their "source" is US!

You can use pictures I've taken and posted on this site in your online family trees by making a connective link to the original and/or including " FindAGrave member #46897564"; none may be sold and/or exchanged for any type of payment.

Why I got on FindAGrave:

I oversaw the newsletter of Colonel David Hackworth, military author/ commentator/ columnist with 8 Purple Hearts, for several years until he died from the effects of Agent Blue (used along with Agent Orange in Vietnam) while my husband was off in a war zone; at which time I needed a new focus and determined to pin-point our then-totally-unknown ancestors: at least 28 Revolutionary War Patriots, his Mayflower and Salem "witch" ancestors, my Swedish "hanky-panky in the palace" & Scottish Robert the Bruce people...and many *ships who pass in the night* ~ then sometimes remain friends ~ who have been great fun, challenges, and blessings to find.

So, at the onset in 2005, I was first able to find basic facts of the missing Major James Powell, and began a two-year mission to restore his legacy which was lost upon his death at Shiloh 145 years ago today as I write this 06APRIL2007. This long walk, still being shared with both living and non-bodied souls, is what educated me in how to usually quite rapidly find pertinent data for you "strangers," which I still remain happily willing to do!

My head-smacks in research are people assumed to be kids of step-parents when the bio-parent (usually mother) died too young & seeing my favorite greatgrandmother constantly called "Mrs. G.: husband's first initial and married name" ~ most ALL females losing their identities up into the 1960s; so I'm elated whenever I successfully work the puzzles ~ better than word math, sudoku, or cryptograms ~ of restoring ladies' kids &/or maiden names as the most appropriate and long-lasting FLOWERS to their memories, and alas, I still have just ONE nee name in my own Heck(ofA)family to dig up.

May all of Granny Vance's roses perpetually bloom bright and happy!

The book of life is brief,
And once the pages read
All but love is dead:
That is my belief.
(sung by Bobby Goldsboro in 1970...when he & God were watching Scotty grow)

God is Love.
(1 John 4:8)
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Talbott & Smith
Thank you so much for all the fabulous tombstone photos of Beverley Kay Blakeslee Smith, Claude Calvin Smith, Lucien Hardesty Talbott, his wife, Jane Marie E Whalen Talbott and sons, Richard C Talbott and Ronald L Talbott that you took in Pleasant Valley Cemetery. I really appreciate your time in taking all these photos for me. Thanks again
Added by skelley on Mar 27, 2017 3:47 PM
New England Family
RE: MasonDyer
Thank You so very much..I am so happy to have these pictures. I will try to get out there one day but that seems impossible for the time being.
There seems to be no records available for Mason Dyer. Or I haven't been able to locate them yet?
So every little detail helps.
Added by New England Family on Mar 27, 2017 7:56 AM
New England Family
Dyer Photos
I cant thank you enough for your time and efforts, I appreciate the wonderful photos that you have added of these gravestones.I hope that one day I will locate the burial of Mason Dyer. Records state that he is buried On Mansur's Gravesites?
I dont know if he had a stone or not and wondered if you noticed a place near John and Lydia Mason that might indicate he was buried there without a stone? ore research must be done on him. I know his daughters moved back to Ct. to stay with relatives after their mother died.Thanks again.
Added by New England Family on Mar 26, 2017 7:19 AM
John S Williamson
Thanks for finding and taking his headstone photo.
Added by jdd20cu on Mar 25, 2017 11:53 AM
Jon Saunders
Thank you for the great batch of photos in Hillside Cemetery!
Added by Jon Saunders on Mar 25, 2017 11:02 AM
Norman Dodge
Find A Grave # 167453817
Thank you for finding and Photoing the James Hammond Memorial.
I greatly appreciate this as I am sure the Hammond family will
Added by Norman Dodge on Mar 25, 2017 8:05 AM
Janet Reasoner
Betsy Perry
Thank you very much for the picture.
Jan Reasoner
Added by Janet Reasoner on Mar 25, 2017 7:50 AM
RE: Boulware/Kolb-NewMexico
Thank you so much! It was a strange situation. Thomas died in Cripple Creek, CO. Lillian & children seem to be all over the place! most of the time in NM. I have had a hard time finding birth records for them. This Adams line goes all the way back to President Adams!
Added by Ann on Mar 23, 2017 1:33 PM
Adana Thompson Adams
Sarah Ann Roberts
I finally uploaded the photo of Sarah that Mike Corray sent us by deleting one of my cemetery photos.
Added by Adana Thompson Adams on Mar 19, 2017 10:07 AM
Nancy & Rich Remling
Sara Phillips
Thanks so much for the photo!
Added by Nancy & Rich Remling on Mar 09, 2017 8:07 AM
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