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Pammy In Oklahoma (#46877560)
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Bio Photo I'm Pam.
I live in Stillwater, OK.
I love doing research on Payne County, Oklahoma and surrounding counties.

Due to the death of DonZas, I am managing the memorials in Fairlawn Cemetery in Stillwater that he posted. I will be keeping all of the memorials that are in my family tree. And, believe me, there are alot of them.

However, if you wish for me to transfer a memorial to you, send EACH request through the "EDIT" - "SUGGEST A CORRECTION" Link on EACH person's memorial. Please allow time, because I get alot of requests each day.

REMEMBER the Find-A-Grave RULE states:
Transfer requests should be for DIRECT RELATIVES WITHIN FOUR GENERATIONS. This would be your siblings, parents, grandparents, great-grandparents, children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren.

Uncle, Aunts, Cousins, nephews, mother's brother's first cousins, well, these don't count as a direct relative. And, yes, this part is included in the rules.

E-mail me if you have a question or if you have a request that I haven't already uploaded.

Also, I have photographed and transcribed Ripley Oak Park Cemetery and Mt. Hope Cemetery near Ripley, OK. I don't transfer these memorials, but I will add the information and links if you ask me.
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amy cohen
Jacob Katz and family
Hi Pammy, First, I want to thank you for the incredible work you've done not only recording the deaths of my Katz relatives from Stillwater, but also for the obits and photos.

I am writing to ask your permission to use the photographs of Jacob Katz and of the headstones of the members of his family. I write a genealogy blog and might want to use some of them on my blog.

I am happy to give you full attribution in any format that you prefer.

Added by amy cohen on Mar 15, 2017 12:00 PM
merle lloyd allinson
I want to find out where you got the information that my father was a half brother to his siblings.
Please call me, at 405.372.0329. I am Vera Bilyeu.
Added by researcher on Mar 14, 2017 8:40 AM
Judith K. Arthur
George M. Hesser
My grandfather, George Milton Hesser, is buried in Stillwater, OK.
On his Find a Grave memorial, it lists the wrong child for him.
My uncle Vincent Earl Hesser is his older child and my mother, Olive June Hesser Kennedy is his younger child.
I will be happy to back that up with documents, but the one listed is not correct.
Judith K. Arthur
Alabaster, OK
Added by Judith K. Arthur on Mar 13, 2017 12:39 PM
Deb Stutte
Chester S Brock #30035407
There is a memorial for his wife, Ida Brock out in Arizona. It is #51150309. She is buried out there. Must have gone to live with her daughter, Grace Alberta Baker after Chester died.

Deb Stutte
Added by Deb Stutte on Mar 12, 2017 7:35 PM
Carl Catherman
RE: Florence and Owen Gray
I sent it using the Edit option but sometimes that doesn't work very well. Here is what I wanted you to add
Owen Gray - He was a member of his father's band, Otto Gray and his Oklahoma Cowboy's. Owen's memorial is # 10881195
Florence Gray - She was a member of her husband's band, Otto Gray and His Oklahoma Cowboys. Her memorial is # 10881186
Added by Carl Catherman on Mar 08, 2017 8:28 AM
Carl Catherman
Florence and Owen Gray
On Feb. 6 I sent short notes to be added to their memorials. Did you receive them?
Added by Carl Catherman on Mar 06, 2017 7:10 AM
Dave Davidson
Alexander Brownlee Davidson
Hi Pam, I just wanted to let you know that I sent an obituary transcription for Rev. Alexander Brownlee Davidson (#10809798) through the edit tab on his memorial.

I would greatly appreciate it if you could "copy and paste" the obituary onto the bio section on his memorial.

At your convenience, of course. I just wanted to let you know it was there. Thanks for all your help!

Added by Dave Davidson on Mar 01, 2017 12:50 AM
Pattie Ford
RE: Velma L Beringer Morgan #176690884
Hi Pammy
Sent you thru edits that the death certificate on Velma is in error on what her mothers given name is and how the surname is misspelled. Margaret Jane (Gealy) Beringer is Velma's mother (please link Margaret to father, Burnside Gealy Find A Grave #109385204). How I have Velma linked to her parents is correct. Velma was buried in the same cemetery as her parents, but died in Texas.

Velma's mother, Margaret's (Find A Grave #11155045) father is Burnside Gealy (Find A Grave #109385204) and Margaret's mother is Sarah Jane Humphrey. The name Gealy is misspelled as Gaily, Galey in census and marriage/death records. If you will look on the obituary's of siblings of Margaret she is listed as living and residing in Oklahoma. See Find A Grave # 152861370, 159044608, 109357965, 123552750. Also please notice 2 of Margaret's siblings (Elmer and William the surname on grave markers is spelled Galey Find A Grave #159044608 and Find A Grave #76425172. Even in Elmer's obituary it list Margaret and siblings and his last name is spelled Galey.

Hope this clears up the matter.

Thank you
Added by Pattie Ford on Feb 26, 2017 12:07 PM
Carolyn Leverich Atkinson
Thomas Slater

Can you source your place of birth for Thomas Slater, father of Hannah Marie Slater Courtright who married Richard Courtright? I believe it to be incorrect according to the birth records and census records of Him and his father Isaac.

I look forward to hearing from you.


Carolyn Leverich Atkinson-g granddaughter of Charles Henry Courtright who was son of Richard and Hannah Marie Slater Courtright.
Added by Carolyn Leverich Atkinson on Feb 17, 2017 1:36 AM
Georgea M Sharkey
Find A Grave Memorial# 33458802
Above headstone is for Julia P Bailey Scott and I believe you took the photo. Are you related or have you just filmed the headstone? There is a question as to the year of death by 10 years which is a mystery to a few of us. Thank you for your response.
Added by Georgea M Sharkey on Jan 22, 2017 1:48 PM
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