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Deborah (#47519798)
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Bio Photo Hoping to transfer maintenance of memorials of those who are not my relations. I tried to add genealogy data to help people find their family members. Permission to use photos. They were taken for you. I'm just trying to "pay it forward" in thanks to all who have helped me.

Memorial Day Poem

Two short months have gone, dear Dad, since you have passed away
Yet, most of what you gave to me is still alive today.
Your faith, your love, your strength abide just like a strong oak tree
Because I know, forevermore, you live inside of me.

Dear Mother, ten short years ago, you left this earthly home
Yet, all you said and taught to me still shields me like a dome.
Your care, your smiles, your lessons reign just like a master key
Because I know, forevermore, you live inside of me.

Twenty years have flown, dear Gramps, since I have seen your face.
Yet, all the love you gave to me surrounds me like a brace.
Your caring, thoughtful tenderness dwells like the deep, blue sea
Because I know, forevermore, you live inside of me.

Dear Ancestors, the centuries passed since you walked on this earth
Yet, all your values and your love have found a new rebirth.
Your culture will sustain through time with each new family,
Because I know, forevermore, you live inside of me.
I wrote this on 29 May 2011
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Judith W. (Family Finder)
John A. Williams
Thank you so much for updating the memorial for John A. Williams. I appreciate your help!

Best wishes,
Judith W.
Added by Judith W. (Family Finder) on Jun 17, 2017 9:24 AM
Celeste Simmons
RE: Duplicates
It really is. Thanks for your understanding! Have a great weekend!
Added by Celeste Simmons on May 28, 2017 6:03 AM
RE: Thank you
I always ask for documentation until I get to know your work. Looks like you and I will get along fine ;)
I've had people come back and question the edits I've made and I honestly don't remember where I got the information for each and every one. Sometimes I can barely remember how to get home after work! LOL! I usually post whatever I have as a picture on the memorial page.
Thanks so much for your help and the info!
Added by Laura on Apr 20, 2017 7:34 AM
Celeste Simmons
RE: More duplicates
There are 2 cemeteries that have been incorrectly joined. I have never been to Passaic County. The cemetery these people should have been listed in are just down the road from where I was living in Morris county. I now regret ever doing any memorials there, due to all of the confusion this has caused. I have contacted FindAGrave in order to try and correct this, but haven't had a response. I'm not removing my memorials until they are listed in the correct cemetery. Every person I have listed should be placed in the correct cemetery in Morris county. I'm not sure what else I can do.
Added by Celeste Simmons on Apr 20, 2017 5:54 AM
Shew!!! After a lot of researching I finally found the documentation needed to approve your edits :) No need to bother looking! I had a few minutes to spare this afternoon and opened a can of hour later I finally founded everything!!
Added by Laura on Apr 19, 2017 1:50 PM
Frederick and Margaret Decker edits
Hi Deborah! I didn't see anything on the Decker's memorial to confirm the info you submitted so I was trying to find something to document the edits you requested. I couldn't find a death certificate or birth certificate or Margaret to confirm her info. I was able to find a death certificate for Fred but it appears that they have his POB listed as NJ, not NY. Can you post your documentation to their memorials? I want to make sure I have the right info! Thank you so much!
Added by Laura on Apr 19, 2017 10:11 AM
Carole Elizabeth Nurmi Cummings # 47178231
Hi there
Do believe it was the right link

Am on the Association of Blauvelt Descendants Site. Will put that link back on. Hugs sent your way!
Added by Carole Elizabeth Nurmi C... on Apr 18, 2017 8:53 AM
Janet Nadol
John Requa 169039681
Hello. You sent an edit request linking John Requa to parents Jacob and Eliza. Can you please provide a source. Thank you.
Added by Janet Nadol on Apr 08, 2017 2:29 PM
David Pierce Lytle
Edits on Kate DeBaun Williamson
Hi Deborah,
Thanks for your correct suggestions on parent links and name update for Kate... first wife of my great grandfather, Dr A N Williamson. Matches info from my tree ("Lytle-Williamson Family Tree"). I would like to visit that Nanuet cemetery next time I'm up in that part of the country.
Best regards,
Added by David Pierce Lytle on Apr 07, 2017 8:52 PM
Carole Elizabeth Nurmi Cummings # 47178231
I do wonder who she was!

Since she was born in Westchester County, I know she has to be related to James with sharing the very same headstone!

Since the 1856 matched with the date of his little girl dying per Requa records, we all assumed this was her until Rockland Cemetery said it was not.

Will have to figure this one out!

Rockland could have those cemetery records incorrect as well!

Added by Carole Elizabeth Nurmi C... on Apr 05, 2017 1:58 PM
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