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Kathleen Englebretson (#47705227)
 member for 5 years, 4 months
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Bio Photo March 2017: Spring cleaning has hit my genealogy files. Have decided to sort out old paperwork (some 15-20+ years old). I started throwing out old obits, news clippings, etc. that I had transferred to a computer file. As I was looking I realized there was clippings of other non relative obits attached. Most were collected before I joined FAG. I decided that before I (aka my husband) burn all of them I would transcribe them into FAG. Please forgive me if some of the clippings do not have a source or date. It has been too long to remember where I got some of them from and some came from other people who did not included that information. I thought the data was more important than not doing anything except lighting the match to the fire barrel.
Sept 2016: Please do not send me Transfers that I do not request. Just because I request an Edit doesn't mean I want a Transfer. Transfers should be reserved for family members. Requesting an Edit doesn't mean you are a family member.

Nov 2015: A bit about manners and rudeness. We all make mistakes. Sometimes people like me who adds thousand of names just to be helpful can only go by the info on the tombstone. A couple of e-mails I have gotten in the recent past went like this:

Kathleen, I'm writing to ask you if you would kindly delete this memorial for -------. I had checked to see if one was made shortly before you made yours and there was none. So I did extended work on his whole family here in Connecticut then returned to "Henry" and made his a few weeks later. When "Bulldog", the photographer who took the gravestone photos for my memorial pointed out today that there was another one already made, I didn't know what to do but write and explain the situation. I hope you understand. Thank you and God bless you for all your work on findagrave.

Another went like this: I recently created a FAG link for my family. I see you created a link 2 years ago. You will remove your "duplicate" immediately so that I can keep mine.

Guess which request I honored?

Pictures: I am sure it is safe to say that the majority of us picture takers are amateurs. This means that sometimes we don't always get the best pictures--- Weather, bad stones, bad timing, just plain bad luck. If I get a picture that is better than yours please don't be offended as I am not offended if someone gets a better one than mine. To me it is just like editing a name or date. We want the best we can get.
I don't set out to duplicate pictures. I take hundreds of pictures at one time and worry about duplicates after I get home.

This is a hobby, I don't think anyone gets paid (If you do--let me know how!) This is suppose to be fun. Too much griping, insults, etc. will only discourage people from doing this. Newbies will make mistakes. I will check a person's profile to determine how to respond. I need this service and hope you do, too.

I have been deeply involved in Genealogy for over 25 years including teaching, doing workshops and running a Family History Center.

This is my system for doing cemeteries. I have a government job that has strange hours and erratic appointment times. I have learned to carry a camera and area cemetery maps with me at all times. I may have minutes or hours in between things so that may determine how many pictures get taken. I take a picture of every stone as time allows including cleaning up the really nasty ones. I do look over the requests but do not "claim" them because I don't know when I will get them downloaded so that may explain why "requests" are filled "hit and miss". I have taken 200-800+ pictures per cemetery visit depending on time and the size of the cemetery. I multi-task in front of the TV at night.

Please feel free to use my photos anyway you want. I believe in sharing. No special request is needed.

PLEASE include the name, cemetery and FAG number. Since the majority of my contributions are complete strangers to me, it is hard to respond properly without this info.
The EDIT button is a fantastic tool.
Feel free to ask for transfers within reasonable relationships. Except for my own family I have no special attachment to the 1000's of photos I have taken. I think the comedian Rodney Dangerfield said "Take them, PLEASE, they're mine!"

2017 I have started being more cautious about some transfers as too many "friends and neighbors" were contacting me and then I get a response from a new contributor who is family. I hate to discourage family from doing FAG because their feelings were hurt by a non relative who took over their family links.

Recently, I made an observation--Delete and Deliver both begin with "de" which explains why when I am tired I may hit the wrong one so if I don't respond or make an edit try again. I also noted that other words begin with "de" like dementia, demented, delusional and delirium, which explains the rest of me.
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Tim Koenig
Ansel I. Peterson
Thanks (again) for helping me with Ansel's family links. - Tim
Added by Tim Koenig on May 21, 2017 11:37 PM
B.J. Nelson
Michael Mikolajczak
I am searching for my husband's great grandfather who's name is Michael Mikolajczak. I found your memorial in Elcho Community Cemetery. He is not my husband's relative however, I found a duplicate of your memorial. The duplicate is in Holy family Parish #165908316. They have the same year of birth and death and in the same county.
Added by B.J. Nelson on May 16, 2017 5:09 PM
Heidi HC
Thank you so much
I greatly appreciate the transfers as well as all the work you've done. Thank you!
Added by Heidi HC on May 09, 2017 6:57 PM
US Census, 1900 Colby town Colby city Ward West, Clark, Wisconsin
Carl Koeppen Head M 43 Germany
Augusta Koeppen Wife F 44 Germany
Otto Koeppen Son M 19 Germany
Augusta Koeppen Daughter F 16 Germany
Herman Koeppen Son M 14 Germany
Bertha Koeppen Daughter F 7 Wisconsin
Added by Slappy on May 04, 2017 3:34 PM
El Memorializer
Lowell Newton #106346495
I also have a memorial for Lowell (see memorial # 35726126) that I added to Pine Grove Cemetery in Wausau based on information taken from the obit. Since mine is obviously in the wrong cemetery, I will delete but I thought you might want the partial obit in the bio. Either way, let me know so that I can delete.

Thanks in advance, Kathy
Added by El Memorializer on May 01, 2017 9:38 PM
Kathleen Ulrich
Ann Parker
It is curious that my grandmother's name on her gravestone is "Ann." I always believed that was her name, but I discovered in further research that her name was actually "Anna." I didn't believe it even then until I read one of Grandpa's letters to my mother. He wrote her name as "Anna." I can not recall ever hearing him call her that name. Instead, it was "Annie." Sort of like - "Now, Annie...."

Thank you for your work.

Kathleen Nelson Ulrich
Added by Kathleen Ulrich on May 01, 2017 11:08 AM
Brackman @ Pinelawn
Thank you, I added the obit for Gerald you sent me. I read your bio, well said! Thanks for all you do, Dale
Added by DMaron on Apr 27, 2017 4:17 PM
Earl Pagel
Ulricke Gernetzky
Oops we have another duplicate in Pine Grove, I have memorial #88250200 and you have #125708492, mine has family linked but yours has your nice headstone photo!
Earl Pagel
Added by Earl Pagel on Apr 19, 2017 12:34 PM
RE: Barbara Schuster
Find A Grave 141230741

I check myself the link is right. The mother death year is wrong and I sent an edit. And more children.

Your right. I should have check. Sorry
Added by Phillip on Apr 07, 2017 8:44 AM
Mary Sicard
Charlotte Hubert
Thank you for posting a photo of her tombstone on her memorial page.
Added by Mary Sicard on Apr 02, 2017 5:06 PM
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